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Sounds like a very good deal...take it or send him my way!! 😉😉

I've been traveling extensively the past month in Central and Southern Africa. Options have been very limited. My NYC regulars keep texting me...I guess they miss me. 😋

Okay you two... @Monarchy79 @pubic_assistance...get a room!

So what's your secret to success? 🤔

Same! ☝️

If there was a "frequently asked" section here, you would find this topic at the top of the list. With no consensus. 10% will say zero tip, 10% will say 100% tip...and the rest will be somewhere in between. I choose to tip for excellent service, but apply judgment as to the size of tip - based on service, fee, experience and history with companion.

I agree with our resident bean counter! ( @Beancounter) There are income limits for a Roth IRA - you can make too much money to qualify...but there are ways around it. Most firms use a financial firm to administer their 401k - like Vanguard, Fidelity or Empower. These firms often offer free advice and you can ask to speak to an advisor about a Roth - just don't let them talk you into doing a rollover (moving money from your 401k to an IRA). If you like podcasts - the Moneygirl podcast has episodes on retirement accounts that will be an hour well spent, before you talk to an advisor.

Here’s what I want to know: How did you find your provider(s)? A: I did some online research - Did you use any specialized kink platforms like Recon or others? A: I ended up on Seeking.com - Did you approach providers who did not list findom as an option, or only those who list findom on their ads? A: No, only those that listed it What made you choose your provider? A: Looks and attitude How did you ask for what you wanted? A: We moves the conversation to Telegram and were able to be direct about expectations Did you clearly, and without feeling any sense of coercion, consent to a findom roleplay scenario before your provider began engaging in your desired role play? A: Yes, we had a meeting of the minds on expectations What boundaries, if any, did you set with your provider before engaging his services? A: We agreed on boundaries, specifically I did not want any items/experiences or locations posted on social media. Did your provider violate any of your clearly communicated and agreed-upon boundaries? A; Yes. I was clear about parameters, but he pushed. For example, he wanted a credit card to operate independently, but that was outside the boundaries we discusses. Did your provider force you to do anything to which you did not consent? A: No Which methods of contact did you use throughout the process, and why? Phone, text, email, app, etc. A: Telegram Did you meet in person? If so, where, and how often? A: Yes, multiple times, first in public and then privately. Weekly. What was your experience like overall? A: Meh How did the experience make you feel? A: A little weird, to be honest. Was the exchange worthwhile? A: No, I wouldnt repeat this adventure How did your experience differ from your expectations? A: It pretty much turned out the way I expected Would you engage your provider again? A: No, not for findom. As a regular hire, yes. Would you seek out a different provider for similar services in the future? A: No Where do you recommend others with similar interests seek out professional, experienced, reliable findom providers? A: I would hesitate to recommend this particular pass time.

The two sites are very different, not just the topics covered but the audience as well. Which is a good thing. Yeay diversity! 👏

That hasn't been my experience and I have floated between the two sites for years as a participating member. Guess I am just lucky! 😌 Thanks @Lucky

I can agree to that.

It is no worse over there than it is over here. Every forest has its "special" trees. If you hang around long enough, you will figure it out. Different isn't necessarily nut-job. 🤓

Previously discussed here: https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/142889-cristopherbu-rentmen-eu-ny/ You participated in discussion - why the new thread?

Aleksandr previously discussed here. Name change. I did not recommend him at the time. https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/139814-aleks-ru-in-nyc/

Are you sure? Singles behavior look contagious to me! 😆

I drown my anxiety in sugar. Have been grazing on candy every time I pass by the bowl. 😆

He's quite the mystery...I am sure you can relate. 😁 It's the price we pay for variety.

There are a bunch of comments from the past three months...how much more recent do you want?? Last night, maybe? 😆

The "haka" doesn't do much for me but the men sure do! I've been very distracted by the Rugby World Cup. Surprised that Australia fared rather poorly - historically a strong team with uber sexy men. 😉

Let us know how your trip turned out! I haven't been back in a while. Love the architecture, the gas lamp lights, the vibe and the food. Even considered painting the ceiling of my porch blue...to "keep the bad spirits away" after I learned of the practice during a past visit. 😁

I can cite numerous studies, but google it to believe your own eyes. There is a reason it is called a "dad bod".

Good looking today, but it will fade fast - check back in 5 years when he is married and sporting a beer belly. As I always say: Have a dick, don't be a dick.

Anyone know what happened to "Bodega Bro", Griffin Green? Just curious - he came up in conversation today...

Opinions. How surprising.

Actually the article is incorrect in that case - her comment about putting a finger in the bullet hole was made to Larry Craig (yes, THAT Larry Craig) as well, on the senate floor when they debated the 1994 gun control legislation. She didn't say she tried to find a pulse - she was trying to stop the bleeding and find a pulse. You can probably find the clip on YouTube. The source article: "I tried to get a pulse and put my finger through a bullet hole."