KeepItReal

I couldn't have said it better myself, in fact, I suspect that if you poll the readers of this forum, most of those that have regulars will have experienced this... We live and learn!

I am sure you are right - asked about him specifically as I am heading to Philly next week and the options available appear to be surprisingly limited. I may actually have to go to a bar to find a companion (gasp!)... lol

Thanks for the suggestions - I asked specifically about this Philly boy because I am heading that way next week. Looks like I need to find reasons to travel further afield too!

The other day I heard somebody say: "You have to find yourself, for everything else there is google!". Witty but untrue. Google is your friend but as @LaffingBear indicated, not perfect. Approach him like you would a White House press release: with caution and healthy skepticism!

When you find a regular and you are satisfied by the repeat experience, there is nothing better. That is my preference. You have to make sure the boundaries that your are both comfortable with are in place for a repeat - I've had some unfortunate experiences where those boundaries were not respected and it soured the relationships. You can probably guess what I am referring to; becomes too clingy, becomes entitled, etc. Similar to @natmas02, I usually only search for a new companion when I am traveling. No relationship is perfect, whether it be with a new companion or a repeat. Be prepared for the curve ball that life will doubtless send your way in due course. Good luck!

I'll admit, it's the blue eyes that got to me. Care to suggest a blue eyed boy to help me scratch this particular (and new, hopefully short lived!) itch?

Anybody have experience with Corey? He seems to be visiting NYC quite frequently, did some googling and found ads on Craigslist, Backpage (http://newyork.backpage.com/MenSeekMen/215-678-8684/115528908) and Hourboy (http://hourboy.com/Corey314). Previously discussed here https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/nevin-from-philadelphia.109673/#post-1026827 but did not see anybody respond with actual experience? Thanks!

Didn't Topher win SYTYCF or something? Looks familiar...

Lord's cricket stadium. Turned into a hat-trick too!

Your thoughtful response makes my post look shallow and immature... Okay, I'm over it, moving on! lol

If I follow your question correctly, you are basically looking for a masseur with a very high sex drive that will be willing to do more than just massage - for it to happen naturally/organically? Hmm. I suspect most of the gentlemen that would be up for more than a massage would likely be available as escorts and their fee for time would be adjusted accordingly.

I'd work my way through the Bel Ami stable. Starting with Jack Harrer and Lukas Ridgeston.

Now I will have to think about it! Sometimes it sucks to have the math skills to work out the odds of winning...

Have you considered asking them to use a dental dam? They come in all flavors these days and are very useful for good hygiene...

I knew there was a reason why I liked Philly so much - they do like to eat well!

No personal experience, but I've seen his ads on a couple of sites. Here is his profile from rentmasseur: https://rentmasseur.com/TheMassageKing It mentions his personal website...

I've heard good things about Joe https://rent.men/Joesph (review here: https://www.daddysreviews.com/search/Active/jo/joesph_dallas) Currently in Los Angeles. If you set clear expectations - let him know what you want ahead of time, I think you will be happy.

You may have more luck asking about this masseur in the "Spa" section of the forum - that is where the massage gurus hang out...

I am sorry about your bad luck. It happens to all of us at some point. When you do come across one of those guys that are not up for the...ehhm...task; please do submit a review. As long as you are factual about the (non!)events - you'll feel better for getting it out of your system and feel empowered by helping out the community on this forum.

From the comments here, I am beginning to think that I may have been a little too trusting in my PM's in the past. Thanks for raising awareness...

Bumping this discussion. Anyone have actual experience with AlxAlx? (https://rentmen.eu/AlxAlx)?

Yup, he was on Rentmen in Ft Lauderdale, FL earlier this year.

I tend to agree (from experience) if the money question gets raised in the first few minutes, I am likely to be disappointed by the outcome of the meeting. Experienced escorts don't do that and understand that they are supposed to be focusing their attention on you from the moment of first eye contact. Escorts that are building their 'book of business' and hoping for repeat clients; take note of this and learn from the mistakes of others!!

Looks like he puts up a new CL ad for every day that he is available. If you go to m4m on CL and search for "healing touch" you should be able to find his ad.

I've had a couple of appointments with Cal. Nice guy, enjoyed the massage. Massage is on the lighter side (not deep muscle) but that was fine for me. Rates are reasonable. Didn't watch the clock and we usually chat casually during our sessions. I plan to see him again.