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What happens during a massage? The session usually starts with a massage. Can be a light rub down or a more intensive massage, depending on the skills of the masseur. Also a good time to get to know the masseur a little if it is the first time. The session usually starts with you on your stomach and the masseur working on the back of the body, neck to feet. Then later, you will be asked to turn around and then the masseur will work on the front. Is the massage followed by JO? It depends on the type of massage. If you ask for an erotic massage, in my view I expect to be happy in the end, so at least a release by hand. I would also expect that mutual touching would be okay. Sometimes there can be more, but really, if I want more, I hire an escort and not a masseur. Sensual massage can mean anything, so this is a case where you may want to specify your expectations (mutual touch, happy ending etc). Therapeutic massage I don't expect anything more than a massage (and a good one at that) from a licensed masseur. Is it massage followed by full-on sex? In my experience, no. I am sure that it happens from time to time, but has never happened to me (perhaps I am doing it wrong!) and it is not my expectation. How is booking with a masseur different than booking with an escort? When you hire as a masseur, you should expect less than you would from a full service escort. As an example, when I arrange time with an escort, I usually specify my preferences (top, kissing etc). With a masseur I do not - don't expect it to go that far. Helpful?

My first M2M experience was with an escort. One of my better decisions!

Thank you all! http://godsgracefaces.us/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/i_thank_you.gif

I quite enjoy James May ("Captain slow!"), and I will admit that I miss the Stig.

If you are in the market for a hot porn star that loves to kiss and bottom, look no further than Dan (https://rentmen.eu/GoodLookingGuy) His hourly rate is very reasonable when compared with others in that category. Spoken of highly here in the forum and also have reviews available on this site.

I like to do a bit of homework before I replace possessions - especially the expensive type. Not the only one to do so, I am sure. This year I have to replace an amplifier and some exercise equipment. Back in the day, that meant Consumer Reports, but nowadays there are many website, Youtube channels etc dedicated to providing ratings and advice to consumers. My go-to site is Wirecutter - anything from condoms to ipads; very comprehensive and helpful https://thewirecutter.com/ So gentlemen - do you use a different source,site I should consider, where do you place your trust? Thanks!

What is the secret to your good fortune? Clean living? Pure thoughts?

I think he looks more handsome today - improved with age; he's probably added about 20 pounds in weight (in all the right places!)

He is still on rentmen - link works for me: https://rent.men/NickParker/

I couldn't have said it better myself, in fact, I suspect that if you poll the readers of this forum, most of those that have regulars will have experienced this... We live and learn!

I am sure you are right - asked about him specifically as I am heading to Philly next week and the options available appear to be surprisingly limited. I may actually have to go to a bar to find a companion (gasp!)... lol

Thanks for the suggestions - I asked specifically about this Philly boy because I am heading that way next week. Looks like I need to find reasons to travel further afield too!

The other day I heard somebody say: "You have to find yourself, for everything else there is google!". Witty but untrue. Google is your friend but as @LaffingBear indicated, not perfect. Approach him like you would a White House press release: with caution and healthy skepticism!

When you find a regular and you are satisfied by the repeat experience, there is nothing better. That is my preference. You have to make sure the boundaries that your are both comfortable with are in place for a repeat - I've had some unfortunate experiences where those boundaries were not respected and it soured the relationships. You can probably guess what I am referring to; becomes too clingy, becomes entitled, etc. Similar to @natmas02, I usually only search for a new companion when I am traveling. No relationship is perfect, whether it be with a new companion or a repeat. Be prepared for the curve ball that life will doubtless send your way in due course. Good luck!

I'll admit, it's the blue eyes that got to me. Care to suggest a blue eyed boy to help me scratch this particular (and new, hopefully short lived!) itch?

Anybody have experience with Corey? He seems to be visiting NYC quite frequently, did some googling and found ads on Craigslist, Backpage (http://newyork.backpage.com/MenSeekMen/215-678-8684/115528908) and Hourboy (http://hourboy.com/Corey314). Previously discussed here https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/nevin-from-philadelphia.109673/#post-1026827 but did not see anybody respond with actual experience? Thanks!

Didn't Topher win SYTYCF or something? Looks familiar...

Lord's cricket stadium. Turned into a hat-trick too!

Your thoughtful response makes my post look shallow and immature... Okay, I'm over it, moving on! lol

If I follow your question correctly, you are basically looking for a masseur with a very high sex drive that will be willing to do more than just massage - for it to happen naturally/organically? Hmm. I suspect most of the gentlemen that would be up for more than a massage would likely be available as escorts and their fee for time would be adjusted accordingly.

I'd work my way through the Bel Ami stable. Starting with Jack Harrer and Lukas Ridgeston.

Now I will have to think about it! Sometimes it sucks to have the math skills to work out the odds of winning...

Have you considered asking them to use a dental dam? They come in all flavors these days and are very useful for good hygiene...

I knew there was a reason why I liked Philly so much - they do like to eat well!

No personal experience, but I've seen his ads on a couple of sites. Here is his profile from rentmasseur: https://rentmasseur.com/TheMassageKing It mentions his personal website...