KeepItReal

At this point, I think that is a good plan. Get him out of your house and on the train. Not sure how coherent he will be. You may want to wait until a later time to convey your disappointment in how things turn out. Sorry your weekend didn't turn out great.

So you're out 450 and didn't even get off? 😐 Bad investment, that! I've done me fair share of cleaning up the graveyard of dead hopes the morning after. See if you can find an opportunity to turn it around, but otherwise, let it go. Not sure what you agreed to compensate him (same as previous time you met up, I assume?) but if I were in your shoes I would compensate him for his time, what I would think is fair and write it off as experience. I would also convey, no tip, no bonus as our evening did not go as planned. Now, let's talk about your fuck buddy... 😆

Interesting indeed. A companion i have been seeing for 2 years, fairly regularly called me over the weekend and told me he wanted to become my live in boyfriend. He wants to quit his job, sell his house and move in with me. I was dumb struck, first because he called me (we usually text!) and secondly because he thinks I have that kind of money that can support his fairly splashy lifestyle! My only hope is to win the Mega Millions this weekend. To be clear: if I had the money I'd jump at the chance!

Well, if he doesn't want to kiss he'd better find another use for that tongue! 😛 He does look yummy!

He hit me up on Grindr after I looked at his profile. His proposed fee was much less, so I suspect he may be flexible on his rate. 🤷‍♂️

I am sure there is someone for everyone. But to me, at least, Zachy is the least interesting man on Rentmen. If Ben Stein was on Rentmen they'd be neck to neck. 😋

I think a different rate sounds appropriate and clearly would make you more comfortable @figureskater. A corporate consultant may make $50 per hour behind his desk during the week, but makes $15 per hour when he drives an Uber over the weekend. It is not unusual for time to be valued differently by Mr Market. If driving that Uber means the consultant misses out on a consulting gig, that would be a different consideration.

I assume that explains why he is a "previous boyfriend" then?

You sound like Peter Lynch (Buy what you know). I am more of a John Bogle man myself (Own the entire stock market).

I am curious- what markets do you usually hire in and do you target a specific demographic?

I would be fascinated to hear how you know the families were mislead. Please provide source or are is that just your assumption? From what I heard, they acknowledged the various noises as they were detected and determined they were inconclusive. Until they found wreckage. That is what you are missing. https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jun/21/titanic-sub-search-underwater-noises-picked-up-by-canadian-plane-us-coast-guard-says

Yeah, it hasn't gotten any better. https://www.cnbc.com/2023/06/23/grindr-went-public-7-months-ago-heres-whats-happened-since.html?&qsearchterm=grindr

I tried to connect with him this week. Very slow to respond so I moved on. Was nice enough when he finally responded to my text.

This topic again. Sigh. 🙈

This was the purpose of the review site.

I took it the same way. If I was concerned with safety, I would wait two days, open a thread on the companion (or add to an existing thread) and simply say: Met him recently, would not recommend. @rustyrex is a long time member - enough said.

We see you.

He advocated for, and supported, gay conversion therapy. Did you know that? But sure, I am the one exaggerating.

I don't want to shut it down...I just want to call it what it is. Bbaaaaddd!

And that should tell you everything you need to know about organized religion.

Funny how many of those "fair minded people" allowed him to cloak his hate in religious beliefs for so many years. The families he broke apart, the lives he destroyed... I guess our definition of "fair" may differ quite a bit.

Shake away!

We tried that. High road didn't work for us - now its time to go low. That's where the traction is. See you there.

Big man! I'd hate to be the one who has to see to his care and feeding! 🤭