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A big favorite of mine is Abel Rey, a prominent escort in NYC until a few years ago, who even had his own YouTube channel “Ask an Escort”. I haven’t seen him in a couple of years, and he’s now successfully moved into a more ‘conventional’ job and is doing well. Over time, he took down his RM add and web site. Such a sweet, sexy guy, with a great personality and love for life. In my early days of hiring, he treated me with tenderness and compassion and the sex was mind blowing!

https://rent.men/LatinRedHead Been with him a few times. Highly recommended.

A lot of what a masseur puts on his ad is open to interpretation. If they list all types of massage (therapeutic, sensual and erotic) then there’s a chance but not a guarantee that it will progress to full on oral and anal. I look at the masseur’s private pictures as an indicator. Close ups of an ass indicate he’s a bottom, pics of a hard dick, maybe he’s a top but again, nothing is guaranteed. Many masseurs will take it further if they really like the client, which is why they are masseurs and not escorts.

I recently met https://rent.men/SantiSF/ and would definitely repeat.

When I saw him last September he did outcalls only. That may have changed by now. Worth asking.

If you’re a bottom looking to relax more, then indica or hybrid is better. If you’re a top, then sativa or hybrid. But it’s all down to personal choice and how you react to each.

A good indicator is the private pics on Rentmasseur. If they show a close up of their butt hole or erect dick, that often implies that they are open to engaging in more activities. You do need a premium account to be able to unlock those pictures though. I asked a masseur once if he’d considered doing escorting. His take was that as an escort he’d be expected to have sex with the client, but as a masseur, he could decide how far he wanted to take it and set limits if he didn’t want to do more than a “happy ending” usually a hand job.

Some friends of mine that live in NYC tried it at thanksgiving. The outward journey was fabulous, but the return trip got stuck in traffic and took 7 hours.

I also saw him in Oakland, 4-5 years ago, then he moved to Palm Springs and he’s now in Vacaville. He did give a great massage with lots of extras. The first time I went to him, I thought he was going to try and enter me. I asked if he had a condom and he responded “I’m not going in. I’m just teasing you” I kind of felt that he would have gone in if I hadn’t said anything. Don’t get me wrong, I would have been OK with it but I wasn’t on PrEP and didn’t want to take the chance. I wouldn’t mind trying him again. BTW, his dick is very thick. Vaxxed and PrEPed, I’m open to a lot more.

And maybe you’ll get far enough to say “Me encanta tu culo” 😜

The name of the first one cracks me up when you read the url. I know it’s meant to be “who represents” but I read it as “whore presents” 😂😂

I have hired him and would absolutely duo so again. He was quite forthcoming with pictures before I met him, but sent them directly rather than posting them in a more public place.

I recently had an amazing experience with https://rent.men/SantinoCruzXXX. He is vers and very skilled as a top.

An escort I know well went to Egypt a couple of years ago. He loved the history, architecture and sightseeing, but hated the repressive laws in which gay sex is punishable by imprisonment, and he did not dare to enter into any activity that would have put him in danger. If you go there, keep your dick in your pants at all times.

No, I’m in CA. Nurx is not authorized to practice in a few states and I know that NY is one of them.

Thanks for the comments and insights. It’s not really a big deal for me, I was just surprised when my doctor mentioned it.

The doctor asked the question and knew about it before I had my blood work done, so it was definitely some sort of shared information or database.

I’ve always enjoyed Seattle, but sounds like it’s recently become my kind of town for sure. 😀

So I finally decided to get on PrEP, but wanted to do it as discretely as possible. Nurx makes it really easy, but as far as I can see, they only operate in the US and not in every state. They sent me a home testing kit for a urine sample, blood sample, throat swab and anal swab (women also get a vaginal swab). I mailed back the samples and swabs, got the results quickly and they prescribed the meds. The testing cost $15 for the copay, but the meds did not come quite as cheaply. I had a copay of $420 for a 90 day supply. I got a generic for Truvada and so far, no side effects at all. I used to pay for a private STD test fairly regularly, so it probably won’t cost me too much more as I will likely need to get tested every 3 months before getting a new prescription The one thing that surprised me was that I went for my annual physical last week and my doctor had on record that I was taking Truvada. I don’t think I gave any info on my primary care physician when registering with Nurx, so just curious how the information got transmitted. It’s not a big deal for me, just a surprise I wasn’t expecting.

In my experience, most providers prefer cash and that keeps true identities hidden on both sides. Only once have I been asked for an electronic payment, but that was from somone I already knew and trusted. Anything less, cash is definitely the way to go.

I always book at least a day or two in advance, or if I’m traveling and want to book time with an escort while I’m in his city, I usually book about a week ahead. I did have a surprising experience last time I was in Madrid. I had booked a great guy fir Wednesday night and had a great time with him, could not meet on Thursday so tried to book him for Friday but he was going out of town. Late on the Thursday night I contacted another guy to ask if he was available the next night. He responded that “I am not available tomorrow night. But I’m free now if you like”. He got to my hotel within an hour and it was another great session. So those short bookings do work, but I wouldn’t rely on them.

Did you ever meet up with him? I’m heading to NYC soon and interested in hiring him.

Sounds like you’re fairly decided on Colorado, but my favorite place to ski in the west (actually on the world) is Whistler in Canada. It’s an easy drive from Vancouver, unbelievable skiing for every level, good nightlife and gay friendly.

I sent you a PM with more detail.

You are definitely not alone in your story. Mine is remarkably similar, with the constant question of whether I should break from my "old" life, or stay with it and just enjoy the company of guys whenever I can. There's no right or wrong answer here, just whatever feels right for each individual.