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On 4/23/2024 at 9:39 AM, Moox said:

Hello friends. Last week I had a tiny lesion on the penile skin frozen off. The nurse says it was a wart (though I am wondering if it was a skin tag, I have a tendency for those and they appear in warm areas). I asked her when I can be sexually active again and she said as soon as the wart is gone. But I go to lots of parties and condoms are not that effective against it, I don't think. I am aware that a fair few men at the parties are in other relationships, with all genders. The odd one or two are married to females and not out at all in daily life. I hate the thought of passing it on and wrecking a relationship. How long do I have to wait? Or is that it, game over? The thought of that depresses me greatly. Life is a bit rough and the occasional, once a month or so, partying is the only thing I look forward to.

 

Any advice would gratefully received.

Are you vaccinated for HPV? If not, you should. 
 

and add to that:

1.) Meningitis, 

2.) Pneumonia

3.) Monkeypox (if you haven’t already, just in case) 

3.) PrEP

and have some doxycycline available too.

since you’re very social, might as well be protected…. And condoms don’t hurt either .

#endcondomshaming

Hello All, 

Checking out this guy to see if anyone has had any experience with him.

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Please DO NOT POST any editorial comments     or any other comments, unless you’ve actually had an appointment with this guy. 
 

Also feel free to PM me too. 
 

Thanks, 

I see nothing wrong with not kissing…. Honestly, a lot of guys have poor oral hygiene and terrible breath. 
 

As for oral….. if two men are getting naked for any action…. Escort, hookup, whatever… some things need to be sucked/licked… 

I never understood having the main course without the appetizer… but to each his own… 

Another point to consider….

Asking someone if they live alone can come off creepy, as if you’re the “Craigslist Killer”. 😂….

This is one of the reasons why I feel that the host should disclose if they have a roommate. 
 

Hey Guys, 

SacredIntimate is in my area this weekend and I wanted to know if anyone has booked him before. 
 

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2 hours ago, viewing ownly said:In hind sight (words separated for pun use), I should've kept my personal desire to myself, 

I’m glad you shared your personal desire/preferences , and I also think that some of the most intense discussions are the ones where people actually learn from the most. What makes these forums valuable is the authenticity in what forum members post. 
 

The “gut” is usually right. 
it’s when we think with our dicks that we wind up saying….. 

“I knew better.” 

3 hours ago, Hot4latin said:

yeah, but you can never find one when you need one 

Ain’t that the truth!!! LOL

There are enough sexual predators out here who provide such a service for free….. 

Further, specific to massage…. It would be smart for an independent masseur to offer a discount. 
1.) unlike masseurs and CMTs who work in spas and parlors , you take your entire earnings home, and 

2.) you can literally control the pricing to offer what appears who be a “discount” and still get your desired earnings. 
 

it’s critical to think strategically with making such business decisions. 

On 2/14/2024 at 6:48 PM, Shawn Monroe said:

If you you made $300+ an hour and you had a boss, would you agree to take a pay cut from your boss if they asked. 

I see your point, but your analogy is a bit off. 

Working for someone in a business and being shortchanged on your hourly rate is entirely different than being an independent proprietor and offering discounts on products or services to attract clients (and your rates are self-controlled, and are above the rate of inflation to begin with). 

First off, most professionals who work in companies have hourly rates they are legally tied to through the Bureau of Labor Statistics. They are also contractually obligated to their pay as well.

Many independent businesses associated with various services offer discounts… it’s intended to attract new clientele and grow a base. And usually the discount isn’t much in the first place. 

It’s  important that any business operates with maintaining respect for its brand, while not running it with their ego. This is a hard balance….

If you have a roommate, either:

1.) Disclose that you have one and they will be present, or

2.) Make arrangements for the roommate NOT to be there when you’re meeting with a client. 
 

Clients expect privacy for many reasons and also keep in mind that although you and the client may not know each other (and both of you are taking some risk with meeting), the roommate is even more of a stranger AND a surprise to the client. 
 

Consider this a nominal fee you paid to learn two valuable lessons:

1.) Don’t give deposits

2.) When people have long stories, explanations or exchanges, filled with “complex” matters and circumstances… it’s usually bullshit. 
 

Quoting a saying from the 1990’s, 

you’re just going to have to “Charge this one to the game…..”

2 minutes ago, Charlie said:

If anyone decides this topic is worthy of a photo gallery, I won't be watching.

That photo gallery would definitively belong in the “niche”, area of the Fetish Forum…. LOL

16 hours ago, APPLE1 said:

I consider myself incredibly pragmatic. So:

1) I am very comfortable with the fact that the digestive system is one long tube, and whatever goes in the top comes out the bottom. 🤷🏻 

2) While I may not want to injest shit, or have it over flowing everywhere, I recognized long ago that if my sexual proclivities included the insides of assholes, at some point, shit will be present. 🤷🏻 

3) I learned long ago that sheets, towels, fingers, hands, and penises, along with many other things, are all washable. 🤷🏻 

4) I couldn't imagine being in a relationship and having to have he conversation, "hey hon, I am horney. Could you go clean out so a few hours from now we can have sex?" 🤷🏻 

I think that what  you’re referring to is not exactly the issue here. We’re not talking about the practices or judgments on douching before sex. We’re talking about some mens’ inability to wipe and wash their butts. We’re talkin’ base-level here…. 

In many cases, masseurs and massage therapists cannot give a thorough massage because the client has skids, tissue paper and dingleberries from his un-wiped butt. 
 

8 hours ago, yessiree48 said:

Holy hell as a younger guy that’s relatively new to this hobby, I can’t believe this is a thing with clients.  I guess because I always imagined escort clients to be the well-groomed executive types due to movies and pop culture.  I always make sure I’m trimmed and clean all over before any hookup, let alone massage/session

 

You providers have my sympathy

But it’s not just providers who experience this….

In the general dating world, hygiene is a major     topic of angst, in all genders, across the spectrum of sexual orientations. 
 

Question:

Why is it a surprise that some of these potential clients have poor communication issues, or are overly sensitive, or are just simply socially inept? 
 

For some of these guys, that’s why they are reaching out to hire… Just imagine them communicating in real life with men outside of the realm of hiring. 

3 hours ago, topunderachiever said:

I'm curious.  What percentage of men (in the US) over the age of 60 do you think use ED meds regularly for their sexual encounters?  

This is a really good question, as I personally know of two guys who use it, they a both under 50, and use it for recreational purposes.

13 minutes ago, Simon Suraci said:

I am embarrassed FOR them, but I know they are just completely out of touch with their bodies and how these things work. 

These are men who have the means of paying hundreds of dollars for your time. They are definitely in touch with their bodies. They are also definitely in touch with their extreme social ineptitude. 
 

Ill bet you that if a provider decided not to wipe and put his toilet-tissue-stuffed butt in the clients’ face, not only would he be suddenly “aware” of such matters, but he’d complain about it vehemently too. 

This lack of social respect goes beyond this level of personal service too. I’ve seen numerous Reddit threads where professional waxers and doctors have encountered filthy people who know they are about to receive a service in very “personal” areas, and will show up disgustingly unclean. 
 

You owe people who present themselves like this no empathy. You don’t have to be rude, but you don’t have to coddle them or comfort them either. Please use your right to refuse service. 
 

5 minutes ago, Simon Suraci said:

Some clients are completely oblivious. I even wipe some of them, without saying anything. 

Oblivious? Or just casually inconsiderate? 
 

I consider proper hygiene to be a moral, social and spiritual obligation. 

If anyone (client, provider, hookup), presents themselves to you in an extremely unhygienic manner, consider it an act of disrespect and end the encounter. No discussion, no suggestions to take a shower and no sensitivities about it. 

No grown man should be walking around with toilet paper stuck to his improperly-wiped butt crack. Nor should he have dingleberries or skids. He knows of his activities throughout the day and knows that he should take care of ALL of that before meeting up with anyone. This means that soap, suds and water must be scrubbed and rinsed thoroughly through your body before any and every encounter. 

Period.

16 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

I was approached years ago by a small, but well-known publishing house in NYC.  I was asked to write a sample chapter for them to look at.

They didn't like how I blurred the more juicy details.  They clearly wanted a tell-all (or something like one).

I said I'd be more interested in writing it as fiction.  Alluding to, but not directly pointing things out.

I tried to frame it as good for them to avoid lawsuits.  They didn't budge.

That was the end of me ever wanting to write a book.

 

It’s unfortunately that the publishing house didn’t budge. 
 

They could have possibly considered transforming it into a set of scripts for a miniseries (TV show) or a movie. 

40 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

I've never been stiffed on my rate for time, but was once taken for a rather large hotel bill.

Client was a solid guy for 15+ years.  He was visiting NYC.  Suite at the Carlyle.  His card was giving him issues, so I graciously put down a cc and he agreed to make sure I was paid back.  I didn't think there'd be an issue.

There was an issue.  A $24k issue.

Moral of story:  Don't confuse being gracious and being stupid. 

I ended up getting my money back. 

From what I was told, he eventually ended up dead, pulling this same bullshit on people who weren't so understanding of his con.

You need to write a book. 

This is great news…. 
No one wants to be walking around with a hard dick, and then not remember what to actually do with it…..