TCin949

Sometimes, you want your boat to be "destroyed"….
Trust me. 

Exactly.
I have never hired a masseur for sex.
but
I've certainly had sex with a masseur.
You want a guarantee ? Hire a sex worker.

Been there. Done that. Don’t do it. Adopt a dog. 

I agree with the others, do not pursue the firm for your legal needs. Cancel the appointment... it doesn't matter if it's 9 am tomorrow, just call at 8 and say you need to cancel because you have become aware of a conflict. You do not need to elaborate, and can decline to explain if asked. But then you are no longer wasting your time or their time. Most likely they're busy and will be grateful that they will be able to use the time productively for something else.
I had a potential job interview a few weeks ago. All through the day leading up to the interview I began having second thoughts, and ultimately came to the conclusion that I didn't want the job. So I canceled the interview two hours before it was scheduled. Short notice, yes, but better than wasting everyone's time.
As for whether to let on to your provider that you know about his day job, I'd keep it to yourself if I were you. This hobby involves discretion, which can involve not disclosing everything we may know, whether we are providers or clients. Allow him to take the lead on disclosing anything personal about himself.

Personally speaking (and as a lawyer myself) I would say do not go to the meeting and find a different law firm to represent you. Not sure where you live, but I live in the NYC area and there are LOTS of lawyers to choose from. You might also consider the effect you may have on your companion. He has only met you once and doesn't know what kind of a person you are. If you eventually establish a relationship with him and you are comfortable with each other, he might disclose his "day job" to you. Since he is not aware that you know about his "day" job, seeing you in the office would likely engender a bad reaction in him.  He might be concerned that his sex work would become known to his firm, which could result in his dismissal  and possibly sanctioning by the state bar. I think you will do both of you a big favor by foregoing the appointment with his law firm and not mentioning it to him at your next meet up.

Has Scott McLean from CNN been mentioned here? I’ve seen him recently and couldn’t keep my eyes off him 🤤
 
Well this is a 10 year old photo but he’s still sexy as hell

Dean Cain is handsome in a William Shatner kind of way.

 
But enough about him.
Does anyone else like the young man sitting behind Ms. Matthew's.  My eyes might return to him in the lockerroom.  Do they call that "corn fed good looks"?

I think this is a common “fear” for everyone who bottoms. I’m pretty much “set a clock by it” regular, and I still prep (douche) prior to any encounter or if I’m going out, and hoping for one that night. Many moons ago, after I exited the “Top Highway”, and was beginning to merge onto the “Versatile Expressway”, an older gay friend advised my to start taking metamucil every night before I went to bed. That definitely helps, as does diet. 

As I’m now travelling 98% exclusively on the “Bottom Freeway”, I am thankful that I’ve not had any accidents, *touch wood*. I’m not saying I never have, but honestly the last I can recall was back when I was like 20-21, and I was still calling it “experimenting”. It was my first successful attempt at bottoming (previous 2 attempts ended with “take it out! take it out!” Lol) meaning he got it all in. Hot hockey jock and found out after, it was his first time topping (we had been playing around for a few weeks, with him as the bottom). Successful encounter we both enjoyed to completion. As he pulled out, not so successful. So yeah, there was a bit of an issue with the pop-poo. Thankfully we were both drunk enough to laugh it off, but not too drunk that we didn’t rinse off and change the sheets before crashing. Next day tho, I was mortified. That, and the fact I *really* enjoyed bottoming kind of scared me from bottoming for a bit. Thankfully I conquered that! 

For me, metamucil every night, a good diet with plenty of fiber, and ruffage, and a douche about an hour before your engagement does the trick. If you just want to be prepared when you go out “just in case”, what I’ve found works for me is all of the above with a heavy dinner type meal for lunch, then nothing to eat until après-coitus. 
 
BBD 

Don’t know if it counts, but there used to be lots of porn movie theaters.
Kevin Slater

I used to think this was all black and white.......finally realized there are many layers, shades, and comfort levels with sexuality....
some straight guys can only bottom if they're messing around with a dude, some guys have to be giving head to get off, some bi? guys can only have an emotional relationship with a woman but are very happy to physically mess around with a dude, some straight guys love it when their wife or girlfriend uses a strap-on with them, some gay guys don't want anything near their butt, some other guys..........well, you get it......
 
 

You were the hall monitor in elementary school weren't you ?

There is nothing nicer than a warm late evening of 20 degrees. And bonus here, we've got no humidity and no mosquitos. (But don't tell anyone.)

You do realize that if we deleted every thread that ran off course and engaged in “wild speculation", there would be no forum….right?

So glad to know I am not the only one with super hard-wired nipples.   I've had many partners who don't enjoy it at all.   Second to kissing, it gets me juiced and ready to go faster than anything.
 

So, I guess I will see you at 7 PM tomorrow then.  I will be the fat guy in the cow suit.  SURPRISE

Here's a tip someone gave me on another thread. If they have a phone number listed on their ad and you don't wanna put it in your phone put it in the notes box that pops up when you first add them to your buddy list. So if they freeze their ad or it expires and the phone number is gone you will still have it.

I like missionary when topping. I like looking at his face and kissing

Hands down Missionary. The one where the other guy is in you and also laying on top you kissing. Lol idk if i explained it right.
Not a lot of providers are able to do it in my experience but the ones that do...oh la la. It takes me to utopia 😂
But I do believe that position is easier for man and women. Because how the vagina is located vs anal is further down, so maybe a lot of escorts are not able to do it.

Since when is 6 ft not considered tall? 

Been there, done that, wasn't fun. That's why I'm so delighted to now be 73 and not have to care if somebody likes me or not. I'm at the stage now where if I hurt my wrist, I have to lay off sex for a week or two. Hook-ups are not really a part of my current lifestyle and I've grown comfortable with that.
I'm not saying you should wait 20 years and see what happens, but I am saying you're not the first to experience these feelings and you're not alone.
A few perspectives:
I was in my 60's before I ate my first scallop; didn't think I'd like them. And I was right. But I wouldn't know that if I hadn't tried one. If you've never had sex with a man, you won't know if it's really to your liking until you try. In The Deli section, I read members' descriptions of gorgeous escorts I wouldn't take a second look at; I just don't see the attraction. It's a constant reminder that "Nobody is everyone's type, and everyone is somebody's type." Don't sell yourself short. Somebody out there will think you're perfect for them. You're on a site that features information on young men (and some not so young) willing to satisfy your curiosity about male-on-male closeness. It can be a bumpy ride and is not without risks. But if you're inclined to try this route, sticking to well-reviewed providers on this site will lessen the chances for a bad experience. For my maiden voyage -all those years ago- I had no such resource. I did my shopping in Times Square and it wasn't the best of times, but it did make me realize I wanted more. I liked those "scallops!" Imagine you are 73 and say to yourself, "If only I were 52 again and had the rest of my life in front of me." Well, you are and you do, so make the most of it. Best of luck and keep us posted. And Welcome to our family.

As a a top I love to manhandle and play rough when dominating, of course communication is key. 

It's not a show for short attention spans. 
It's a slow burn, but a rewarding one. 

Same here.  If there was a TV show for e-mail hoarding, I’d be on it.  The only e-mails I delete at work are out of office notifications and the few spam items which get through our firewall/. Everything else gets archived.  At my previous job, I was able to produce an e-mail string from five years earlier when someone accused us of mishandling their issue.  It’s called CYA.  

I cannot even believe this post. Yes, you’re being conned.