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Rick M

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(I tried searching for an existing discussion, but they seem to be back in the early 2000s.) Is it wrong to want this? For myself, mind you, or perhaps as a third party with a top and consenting bottom. "But that's not rape," you'll say. Okay... Simulated rape.

I talked to a provider I trust and he's willing to go along with idea, whenever we can get our calendars in sync.

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Nothing is wrong if it's between two consenting adults.  It's just fantasy.

Newsflash:  Don't allow woke PCism in your bedroom unless you want it there. 

If something off the beaten path makes your dick hard, I guarantee there's someone out there with the EXACT same fetish (or an escort willing to oblige).  With trust in someone, or at least an understanding, the sky's the limit.

Explore away.

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I think everyone should play out their sexual fantasies while our libido and bodies still can. I came out of the closet after my divorce in my 30s and I’ve been experimenting with abandon in a way making up for the lost time… Back to the topic! I particularly do not like the aspects of pain when it comes to a rape fantasy but I’d prefer a scenario where I visit a friend who happens to have a guest over, they get me drunk or high enough to take advantage of me. I would attempt to resist their touches but they’ll talk me into it since I’m at their mercy literally… that’s a hot fantasy I’m looking to play out with trustworthy service providers.

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This sort of fantasy requires more than a couple of big asks from your top. 

Earned absolute trust. (Prior meets)

Excellent acting, including experience with non-damaging physical combat. (A stage actor?) 

Significant turn on - hot for you and for the scenario.

 

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15 hours ago, jeezifonly said:

This sort of fantasy requires more than a couple of big asks from your top. 

Earned absolute trust. (Prior meets)

Excellent acting, including experience with non-damaging physical combat. (A stage actor?) 

Significant turn on - hot for you and for the scenario.

 

In a perfect world, you'd be exactly right.

However, this isn't a perfect world and truly anonymous, unplanned sex turns a lot of guys on.  While letting their dick do all the thinking, I've heard some incredible (both sexy and stupid) stories of situations people have gotten themselves into. 

With many guys, that edge of fear is what makes the experience work.  It heightens a situation.  An overplanned 'scene' is what ruins it for them.

 

 

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Honestly- this is not good for your mental health. I used to have this fetish. It was rooted in abuse. 
 

sorry. I think this is out of style like crossing bathrooms are out. Try getting off another way. Also fetished this and moved on after 30 as I was 13 when I met men this way  . It was not the right way to have sex as a kid  

it gets deeper and darker down this road. I been there. You also meet terrible people who want to do this to you. 

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1 hour ago, Kxev said:

Honestly- this is not good for your mental health. I used to have this fetish. It was rooted in abuse.

It was not right FOR YOU. 

It was based in abuse FOR YOU. 

That's certainly not the case for everyone.

Don't paint with too-wide a brush. It never tends to end well.

 

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9 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

That's certainly not the case for everyone.

Don't paint with too-wide a brush. It never tends to end well.

Forced sex fantasies have psychological roots and personal and social impacts.

Sure explore it and move on if you are a mentally stable person.

it is a fact however that abusive past leads to these fetishization - I had it. It lead and keep fueling low self esteem.

When you realize your worth - you stop having these needs.

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4 minutes ago, Kxev said:

Forced sex fantasies have psychological roots and personal and social impacts.

Sure explore it and move on if you are a mentally stable person.

it is a fact however that abusive past leads to these fetishization - I had it. It lead and keep fueling low self esteem.

When you realize your worth - you stop having these needs.

I completely see how someone could get into this cycle and it be a terrible long term behavior.

You realized it.  You moved on.  That's fantastic.

However, don't discount that there are millions of mentally healthy people out there who simply want something other than the missionary position.  They function 'normally' otherwise, but in the bedroom are fucking freaks (and I say that with a lot of love and respect).

Like I said before, we can't paint with too broad a brush.  Everyone is different.

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On 1/25/2022 at 1:31 PM, Rick M said:

(I tried searching for an existing discussion, but they seem to be back in the early 2000s.) Is it wrong to want this? For myself, mind you, or perhaps as a third party with a top and consenting bottom. "But that's not rape," you'll say. Okay... Simulated rape.

I talked to a provider I trust and he's willing to go along with idea, whenever we can get our calendars in sync.

the better term is CNC - concentual non-consent. I find it super hot too but its hard to find someone who wants to be the rapist (lol wonder why)

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On 1/25/2022 at 4:39 PM, BenjaminNicholas said:

Nothing is wrong if it's between two consenting adults.  It's just fantasy.

Newsflash:  Don't allow woke PCism in your bedroom unless you want it there. 

If something off the beaten path makes your dick hard, I guarantee there's someone out there with the EXACT same fetish (or an escort willing to oblige).  With trust in someone, or at least an understanding, the sky's the limit.

Explore away.

amen !!

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On 4/9/2022 at 8:46 PM, jeezifonly said:

This sort of fantasy requires more than a couple of big asks from your top. 

Earned absolute trust. (Prior meets)

Excellent acting, including experience with non-damaging physical combat. (A stage actor?) 

Significant turn on - hot for you and for the scenario.

 

yes to the acting !!! i feel like a lot of times ive tried to like make scenes turn more CNC they just fizzled out cuz me and him arent good actors lol.

i want to find two guys who are really believable and like break into my hotel room and just shout at me constantly while they do it so then i dont have to talk too much lol

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On 5/12/2022 at 11:41 AM, Kxev said:

Forced sex fantasies have psychological roots and personal and social impacts.

Sure explore it and move on if you are a mentally stable person.

it is a fact however that abusive past leads to these fetishization - I had it. It lead and keep fueling low self esteem.

When you realize your worth - you stop having these needs.

then why do i have it ! when i have no abusive past lol

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My first sexual experience with a man was non-consensual. Yeah .it was traumatic at first. But somewhere in the middle of it, my brain switched channels and I was into it Granted, the guy was a cop...so I figured he wasn't gonna kill me afterwards.

I do enjoy a good fantasy scene now. Whether playing DOM or sub.

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