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So I was curious,   I've been seeing a number of photos men with neck chains again.   Some are "dog tags"  associated with the military,  others of religious focus or some nothing at all.   Gold chains and a number of others.   If you wear one,  what is it and why?
 
I do wear one,  A St. Christopher's tag that my mother gave me .   I'm almost never without it.

Similar feature on RentMasseur. I get messages on there from the system telling me that a ‘Premium RentMasseur client’ checked out my private gallery and would I like to contact them?’. I never do because I figure if they liked me they’d be in touch. I agree with the ‘build it and they will come’ philosophy. Maybe some clients need that little push to get them over the line but I’m not going to risk annoying people by being too pushy. I seem to get enough business anyway. 

It's not that they haven't tried.  It's just that it probably hasn't sold as well.
Guys don't watch porn to see themselves.  They watch it to watch the unattainable.  The fantasy.  
That's what porn is:  A highly unrealistic, hyper-visual, fantasy-driven medium.
This sort of marginalized porn has usually been shoehorned into a fetish category and as much as I'd like to see society evolve, it's not realistic to think it's going to change anytime soon.  
The gay community is mega progressive in regards to our rights, but we heavily inner-discriminate if someone doesn't fit within a classic frame of beauty.

I once had a dinner guest become visibly distraught when she saw my bare hand literally brush against a leaf of lettuce in the salad I was preparing. I made a point of tossing the entire salad by hand the next time she came over. As long as you wash your hands first, it’s not a big deal. I mean come on…you’ve  put much worse things in your mouth. In general however, I use wooden bear claws to toss my salad. Only because I don’t want salad dressing in my hands. Not because of an irrational fear of germs. 

This.  100%.
If you take solid care of yourself, no one will know what your actual age is.  A lot of escorts live hard and it shows, which has always amazed me considering this is (initially) a looks-based business.  Smoking, sunshine and steroids always catch up with people in the end and it's usually not pretty.
However, shaving 10+ years off is no bueno.  

I keep it very low-key and professional.

There are those who get off by making fake appointments with the intention of causing financial losses to others. Providers refer to such as “Time Wasters”. 
 
I once asked such a time waster out of curiosity why they do what they do and he replied that it’s because it’s not fair for people like me to make so much money. A loss of $200 here, another $400 there, it soon adds up to real losses. 
 
Providers warn each other about such time wasters on a popular app that has already been mentioned on this forum. I find it to be a very useful tool and I use it in my day to day work. 
 
In the case of @Teddiec, he is flagged as a time waster and worse. He made an appointment with me in the past and canceled shortly before the session causing me a loss as there were others interested in that time slot. The first time he did this, he told me that his name is Peter. 
 
I have the chat history and will post them here should this guy deny anything that I am disclosing here. 
 
Last Thursday he messaged me asking for an appointment the next day. He also mentioned that his name is Ted. I have his number saved as Peter so that was another red flag, but I believe in second chances so I scheduled it for Friday, 6pm. 
 
That Friday, early in the day, I started getting several requests for treatment at 6, 6:30, and 7pm. I suspected that Peter/Ted, or whatever his name is, would try to cause me another loss so I sent him a message at 1pm asking him to confirm our appointment, but there was no response. So I messaged him again at 2pm, asking him to please confirm by 4pm as I have others who want the 6pm time slot. He didn’t respond, so at 4pm, I sent him a message saying that our appointment is canceled because he didn’t confirm. 
 
Indeed, I gave the time slot to another around 4:30. 
 
It seems that he didn’t like the fact that I didn’t allow him to cause me another loss so he is trying to cause me losses by other means. 
 
I would say that more than 96% of people who contact me and visit me are good people. They are very kind to me, but there are always some who have dark personalities. I will never give such people treatments. 
 
I always ask my clients how they feel after each session to make sure that each and everyone is happy or very happy with the experience, and so far 99.9% of clients have said that it was great, awesome, and used other words of praise. 
 
I am surprised that @BooBear and @dk582 were not happy with the experience, because it either means that they didn’t tell the truth when I asked them at the end of the session how they felt about it or they are not being truthful after the fact. Regardless of their reasons, I will be sending both of them a private DM shortly and offer each a 60-minute in-call treatment completely free of charge. 
 
I want to clarify that I don’t offer escort services. When creating the RM profile, it was required to include “Versatile”, or whatever, in order to create the profile. There was no other way. It was a required field that must be filled out, that could not be left blank. 
 
To the one who alerted me as to what’s happening on this forum, I look forward to seeing you soon! 
 
To those who defended me against these, I thank you. May you be blessed! I am very grateful to you. 
 
I wish you a good Labor Day weekend 💙

Clients are never going to like having to pay more for any product or service. That's just life.

My grandma used to say that it's better when the trash takes itself out.  You haven't lost more than the time it took reaching out to them, and you have a chance to find better guys to meet up with instead. 

That's my simple rule.  I just don't think it makes sense for the client unless you are talking about an extended appointment or having someone travel a significant distance to you.  If having that policy means that some guys don't want my business, so be it.

1 rule:  Just don't do it.

I’m totally in agreement in adding National Parks to the Museum forum. I’m also a big fan, have visited several and plan to go to more in the future. I also have a lifetime pass which is a major bargain. 

I read that on YouTube as well. Betty White got closer though without going over so she wins! Bob died 3 1/2 months before he would've been 100 and Betty died 17 days before 100. 😅

The Aldi shop nearest to me was built in the last year or so.  The only things I've purchased are fruit (berries) and some vegetables, and their brioche hamburger buns.  Maybe I've been lucky when in the store or more discerning when selecting, but the produce is rather nice and cheaper than the other NJ supermarkets.  Haven't touched their meat or frozen items.

My personal stance is that people shouldn't fool themselves into thinking it's anything more than a good time that's being paid for. A business exchange with some personality. I think problems arise because people have unfulfilled emotional needs, and that kind of thing can turn sad or ugly, quick. I'm sure there are escorts out there that have formed relationships or friendships with some clients, but I also suspect that some of those clients may be fooling themselves into thinking those relationships are more than they actually are.

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A master class escort would not care what a client looks like. They would treat the client as if he was the entire universe, at least that should be the impression the client gets. The escort would never reveal the internal feelings. 

Joseph cancelled on me a few times hours before our time. I finally gave up trying to see him even though he is close to me. 
I've seen Aldo multiple times over the years.  Gives a good deep massage but listens to you.  Sensual elements throughout.  Not sure if he is YMMV but I always leave happy and relaxed.  

Just make sure that your bank card PIN is the correct number of digits.  Many countries apparently require a 4-digit PIN.  I always carry cash in the currency of the country I am visiting, as well as my credit cards.  In case my wallet is stolen or lost, I keep a photocopy of my various cards (front and back) in a hidden part of my luggage.  And I normally divide my cash between my wallet, a jacket pocket, and the hotel room safe, preferably replenishing the cash on me from the safe each day.  If I run out while I am sightseeing I just start using my credit cards.

Do we have an emoji for "waste of money"?

I want my men to be clean!
 

YOU are responsible for YOUR own health.  
My hope is that those who lie about their status are also on daily meds that keep them undetectable.  U=U.
Since that's impossible to know for sure, if you're going to tread amongst male escorts and the sex trade, it's your responsibility to protect yourself.
Unregulated industries have their downsides.   This is one of them.

At the end of the day is up to you to take care of your own health whether is by taking a pill a day, wearing a condom or doing both! 
We've had PrEP for 6 or more years and condoms before, it breaks my heart to see young folks who are HIV+ as if they didn't know better what not to do

Whereas ExBFE is disastrous company and amazing sex. 

In the months following, the Agency for Civil Defense went around and identified buildings that could serve as fallout shelters after a nuclear attack.   They were marked with black-and-yellow signs that indicated the capacity of the shelter and were supposed to be stocked with enough food and water to last for two weeks after the attack.  I haven't seen one of those shelter signs in awhile.   Everybody talked about building fallout shelters in their backyards.  We had one neighbor who actually did it.