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Kenny Rogers! 👍….so while we’re on Kenny, you’ve also go to know when to walk away, and know when to run. That’s about knowing when to decline a potential client. 

I would say it's mutual consideration and respect, i.e thoughtfulness and sensitivity towards the other person.  This is beyond the mere transactional aspect of an appointment, but consideration for each other's time and respecting each other as a person.  Promptness, hygiene, communication, discretion all follow from that principal.

Not sure this is the right location for this. Kindness. Simple but often absent. A give and take. Maybe the provider has to cancel last second. Or the client has to do the same. Or if the meeting occurs there is an understanding if one or the other has a performance issue, a cleanliness issue, an expectations issue, etc. that the two can kindly extend to  each other understanding and respect. And so on. Personally have experienced a dramatic decrease in kindness with potential providers in the last year. But fortunately have a stable of stable kind men/boys I can depend on. Give and take. Thoughts?

Bon anniversaire, Nate!!

Happy Birthday, Nate.  Wishing you the best of everything!

To quote Robert Browning. "the best is yet to be".  Ignore what precedes and follows and concentrate on that.  Happiest of Birthdays.  I hope you get everyone you want.

Happy birthday Nate! I hope you’re having a wonderful day!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY NATE!!!!

Happy Birthday @nate_sf 🎂

This is an alert to Moderator @nate_sf.  Happy Birthday!!!  I wish you a beautiful day and many more.😃💓🎂🍸🎶

For me, I don't mind if someone is rubbing one out to my pictures. I take it as a compliment! 😛

I guess this would depend on what the shirt and tie look like. Are they standard office wear, or something sexier? A shirt and tie can look hot and sexy, but can also look boring depending on the specifics.
I work in an office during the day, and there are days where my attire would be in the realm of "boring." It's an office job after all, and in some instances it's appropriate to just fly under the radar. On those days, I would not want to show up to see a client wearing my respectable but unexciting work attire so I'll at least have a change of shirt in the car. But there is some leeway at my office, so on some days I'll wear a tighter shirt, or tighter pants, that can go from office to client appointment with just unbuttoning an extra button on the shirt.
Here on the west coast, guys aren't wearing ties very much anymore, so I wouldn't wear one to meet a client unless requested. But wearing a blazer over an unbuttoned dress shirt or t-shirt is a common "dress casual" look and can work in most circumstances like a hotel lobby. I'll wear a blazer or wear a nice dress shirt if we're going to dinner, but otherwise I'll usually just wear a hoodie over a tank top with a good pair of jeans.

I'm pleased to say I'm in this time. I have a 3-night booking at Twin Palms. I'm hoping it is a clothing optional resort.........? 

I’m also a pre-cummer, so I’m not going to object if the other guy is too. But then I’m happily biased! 

I’m also a pre-cummer, so I’m not going to object if the other guy is too. But then I’m happily biased! 

I guess it's crazy to me that there's guys who find this to be an issue!  Though I guess it's also crazy to me that there are providers who don't perform oral. 
I'm also a huge precummer.  In fact, it's my body's first reaction to arousal.  I'll get wet before I get hard.  As a provider, I've only ever had clients love it.  Though I guess it's a telltale sign of sincere interest.  (i.e. A pill can get you hard, but it can't make you leak.)  So it would lever occur to me to react negatively!

I’m also a pre-cummer, so I’m not going to object if the other guy is too. But then I’m happily biased! 

I’m also a pre-cummer, so I’m not going to object if the other guy is too. But then I’m happily biased! 

Depends on the American.
Depends on the Escort.
Depends on the Dream. 
But largely my answer would be….Yes!

For what it's worth, depending on what state you're in Clearview allows various opt-outs. Of course the way one opts out is to provide a face pic, which seems a bit sketchy... sort of like handing the wolf keys to the hen house. But it's available nevertheless.
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I think it’s every culture except the US, Canada & Northern Europe - where younger men routinely seek out older men for sex & not for money. 
It’s a little confusing to me tho when some guys reference getting sex “for free”.   I’m not paying for sex because I can’t get it at no cost.  I’m paying for convenience and sex completely on my terms - whatever that includes with no other attachments or expectations.  
I’ve got enough experience with the apps & “for free” to know it frequently comes with complications, expectations and the hookup is not likely there there to cater to all of my desires. 
“Free hookup-sex” and paid sex are two totally different things.  Wasted time seeking the free sex and less than desirable experiences is almost reduced to zero (in both areas) when I pay.  And there is absolutely no comparison between the real pros in the business vs random hookups. There might be free-sex anecdotes here and there - but it’s just not the way it usually works, if choosing the right provider. 
I will take quality paid provider mind-blowing sex vs quantity mediocre free-sex hookups every single time. 

I am in my 50'a and I admit to being surprised by the number of very young guys (and women) who flirt with me in public.
So I suppose it's reasonable to say it's more common today but then I'm probably in a LOT better shape than my grandfather was at 50..so health and fitness in older men may have a lot to do with this change in attitudes.

I’ve done some introspection and concluded that I will strive to be unapologetically myself and make an effort to answer inquiries in a more straightforward way rather than be defensive or evasive or say a client’s question is irrelevant (even when it is!). When my response costs me work, so be it. I’m doing myself and the client a favor by making space for the people who most belong in my schedule.
The prospective clients who like me for me will hire, and those who have hangups about irrelevant aspects of my life outside work won’t hire. Simple as that. I can’t allow the odd client inquiry to get to me, as unfair as it may seem at times. I’m me. If you don’t like me, I’m not going to cry about it.
Quick aside - most clients are mature enough to handle themselves, and ask the appropriate questions and are concerned with relevant information. This prospective client fortunately represents only a minority. Thank you to all the clients here that get it.
In the past, I’ve said I can’t be all things to all people and that’s ok. I’m reminding myself of that now and moving on. Plenty of people like me for who I am and those are the best friends, family, and clients I want to surround myself with anyway.
Cheers to growth!

If anything, I think this text exchange proves my point.
He was just asking. You’re the one that jumped to a conclusion. 
Try this instead…
Client: “Are you single?"
You: "No"
If they keep prying…."I’m sorry, I’m not comfortable talking about my personal life". 
But at least give them the benefit of the doubt in the beginning.
Otherwise, I think you might come off looking defensive and not very personable. 
(Hopefully this comes across right. I’m honestly trying to help. Not be a dick.)