Providers and precum

[Winterangel]

I’m a pre cummer. The minute my cock gets hard it is usually followed by pre cum. Most providers don’t care but I’ve notice a few won’t suck me off. Mostly young guys. Some of course find it hot. Providers - what are your thoughts?

[+ DrownedBoy]

A lot of young guys are very entitled. One told me, "you can blow me, but I won't blow you."

It doesn't bother me, since I'm an oral bottom. But I don't care for that attitude, and see it as a red flag that they won't do other things, such as French kiss.

[BuffaloKyle]

I'd bring it up when you are discussing specifics on what you like to get into. If they are open to providing oral that's the time to mention that you are a heavy precummer.

[liubit]

2 hours ago, Winterangel said:

I’m a pre cummer. The minute my cock gets hard it is usually followed by pre cum. Most providers don’t care but I’ve notice a few won’t suck me off. Mostly young guys. Some of course find it hot. Providers - what are your thoughts?

I am not a provider, but I would VERY gladly blow you, @Winterangel  I just love precum’s salty flavor, it turns me on big time. You are lucky to be a heavy precummer, I am not that fortunate and produce very little of this nectar. 

[NYXboy]

I agree with @BuffaloKyle-this is something you should pre-warn or bring up prior to a session. I'm not a provider -but can imagine having a flavor I don't particularly like shot into my mouth without warning would be hard to smile about! 

 

I consider it rude when someone cums in my mouth without warning me - I would say the same if you shoot a lot of precum.

[Becket]

17 minutes ago, NYXboy said:

I agree with @BuffaloKyle-this is something you should pre-warn or bring up prior to a session. I'm not a provider -but can imagine having a flavor I don't particularly like shot into my mouth without warning would be hard to smile about! 

 

I consider it rude when someone cums in my mouth without warning me - I would say the same if you shoot a lot of precum.

Agreed. It's just bad manners. (Clearly their mamas didn't raise them right. 😉) Although don't most people with penises (as the wokeroti would say) cry out something like "OMG I'm gonna cum," or at least somehow indicate the moment has arrived; ie groans, gasps, etc? Does anyone cum without making some sort of noise? 

Edited December 3, 2023 by Becket

[Luv2play]

I’ve encountered quite a few silent cummers. I always ask providers to tell me when they are cumming as a result. I find it hugely exciting to know when the moment is upon us.

And in my experience, guys who are copious precummers ( which are few and far between) don’t shoot it but rather dribble it. Again if you like the taste of cum, you will enjoy this too.

[Winterangel]

Thanks for the replies. I’ve never thought about it before now but I guess I am rare in that I pre cum a lot.  A superpower perhaps, for a niche audience! I would never shoot a load without consent though (or accidentally)!  I get very turned on by precum in others and I love to eat cum.

[nate_sf]

I’m also a pre-cummer, so I’m not going to object if the other guy is too. But then I’m happily biased! 

[Jamie21]

8 hours ago, Winterangel said:

I’m a pre cummer. The minute my cock gets hard it is usually followed by pre cum. Most providers don’t care but I’ve notice a few won’t suck me off. Mostly young guys. Some of course find it hot. Providers - what are your thoughts?

I’ve no problem with it. It’s quite an attractive thing to see, especially if you have been sucking and when you stop and lift your head there’s a string of pre cum connecting you to the cock. I understand the anxiety about a client cumming in your mouth when you didn’t expect it but that’s something that one can usually anticipate! 

[DamizzonNYC]

7 hours ago, Winterangel said:

Thanks for the replies. I’ve never thought about it before now but I guess I am rare in that I pre cum a lot.  A superpower perhaps, for a niche audience! I would never shoot a load without consent though (or accidentally)!  I get very turned on by precum in others and I love to eat cum.

I guess it's crazy to me that there's guys who find this to be an issue!  Though I guess it's also crazy to me that there are providers who don't perform oral. 

I'm also a huge precummer.  In fact, it's my body's first reaction to arousal.  I'll get wet before I get hard.  As a provider, I've only ever had clients love it.  Though I guess it's a telltale sign of sincere interest.  (i.e. A pill can get you hard, but it can't make you leak.)  So it would lever occur to me to react negatively!

[pubic_assistance]

10 hours ago, Becket said:

Does anyone cum without making some sort of noise? 

Definitely.

Not me ..but I've been with lots of men who do.

[liubit]

7 hours ago, Winterangel said:

I get very turned on by precum in others and I love to eat cum.

Like he says. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

The only time I precum is if I have some edibles beforehand. For some reason, edibles get me massively horny.

[Jarrod_Uncut]

I thought this topic was about providers who precum lol…

I’m a precummer too. But usually after a bit of foreplay. One thing I (admittedly but I get tested routinely and don’t offer it for every visit) like about BB is that I think I add to the bottom being lubed up with my own pc. It’s hard to tell if they’re wet from the Lube or me f**king my precum in their a**. 
 

I also tend to leak a bit of my actual cum in between edging, when things are really going. I find that then makes the actual orgasm explosive 💦 😂 

On my last video shoot: The first time I came with him, it was a bit sudden and only dribbled out. Couple hours later, we went at it again and I told him to “give me a hand”. That time, I was sitting over his abs, but it ended up on his face 😛 

 

Edited December 4, 2023 by Jarrod_Uncut

[Jamie21]

2 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

I also tend to leak a bit of my actual cum in between edging, when things are really going.

Yes this happens to me too. Especially if I get really close, and then go all the way back to being semi, and start again. That kind of edging is a good thing to practice to be able to control when you cum. I make porn films so it helps me to cum at the right time in those. 

19 hours ago, NYCscort said:

Though I guess it's also crazy to me that there are providers who don't perform oral. 

I agree. It seems to me to be a sine qua non of being a provider that one would provide oral. Obviously everyone is entitled to decide their limits but it’s like being a taxi driver and not turning left. I mean, why would you do sex work but rule out something like that? If you’re doing massage then it’s understandable to me to possibly draw the line there, but not if you’re doing escorting.

Most of my work is massage and I find it hard to resist not to provide oral! I see it as an integral part of the massage, although I do have had clients who specifically request no oral (I think this because of concerns over catching something more than them not liking it). It’s always worth checking with him, either by explicitly asking or by positioning your lips on the head and seeing if he invites you to go further!. 

[Your Man in Arlington]

I can count the number of times I've produced pre-cum in my 50+ year life on two hands, and they always been masturbating or during a long massage. Maybe that's why I am practically obsessed with pre-cum, and a provider who has it shoots (ha!) straight (ha!) to the top of my list.

Never considered the inverse situation you present, though. I think I would mention it in my RM profile and again when confirming a meeting, if it's that noticeable.

[Winterangel]

6 hours ago, Your Man in Arlington said:

I can count the number of times I've produced pre-cum in my 50+ year life on two hands, and they always been masturbating or during a long massage. Maybe that's why I am practically obsessed with pre-cum, and a provider who has it shoots (ha!) straight (ha!) to the top of my list.

Never considered the inverse situation you present, though. I think I would mention it in my RM profile and again when confirming a meeting, if it's that noticeable.

Interesting. I reckon I’ve pre cum just about every day of my post teen life! I wonder what the medical reason is for it and what it might link to. Hopefully it equals a long life… or maybe I’m just horny?

[silken_mist]

On 12/2/2023 at 7:43 PM, Winterangel said:

I’m a pre cummer. The minute my cock gets hard it is usually followed by pre cum. Most providers don’t care but I’ve notice a few won’t suck me off. Mostly young guys. Some of course find it hot. Providers - what are your thoughts?

Likewise.... I prefer to let them know.... Some love it... 

[Keenan]

On 12/2/2023 at 7:43 PM, Winterangel said:

I’m a pre cummer. The minute my cock gets hard it is usually followed by pre cum. Most providers don’t care but I’ve notice a few won’t suck me off. Mostly young guys. Some of course find it hot. Providers - what are your thoughts?

First at least for myself I bring along flavored lube exactly for this purpose, it helps mask the taste of pre-cum if there is any.  Second unless a provider discusses beforehand that they won't suck off the client then if the client wants it the provider should make sure the client is happy.  If a provider knows they need to use something like flavored lube then they should bring it along and preferably let the client know ahead of time.  Most clients I've spoken with don't mind if it helps me.