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One of the nicest things a provider can do (and a few have) is send a message a few hours after our meeting, thanking me for our time together, saying how much they enjoyed meeting me, and letting me know that if I ever wanted to see them again, I shouldn’t hesitate to reach out. It says everything and leaves the ball in my court.

I really don't like only fans. Tried them for years and then finally bought myself an air conditioner.

There is a difference between true professional sex workers like @BenjaminNicholas or @Jamie21 and many young, attractive men who want to monetize their sex lives. The latter I avoid like the plague; the former are cut from a different cloth.

Don't do that. Most of the providers I know don't live particularly extravagant lifestyles and many are sober.

Projection?

I grew up solidly middle class. Got a degree in accounting and worked in accounting/finance jobs for 40 years. I did okay but never got a really big salary. Starting saving for retirement in my 20's via company 401k. When I changed jobs I ALWAYS rolled my old 401k into the new one. In my later years I maxed out the annual 401k contribution. Except for a few early years was always 100% invested in stocks and I never panic-sold when the market went down. So, start early and be consistent. Happy to answer more via PM.

It could mean a lot of things but I suspect at least that they didn't find their time with your unpleasant or objectionable. It could mean the rent is due. It could mean that they found you an "easy client" based on any number of factors: hygiene, looks, easygoingness, sexual prowess, etc. We have some regulars who will hit is up from time to time. I know we're pleasant, easygoing and attractive for our age, so I imagine we'd be high on desired regular client list. I think that more providers don't do it because in the US it's illicit work, and maybe they fear if they're seen as pestering, they'll get a bad review.

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I like having thick fur on my arms, chest, stomach and face, but being entirely smooth everywhere else. Today for the first time in ages, I had a manzilian done, and it took twice as long as a typical client, due to having World-Record length hair down there, looking like a 1970s European woman. The professional was friendly, and did amazing work. I'm noticing more and more providers based on photos of their nude profiles going with an entirely smooth genital look, but generally this is accompanied by having no hair all over, including the top of the head. I tend to have more fun sexually with furry guys than I do the smooth ones, and this is an attempt at keeping both kinds of guys content. I like wearing extremely skimpy swimwear, and feel it looks best without massive patches of hair sticking out. Two years ago when I attended the Palm Springs COM pool party, nobody had a hairy butt other than myself, including the bears. I can take away this much from life's experience - I've been pounded FAR more often when my rump is smooth rather than a forest.

You should definitely start more topics. One of the nicest gestures a provider can make, in my opinion, is sending a short message after our meeting. Just a quick note thanking me for our time together, saying they enjoyed the meeting, and letting me know I’m welcome to reach out again if I’d like. For me, that’s perfect. It’s polite and professional without feeling pushy, and it leaves the ball in my court. It acknowledges the connection without pressure or marketing vibes. It shows thoughtfulness without overstepping and makes me feel comfortable reaching out too.

Not sure who you are talking about your post doesn’t have anyone named. Are you sure your not the one on drugs?

Unfortunately, some (just one is already too many) nonprofits are very much for profit, for the profit of the organization’s executives in the form of exorbitant salaries and party-like-rock-stars expense accounts. The donors have every right to know WTF happened to the $20 million, and the victims’ families all the more so. If there was malfeasance, and there is plenty of cause to suspect there was, people must be held accountable.

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There’s a lot of similarities between the Japanese and British. Both islanders, both monarchies, both ritualise tea drinking, both have strong etiquette codes, both don’t say what they mean. Very similar.

On my camping vacation, I just read "The Friend", by Sigrid Nunez, about a writer whose mentor commits suicide and she takes care of his Great Dane. Interesting book, presented as little snippets of her thought that gradually take on a narrative. I was also going to read "Etiquette for Nice People Who Sometimes Say F**k", but an unfortunate rain storm soaked it. I'm trying to dry it out right now.

I usually fold the bills for the flat fee together in one pocket with the anticipated tip bills folded together in another pocket. A trip to the bathroom after I get dressed allows me to change the tip amount if necessary.

When you’re on your stomach and all you can see are the guy’s feet through the face cradle, all of the guy’s good looks mean nothing (unless you’re into feet)

I assume you mean "couldn't" and there-in lies the problem. People SHOULD be more aware of these types and what they believe. Its a growing threat.

I was Better than nothing. Erasing it it's shameful, but not really surprising...

I’m not a fan of the totally bare genital look. It may make one’s attributes look bigger without the surrounding forest, but to me it’s off-putting. I prefer a moderately trimmed forest, on myself and the guys I’m with, preferably with a smooth/near-smooth sac…Never had any professional manscaping done myself. I’m not even sure where to find it. The idea of it sounds intriguing…

The National Pulse Memorial and Museum was originally planned to open around 2022, but the project never came to completion. The onePULSE Foundation, which had raised nearly $20 million, dissolved in 2023 amid criticism over high executive salaries and a lack of transparency. That same year, the City of Orlando purchased the Pulse site and created a new committee to guide the memorial’s future. The nightclub still stands for now but is slated for demolition, with a new memorial expected to open in 2027.

For those interested in gardens created by women, another in Canada are the Butchart Gradens in Victoria British Columbia. Jennie Butchart created those fabulous gardens out of an exhausted rock quarry. That was in the early 20th century and today they are a major tourist attraction.

Let’s please not!

I will take that one step further to say for me - it's a HUGE turn OFF. NO pubes = kiddie porn. *Gross* OK - Trim your bush, but don't remove the entire forest.

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And for every single ‘Christian’ entity advocating that, I can name you 10,000 that would oppose that. In the Indiana example you posted, local churches in Indianapolis came out opposing the statements. I wouldn’t worry about Church of The Hold Shopping Center when there are governments elsewhere actually doing it. ETA: when a church identifies themselves as a King James Only Church, they’re advertising themselves as one that doesn’t believe in rightful interpretation of scripture and are not taken seriously by other Christians. KJV is a poetic interpretation and is not true to the original Hebrew and Greek texts and no serious believer tries to apply the words literally.

the forum has offered, oh, I don't know, a dozen or so suggestions.....it looks like you've rejected a couple......I hope the forum will continue to respond!

Thanks for checking out the pic. I get why it might look edited but it’s actually real. I even added a quick video so you can see for yourself. If anyone’s figured out how to fake that too, I definitely want to learn their secrets. IMG_5273.mov

I have known a few escorts who start with "I do not bottom". They move on to: "I do not bottom for that price." and sometimes end with "Fuck me harder." One can never be sure where friendly and polite requests may lead.

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