Don't Speak

[nomad]

Anyone ever have a guy that checks all their boxes, but talks too much?  As long as something is in his 👄he doesn't talk.  Otherwise, he's vocal and  chatting while playing.  I find it distracting.  Thought about getting a gag ball and pig tie him next time.  Very muscular body, generous hung, buns of steel and a very good looking guy to boot.  The talking shatters the Calgon Take Me Away illusion.  

Might have become an old fart without realizing.  😆

Edited August 25 by nomad

[MikeBiDude]

1 hour ago, nomad said:

Anyone ever have a guy that checks all their boxes, but talks too much?  As long as something is in his 👄he doesn't talk.  Otherwise, he's vocal and  chatting while playing.  I find it distracting.  Thought about getting a gag ball and pig tie him next time.  Very muscular body, generous hung, buns of steel and a very good looking guy to boot.  The talking shatters the Calgon Take Me Away illusion.  

Might have become an old far without realizing.  😆

Well maybe…but the opposite is far worse for me.

[+ SirBillybob]

With the right guy I give Wanda a run for their money.

[nomad]

36 minutes ago, MikeBiDude said:

Well maybe…but the opposite is far worse for me.

That's fair.  Will try discussing with him prior to next meeting.  🤞 There has to be some middle ground.  

[+ SirBillybob]

8 minutes ago, nomad said:

That's fair.  Will try discussing with him prior to next meeting.  🤞 There has to be some middle ground.  

If you can get a word in.😏

Edited August 25 by SirBillybob

[nomad]

I think I didn't realize how much it got to me unitil I wasn't able to enjoy a few minutes of quiet afterglow.  

[+ azdr0710]

Is nervousness or insecurity creating his chattiness??

[Mark_fl]

So whenever he tries to talk, put something in his mouth.

[nomad]

23 minutes ago, azdr0710 said:

Is nervousness or insecurity creating his chattiness??

Definitely not.  He's a strapping guy with an amazing body and looks.  I think he just doesn't get to talk to a lot of people due to his desk day job so meeting clients is a social outlet for him as much as it is to earn extra money.  Super nice guy.  That's why I'm torn.

[nomad]

18 minutes ago, Mark_fl said:

So whenever he tries to talk, put something in his mouth.

I held him down for a good long time while he was going down on me until he gagged.  He recovered in a few seconds and proceeded to tell him how hot it was.  🙃  What am I going to say to that?  Other than more please.  😆

[MscleLovr]

3 hours ago, nomad said:

Thought about getting a gag ball and pig tie him next time.  Very muscular body, generous hung, buns of steel and a very good looking guy to boot.

This is a ‘problem’ many of us would like to encounter 😎

22 minutes ago, nomad said:

He's a strapping guy with an amazing body and looks……he just doesn't get to talk to a lot of people due to his….day job

Maybe he’ll become a ‘keeper’ for you. He sounds ideal to me - I always found taciturn or silent guys difficult and more of a turn-off

[mtaabq]

I’m not particularly proud of this … but there was an occasion that I engaged a chatty provider in Las Vegas. When I simply could not listen to one more word he had to say I held up my hand in the “stop!” gesture and said to him,

“Darling … I’m not paying you to talk.” 

He got the message. And I hired him several more times after that. 

[big-n-tall]

Who is this incredible but talkative specimen you speak of? 😁

Edited August 25 by big-n-tall

[MikeBiDude]

1 hour ago, mtaabq said:

Darling … I’m not paying you to talk

I wasn’t as classy as you when I told a talky bottom once in the middle of things “just SHUT UP and F***!” He complied.

[Wings246]

But what was he talking about?  Some random nonsensical topics that are major turnoffs?  Can those be turned into arousing subject matters?  I'd have to agree that if I have to choose, I'd rather have a chatterbox than a silent ghost.

[+ Jamie21]

Ha ha this reminds me of a client of mine who loves me talking all through the session. It’s sex talk though, not random ramblings. He likes me to describe what I’m going to do to him, and to compliment his body and reactions. If he books me with another guy then he likes me to blindfold him and then to hear me and the other guy fuck each other while I describe it. Never underestimate the power of the spoken word! 

[keefer]

duct tape might be cheaper than ball gags...

[la_connor]

Shhhh! My mother can hear us through the wall.

[b2bf]

Ray Diesel. Never stops talking.

[Nikba]

Enjoy guy with soft moan, grinding teeth, muscle tighten up, tight fist and saying the F word while being rambed, it makes the sex more exciting and enjoyable. With the chattie boy, if the heavy pounding fails to quiet him down, I just look him in the eyes and tell him to stop. It works every time and the guy's behavior changes.