Question for other clients that like Black tops

[Johnnyroad]

I have a question regarding your position preferences for Black men.

Do you find it a turnoff to learn that a Black top  occasionally bottoms?

Be honest.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

No, but I don't really hire based on race. Also, my husband and I (being a bottom and top) hire a lot of vers guys so it's not unusual for a guy to top me and then bottom for my husband; sometimes simultaneously. 😆

[TBD]

i don't know about the race element but i can say when it comes to porn stars that i follow (mostly tops) when i see them do a bottom video it does make me not like them as much.  With the bottoms that i follow when i see them top it doesn't give me the ick in the same way.  

probably internal misogyny going on there. 

[Johnnyroad]

5 minutes ago, TBD said:

i don't know about the race element but i can say when it comes to porn stars that i follow (mostly tops) when i see them do a bottom video it does make me not like them as much.  With the bottoms that i follow when i see them top it doesn't give me the ick in the same way.  

probably internal misogyny going on there. 

I agree. I kind of feel the same way.

[Shawn Monroe]

Good fucking lord. 

[jeezifonly]

Try thinking of Top and Bottom as verbs, not as nouns. A man topping you tonight can bottom tomorrow. I find it incredibly hot when the expectation of type is disrupted by the natural inclinations of the human's desires. A lithe girly drag queen topping super-hung beefy bottom? Huzzah!! 

[hungry4darkmeat]

I am on record as a white bottom who exclusively hires black tops and while Im not stupid enough to think that they don’t ever bottom, I don’t want to see it happen or know about it. First off im the client and their attention should be on me. Second , for me I hire because I want to create/recreate/produce a fantasy and turn it into a reality, so I prefer to maintain at least the illusion of being with a man/men who would never want to be submissive and would never allow another man to top him. A totally dominant alpha man who is only interested in being served and taking what he wants from his bitches. His ultimate dominance frees me up to completely submit.

[soloyo215]

18 hours ago, Johnnyroad said:

I have a question regarding your position preferences for Black men.

Do you find it a turnoff to learn that a Black top  occasionally bottoms?

Be honest.

No, and the same goes to men of all other colors.

[Nue2thegame]

It’s a turn-on for me when a nominal top (of any color) bottoms for me. 

[JayeMichigan]

I'm in the opposite here. My preference is different than this. I don't care what the skin color is. I want a guy that is verse because to me, there's nothing hotter than flipping during a session.

[jonasfoleson]

one's sexual posiiton or prefernces shoudn't be based on race. 

it says more of those who are making assumptions.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

9 minutes ago, jonasfoleson said:

one's sexual posiiton or prefernces shoudn't be based on race.

Yes, or sex or gender 

[jonasfoleson]

3 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Yes, or sex or gender 

Well, I mentioned race, as the topic is race.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

1 hour ago, jonasfoleson said:

1 hour ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Yes, or sex or gender 

Well, I mentioned race, as the topic is race.

I can see how one could read the original post that way.  The original post used color as a descriptor, but one could also focus the question on primarily being turned on by men who perform only the traditionally masculine role in sex, but losing interest if one learns the masculine persona hides a man who has performed the traditionally feminine role.  Whether the race assigned at birth or the race one identifies as (if different than the race assigned at birth) compliments the traditionally masculine or feminine sexual role all plays a part.  Just look at all the posts in the Deli or Spa sking for recommendations specifically for asian feminine twinks or latin day-laborer-type masculine hunks.

In my experience, I find that a cis man who has previously taken a dick up the ass makes a better top than one who hasn't.

Edited 1 hour ago by Vegas_Millennial
then/than

[Nue2thegame]

9 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I can see how one could read the original post that way.  The original post used color as a descriptor, but one could also focus the question on primarily being turned on by men who perform only the traditionally masculine role in sex, but losing interest if one learns the masculine persona hides a man who has performed the traditionally feminine role.  Whether the race assigned at birth or the race one identifies as (if different than the race assigned at birth) compliments the traditionally masculine or feminine sexual role all plays a part.  Just look at all the posts in the Deli or Spa sking for recommendations specifically for asian feminine twinks or latin day-laborer-type hunks.

In my experience, I find that a cis man who has previously taken a dick up the ass makes a better top than one who hasn't.

As a recently arrived bi-man, I’m sure that I’m a better and more attuned top for all genders for this reason.