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Hello Everyone,

I have exhausted all attempts on trying to find this thief so I'm reaching out to the only place I know that will keep it real. He recently came to Denver, CO his original name on rentmen was 'kingPush' but since the incident he has changed his name to 'PPARZWHIL.' I have to say that I've enjoyed the escorts on rent men, I have good ones, and some okay escorts but this individual has completely ruined, and changed my entire perspective on men, the signs of someone who is going to rob you, and the aftermath after the incident. 

 

Before we met, everything was normal there wasn't anything that stuck out to me until we had a conversation about the money. I would rather pay via Zelle only because it's instant, and we take care of business ahead of time so there are no discrepancies. In one of the screenshots Iet him know that I wanted to just use my cards but he insisted that I have cash only. For 15 minutes he kept going back and forth with me on how he doesn't do the online stuff only cash. It was turning me off, but because I lead with a horny mindset, I gave in and told him I would do cash, and half of it on cash app. The payment was $400 for one hour and I was okay with it. 

 

I got a hotel room to keep this rather discreet, and just so he would understand that he could trust me. Anytime I book an escort I make sure that above all else they are comfortable, etc.. He arrives and he definitely was a "looker" in which he looked better than this photos which was a plus. I was very excited and wanted to get to business. He asks to use the bathroom, I say of course, he spends some time in there, but I didn't think any of it. He's comes out and he sits down. He immediately asks for the money. I let him know I have it but let's have a conversation because he was rather tense for some odd reason. He doesn't want to talk further he then firmly says, "I need the money." Respecting his space, I hand him first the $200 in cash. He counts it, and then talks about how he's from Chicago so things are a lot different and he's doing this for his two kids (boy and girl) and that this was the easiest way he could make money for the kids. I admired that, then we do the cash app deal. First, I was a little caught off guard because he gave me the name of someone completely different and I was skeptical on doing it....but again me leading with a horny mindset did not prepare me for what happened next. 

After sending, and the dust settles he then grabs his jacket and tries to run out of the door. I was stunned for a split second, but I ran after him. We start to fight, he's punching me, and I'm punching him. I scream and then he says if I had my blade I would kill you. I'm not allowing him to leave then he tried to uppercut me, I dodged it, went around the hallway corner, and tripped. He guns for if down the hallway, outside, and I never saw him again. 

After that brief scuffle, I felt so betrayed, so dumb, so hopeless because I trusted him, even put him, before myself, and he managed to play me to the point of no return, and rob me of $400.

All I ask is that you all please if there are any red flags to PLEASE just say no. It was early and he was adamant about having to leave to go back to Chicago, and I just wanted sex. I blame myself for a lot of this because the signs were there I just did not take heed before destruction. If anyone knows this man's name please comment but I view black men a lot different now, and my trust is completely gone for everyone around me. It wasn't about the $409 it was the fact that after I text him from possibly 3 different numbers he called me a goof, and said that he should have stolen more from me. Please be aware of this man. And moreso I have learned to be taken heed on signs before destruction. I had a busted lip, and knee scrapping from the fall, but I am doing well. If ANYONE knows this man's name please respond in the comments. I reached out to authorities already if they find him he goes to jail for robbery it was all caught on tape and the police have it. Sorry for the long media but I must FIND HIM. Thank you for your time.....

 

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I’m confused, you’ve exhausted all attempts to find him, but he has an active RM profile as @56harrisond kindly posted and there is a number there.  You made a transfer to legitimate accounts in Zelle and CashApp that are traceable by law enforcement, and you were beat up with injury to prove it in, what sounds like, was a public hallway.

have you considered going to the police?

I’m struggling to connect the dots when this is clearly someone who’s not hiding after an illegal act.  

Posted

This sounds awful — first of all, I hope you’re okay.

You should take this information and report it to both the police and Rentmen. He’s still active on there, and I also see a bad review from a client back in 2024.

 

Posted
2 hours ago, Tedguycity said:
On 2/3/2026 at 8:12 PM, fjntimes001 said:

...I view black men a lot different now…

Umm, what? A bad act committed by one knucklehead is certainly not representative of an entire race. I sympathize with your story, but what an extremely ignorant thing to say.🙄

Well....certainly not...but I think he's being overly emotional, and irrational not necessarily ignorant. 

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 I was stunned for a split second, but I ran after him. We start to fight, he's punching me, and I'm punching him. I scream and then he says if I had my blade I would kill you. I'm not allowing him to leave 

 

im sorry, after he scammed you of $400, fights you, punches you, threatens you, you were shocked and still went after him/“not allowing him to leave”? What did you want from him at that point? Let’s say he says “fine I’ll do what I was paid for” you don’t think that one hour would be awkward? 
 

that $400 isn’t worth it. Let it go. Let him run. Not worth your life. You never know what these men have in them. 

Posted (edited)

The originator of the thread (who now deleted the racial comment) said that he now views Black guys differently.
 

To base your evaluations and behavior towards all members of a racial group on your interactions with a one or a few, and to say that you do that without shame, is both disgusting and ignorant.

I will remain vigilant of all who defend such explicit collective bias. 
 

And yes, you probably SHOULD avoid Black providers since you’re so scared.
Dignified providers with pride in their racial identity would find it insulting to be having sex with someone who thinks that they, based on race, are more of a criminal threat

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Posted (edited)
On 2/4/2026 at 7:57 AM, FrankR said:

Reminder: if you plan to pay with your mobile only ever use Paypal and select the good and services option. That way you can ask Paypal to reverse the payment for non delivery. Never do Zelle, Cashapp etc  😐
 

Finally, I think providers are catching on to the downsides of this- being scammed by clients themselves. I know three honest, excellent providers who have fallen victim to scam PayPal reversals.

Im frequently seeing providers in NYC and Miami that say they only do Apple Cash and Physical cash only, in order to avoid being scammed by clients themselves. 

 

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Posted
31 minutes ago, Cretus said:

Finally, I think providers are catching on to the downsides of this- being scammed by clients themselves. I know three honest, excellent providers who have fallen victim to scam PayPal reversals.

Im frequently seeing providers in NYC and Miami that say they only do Apple Cash and Physical cash only, in order to avoid being scammed by clients themselves. 

 

I believe anyone who hires a provider, has their needs fully met, and then deliberately reverses the electronic payment is utterly despicable. Providers have everything to lose and operate under intense pressure to perform and satisfy their clients. In our hobby, we must never forget that consent is fundamentally tied to financial exchange from the client to the provider. When a client purposefully rescinds their financial obligation after the fact, it raises profound questions about what consent even means in this context. By the same token, if a provider takes their fee without delivering the agreed-upon service to their client, that is simply theft.

Posted (edited)
39 minutes ago, Muscle_Admirer said:

I believe anyone who hires a provider, has their needs fully met, and then deliberately reverses the electronic payment is utterly despicable.

And yet it happens. We have a way to warn other clients of dodgy guys like this provider thankfully, but providers do not have a way to warn of people who do this.

We have this forum where you can post threads like this. 

I hope the group stays on top of his name changes. 

 

 

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Posted

This PayPal reversal theft possibility and all the ways a provider can get payment and not provide services highlights that the policy should almost always be payments in cash or non-reversable form of payment, and after services are provided.

Only exceptions being if you are paying a provider you know is reliable to travel away from his home area. Then you can prepay travel expenses 

And thanks to the OP for the warning. It's never easy to admit you've been had.

Posted
On 2/4/2026 at 7:36 PM, crazyivan said:

Frequent name changer, with previous names FerrariDag, TombRaider, KINGCRASH, BigGuyOk, RemyBuckz, and currently PPARZIVWL.

Multiple reviews removed.
 

 

There was something awhile ago I read in maybe like an escort online guide, that encouraged clients to seek out escorts with “actual names”. Anything otherwise is likely to be taken with suspicion.  It screams “phony”. 
 

1 hour ago, TBD said:

its always the same guys and its not racist to point out a pattern. 

You mean the same non-gay men advertising on a MsM (men sex with men) with sketchy sounding profile names, that some clients chase after because they think they’re getting a straight man who wants to lay next to them? Maybe so…

But it’s not confined to “Black men” because there’s many posts about Latino scam rings running the same games.
 

34 minutes ago, Muscle_Admirer said:

I believe anyone who hires a provider, has their needs fully met, and then deliberately reverses the electronic payment is utterly despicable. Providers have everything to lose and operate under intense pressure to perform and satisfy their clients. In our hobby, we must never forget that consent is fundamentally tied to financial exchange from the client to the provider. When a client purposefully rescinds their financial obligation after the fact, it raises profound questions about what consent even means in this context. By the same token, if a provider takes their fee without delivering the agreed-upon service to their client, that is simply theft.

💯 and it’s considered rape because it’s not consenting to sleep with that person for something different than what was agreed on.

Also keep in mind: PayPal is EXTREMELY sex worker unfriendly. They have shut down 2 of my business accounts, BOTH times were because of clients who tattled trying to get their money back. One won most of his money except my deposit back, the other agreed it was a mistake and we rescheduled but by that point, he pushed the dispute thru and PayPal closed my account again. I waited like a month to get my money released from PayPal.

So going forward, it’s definitely worth it to bear that in mind. I would not be using PayPal for that purpose. They were okay before Cash App and Venmo was around but it’s very risky now

Posted
2 hours ago, Cn1991 said:

 I was stunned for a split second, but I ran after him. We start to fight, he's punching me, and I'm punching him. I scream and then he says if I had my blade I would kill you. I'm not allowing him to leave 

 

im sorry, after he scammed you of $400, fights you, punches you, threatens you, you were shocked and still went after him/“not allowing him to leave”? What did you want from him at that point? Let’s say he says “fine I’ll do what I was paid for” you don’t think that one hour would be awkward? 
 

that $400 isn’t worth it. Let it go. Let him run. Not worth your life. You never know what these men have in them. 

I think he was shocked and was trying to get his money back before the guy left. People have fight or flight responses in the moment. Don't be so judgmental. 

@fjntimes001 Sorry this happened to you my dude. Thanks for sharing. 

Posted (edited)
2 hours ago, TBD said:

sure - Black guys, South American guys - are more likely to behave this way, Just look at the disproportionate amount of 'beware' posts that came up like this in relation to the amount of those providers. 

It's not to say asian or white guys don't do it too, but I am not going to be told that I should ignore my anecdotal experiences simply because it makes you uncomfortable.  Wake Up. 


It’s not only uncomfortable, it’s misleading and deceptive. And it’s not fair to other Black/POCs like myself who actually have long standing reputation in the biz. 
 

It’s fairly easy for me to see the glaring red flags 🚩 based on how the situation went (granted several months old but still, I’m going to defend my place in the tribe and also call out bullshit when I see it):
 

On 2/3/2026 at 7:12 PM, fjntimes001 said:

For 15 minutes he kept going back and forth with me on how he doesn't do the online stuff only cash. It was turning me off, 

I got a hotel room. He's comes out and he sits down. He immediately asks for the money. I let him know I have it but let's have a conversation because he was rather tense for some odd reason. He doesn't want to talk further he then firmly says, "I need the money." Respecting his space, I hand him first the $200 in cash. He counts it, and then talks about how he's from Chicago so things are a lot different and he's doing this for his two kids (boy and girl) and that this was the easiest way he could make money for the kids.
 

I admired that, then we do the cash app deal. First, I was a little caught off guard because he gave me the name of someone completely different

I view black men a lot different now, and my trust is completely gone for everyone around me.

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So since you did say you view Black men differently now, I have to point out to everyone else what the ACTUAL red flags were:

 

#1: 15 minutes discussing money and you’re getting turned off? I would have used the hotel phone in your room, picked it up and called the front desk saying: “I need security to escort someone out of my room”. 
 

#2: He’s from Chicago and things are different? Yeah it’s different in that it’s a known robbery capitol of America. There’s a reason I do not regularly tour Chicago: as a Black person myself it’s almost impossible to get decent biz because the scammers have ruined it for most. And many of the Chicago clients are no better because a few of them have “robbed me” of my time with their flaky games and scaredy cat behavior. 
 

#3: you ADMIRE he has kids and this is the EASIEST way to make money for them? Referring to you or the industry as “easy” money is nothing to admire. Sounds like an easy target 🎯 What that’s doing is essentially hijacking a business for MEN HAVING SEX WITH MEN, playing this “fake gay/fake straight” game to make you think you’re getting a “broke straight boy” like the porno studio. And that’s exactly what he is: a boy. Who’s broken. But thinking he was going to deliver on a service.

#4: Cash App/Zelle may contain different names or the real name of the provider. Having a completely different name may not be a red flag. All the other stuff was not just red flags, but a siren 🚨 

#5: Black men advertising on RentMen are not a monolith. I recall I worked with a Black provider years ago, who I watched scammed a client: I never worked with him again and after that, I slowly started to separate myself from working with other escorts.  Every time a potential client asks,  “do you have any buddies who can join? I wanna get gang banged”. It’s always a resounding an non negotiable NO. I don’t work with anybody, and I will not be responsible for anything going wrong.

That said, there’s always room to learn and don’t be too hard on yourself. But let’s clear the air and talk about  escorts of “color” who do have a good reputation:

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Posted
2 minutes ago, Aamir said:

I urge everyone out there to be careful around homosexual men of all races. 

Homosexuals men have MUCH higher rates of sexual diseases and HIV. And now they carry something called MONKEY pox that they brought over from Africa?!?

Where have you been the past 3 years??  🙄

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