Worst 2025 Experiences

[Luv2play]

16 hours ago, DMonDude said:

Pretty sure i told this story on the guys review thread in this site i think, but i met up with a provider in 2025 who only spoke Spanish. I only speak English. This was not a problem, at first.

I was curious about a dick as big as his as i had never went that big before (10 inch and very thick). We spoke via text where he was using a translator app on his phone. It was here i said i never had a dick as big as his and that he needed to go slow at first and he said ok. Then in person we also spoke via passing his phone back and forth using the translator app. Once we were getting physical and got naked, and phones left in our pants pockets, i realized too late i had no way to communicate with him without our phones actively in our hands.

He started slow on insertion like i asked. After putting it in and waiting till he felt me relax, I handled the thickness better than either of us thought, so he thought he was good to start thrusting. I however, was not fully prepared for the length. So when he went too deep too soon, he hit the wall and i didn't anticipate how that'd feel (it hurt). He didn't realize he was hurting me and i didn't know how to tell him to slow down/stop. He was a much larger guy and was on top of me, so i wasn't fully in positional control to take it out/stop. Eventually i think the sounds i was making tipped him off and he stopped. We ended the session there. We cleaned up, he gave me a goodbye hug, spank, and a kiss, and i left.

He didn't know he was hurting me at first and he wasn't doing so on purpose and he stopped when he did realize. So i don't hold it against him nor feel like anything happened to me against my will in a way he was aware of or anything of that nature. It just was pure language barrier/miscommunication and learning the hard way that i was not ready for that size yet lol. I was sore for a couple hours but was fine after i woke up the next day.

Lesson learned, no hard feelings. If you're going to be inexperienced and hook up with a big dicked guy who doesn't speak your language, make sure you memorize a couple important phrases that make sense for that situation in his language. Keep the phone with translator app open next to you in the bed or just make sure you know you can handle that size so you don't need to say slow down/stop to begin with lol.

I'd honestly see him again once i knew i could handle that size or if came prepared with a little Spanish memorized. He's hot as hell and it felt great, till he hit that wall lol.

I can totally relate as that happened to me way back when. It was a hookup years before I started hiring but the guy had the proverbial dick of death. 
Unfortunately he didn’t know how to wield it and he rammed my second wall. The pain was excruciating. I jumped out of bed right then got dressed and left his house. Never saw him again. 

[Luv2play]

3 hours ago, DMonDude said:

Yeah sure haha. He's Houston, Texas based i believe, but travels all around. I saw him in L.A., but as of this comment he's in Seattle. https://rent.men/Eleizertop

He lists English as a language along with Spanish. 

[DMonDude]

8 minutes ago, Luv2play said:

I can totally relate as that happened to me way back when. It was a hookup years before I started hiring but the guy had the proverbial dick of death. 
Unfortunately he didn’t know how to wield it and he rammed my second wall. The pain was excruciating. I jumped out of bed right then got dressed and left his house. Never saw him again. 

Man that sucks. Happens to the best of us. We go too big and then have to go home lol. Do you think you could handle that size now? Have you leveled up since then? I'm still not on that level.

4 minutes ago, Luv2play said:

He lists English as a language along with Spanish. 

Unless he's suddenly become fluent in 4 months, i don't think he's telling the truth there.

[Walt]

I'm confused as to why many of the posts are so discreet as to not reveal the names of who the worst providers actually were. 

[savantsav]

3 hours ago, Walt said:

I'm confused as to why many of the posts are so discreet as to not reveal the names of who the worst providers actually were. 

Some of them might frequent the forum and get enraged if you make it that public. Flooding with DMs and threatening to release personal info.

[+ Pensant]

10 hours ago, savantsav said:

Some of them might frequent the forum and get enraged if you make it that public. Flooding with DMs and threatening to release personal info.

Indeed! There was a case like that re a certain provider last year.

[Becket]

This is like the "Razzies," the list of worst movies that comes out after Oscar nominations.

[+ Nakedchi]

On 1/25/2026 at 12:09 PM, soloyo215 said:

Last year I went to Oaxaca, Mexico, with the expectation that the place is like the cities in the coast or Mexico city. It turned out to be quite conservative and, though interesting in terms of culture, architecture and things to do, gay life seemed more like an afterthought. The availability of providers in the area was limited and not the best quality, especially in terms of safety. The experiences weren't terrible, but they were the least satisfying of the year. Guys I hired there were not the best providers.

That's why many gays from Oaxaca City go to Zipolite for their holidays. It's one of the hottest gay travel destinations.

[DaddyPete]

On 1/25/2026 at 4:48 PM, VIdeo said:

I was in Montreal and saw a provider online with a few good reviews so I reached out. We were suppose to meet at his place but when I got there he wasn’t there. He kept telling me he was on his way to wait for him. After 30 minutes he finally showed up, he kinda acted a bit odd.  I should’ve trusted my instincts and left but I wasn’t thinking with the right head. We got in the elevator and he whipped out his dick, asked for the money. Stupid me gave it to him and we walked to an apartment he started pounding on the door asking to be let in. He went in first, I heard yelling so I just ran off out of there. Pretty sure he just wanted to run off with the money. I tired to leave a bad review to warn others but rentmen told me since I didn’t message him on there site I can’t leave a negative review 😏. 

That sounds like the provider I had in Montreal, who asked for more tip for his drug habit.

[Milo Janus]

On 1/25/2026 at 11:51 PM, SirBillybob said:

I watched two hot studs flip fcuk and only had time and choreographic creativity for one in the threelipede to blow me while railed. 

What's a threelipede?

[+ SirBillybob]

9 hours ago, Milo Janus said:

What's a threelipede?

This, truncated to 3 … tricede conga line with eventual variations. 

Edited 21 hours ago by SirBillybob

[Foreverfun]

Limited experience last year and the one disaster I had was with JakeofStateFarm from Tampa (name change since then to JakeLTyler.  A total hustler who is not interactive nor provides any real service.  Totally str8 even though advertises as gay.  Learned my lesson the hard way.  Total waste of time and money.

[LostUpstate]

I only hired 2 providers last year. One was with Jae who goes by Massage Bliss by Jae on masseurfinder. He no longer has his profile on rentmasseur. His texting before the meeting was like a form letter- “Please state age, height and weight for table adjustment.” “Rate is $180, tipping is not included.” He kept making sure that I was going to tip in our messaging. 
 

I arrived on time for the incall, and he wasn’t very warm or welcoming. It was like a business transaction. When the session was over, he was busy texting on his phone and not engaged in conversation or any small talk, seemed completely disinterested. As I was walking out of his studio, it had been 35 minutes but I had paid for an hour. Wouldn’t recommend or repeat. 

[Venite]

On 1/26/2026 at 7:46 PM, savantsav said:

Some of them might frequent the forum and get enraged if you make it that public. Flooding with DMs and threatening to release personal info.

Indeed. As the original creator of this thread, I assumed the thread would stay in "Questions about Hiring" (someone seems to have moved it to the Deli) and that people wouldn't necessarily name names often.... just describe their experiences. I guess i should have edited my intial post to include a "keep names anonymous unless really necessary" request.