My 2025 hiring recap

[bobsboy51]

Not sure if this allowed or best here, but what the heck.  Was thinking about my 2025 hiring and jotted some facts down - would love to see others.

Hires - 5 total

• 4 new
• 1 repeat

Where I met them

• 3 outcalls (their place/hotel/Airbnb)
• 2 incalls (my hotel)

Cities where I met them (I'm based closest to Philly)

• 4 in Philly
• 1 in NYC

Where they're based

• 3 in NYC
• 1 in Philly
• 1 in San Fran

Where they're originally from

• 2 from US
• 1 from Brazil
• 1 from Mexico
• 1 from Czech Republic

Their advertised positions

• 2 verse
• 2 verse-bottoms
• 1 bottom

Base hourly rate

• 1 at $250
• 2 at $300
• 2 at $350

Kind of fun re-living the meetings!  Happy New Year all!

[kaboom35]

You don’t wanna post who they were?  Could be helpful if you enjoyed the sessions.

[pubic_assistance]

13 hours ago, bobsboy51 said:

jotted some facts down

So organized.

Did you build an Excell Spreadsheet ? 😆

[+ Pensant]

Some months last year that was my monthly total!

[Whippoorwill]

Hires - 11x total (would have been more except I was laid up for 3 months...typically once every three or four weeks when at home, and several times when on vacation [none in 2025])

• 1 - 1 time (he retired)
• the other - 10 times 

Where I met them

• all outcalls (their place)

Cities where I met them (SF is my homebase)

• SF 

Where they're based

• SF

Where they're originally from

• 1 from Japan
• the other from Taiwan

Their advertised positions

• Mother taught me to never kiss and tell

Base hourly rate

• ditto 

Edited Saturday at 07:58 PM by Whippoorwill
added "typically....none in 2025"

[Jay17403]

Meh.

14 total

Kinda every where I travel for work.

All new guys, no repeats.

8 really hot guys, 5 guy next door, and one I would never admit to.

Rates per hour average  $175-$250, with at least 2 hours each and 3 three hour sessions.

Lessons learned. Make sure the nice guys know how to fuck and assholes can sometimes fuck really good and anyone in porn or OF is almost never worth it.

New Years resolution.  Hire more in the coming year. 

 

[Postiche]

10-15 different guys an average of 4-6 times a month. Looking back, I realize why I am so exhausted.

[Boaxxx]

On 1/2/2026 at 5:10 PM, Postiche said:

10-15 different guys an average of 4-6 times a month. Looking back, I realize why I am so exhausted.

And broke 😂😂😂

Great to see you have the means to thoroughly enjoy your hobby.

Edited Sunday at 02:00 AM by Boaxxx

[Boaxxx]

I'm going to have to keep better records for 2026 as I am scrolling through my bank statements to see what happened in 2025. My count is a combination of massage and escort sessions if my memory is correct.

Total sessions-  7

New - 2

Repeats - 3

All in calls (their place or hotel)

Cities - San Francisco and Oakland

Range - $200 to 300

[liubit]

I keep simple but accurate records both of my hires and my non-commercial hookups, so here goes my rundown for 2025:

- Grand Total number of sexual meetings: 42, with a total of 19 different guys, 8 paid and 11 unpaid (many repeats).

- Overnights: 3, with the same unpaid guy  

- Total paid meetings: 22, with 8 different providers (many repeats here as well)

- Average rate of providers 2250 HK dollars, around 280 US dollars  

- City: Hong Kong

 

Edited Saturday at 07:51 AM by liubit

[RugbyBen]

I only did masseurs as usual but had a busy year for me.  

Repeat - 4 trips to the guy i think of as my regular. All two hour sessions, all fantastic for massage and more. 

New - 8 guys, only one of which I've seen for a second time so far, though i'd consider it for all but one of the others. A real mix of guys and experiences. None match my regular but nice to mix it up and all ended happily.

Have already started my 2026 record with a good massage yesterday. 

 

Edited Saturday at 10:12 AM by RugbyBen

[Whippoorwill]

From Liubit, above: "I keep simple but accurate records both of my hires and my non-commercial hookups, so here goes my rundown for 2025:"

...........

"- City: Hong Kong"  

Ah, now I know whence come all the great pictures you post in the Legacy Gallery under "Today I feel like having Asian..." 

...which some of us feel like having every day. 

 

[+ DrownedBoy]

I started writing detailed journal entries following each session this year.

Since they'd probably freak people out, I won't post them here.

[ShortCutie7]

January:

1 hire that got cut short after a few minutes (hot guy, would not repeat because there was no chemistry)

February:

1 phenomenal hire (would repeat in a heartbeat)

March:

1 excellent hire (would repeat but with some limitations)

June:

in one day… 

Turned away by first hire due to his circumstances… I would try him again but he seems to have left the business.

Second hire wanted to charge extra for a very basic activity I wanted to do (so just gave him a $100 after 3 mins and left)… another very hot guy but would not try him again.

Third hire was the charm and was wonderful and I would repeat!

I haven’t been able to hire since June but am hoping to again soon.

So over all, 3 full hires (all of whom I would repeat) out of 6 guys I met.

[MarkBottom2025]

Sounds like you had some good times in 2025, hopefully 2026 is just as good or better for you !

[Postiche]

On 1/2/2026 at 6:52 PM, Boaxxx said:

And broke 😂😂😂

Great to see you have the means to thoroughly enjoy your hobby.

Yes. I could have bought a nice automobile for the money I spent.  However, I had some really pleasurable nights.

[liubit]

9 hours ago, Whippoorwill said:

Ah, now I know whence come all the great pictures you post in the Legacy Gallery under "Today I feel like having Asian..."

Yes, I love Asian men: they are so smooth, so loving, such great kissers, and…so attracted to my hairy Caucasian old-daddy type. 😈 I find their pics in my random X (twitter) wanderings. I am very happy that you like them too

9 hours ago, Whippoorwill said:

...which some of us feel like having every day. 

[guest]

My hire recap ( I tend to only hire when I am traveling for work) 

Feb  - really nice top from Puerto Rico. would see again but he has moved out of business 

March - hot guy from Orlando. nice chemistry, would rehire.  Average looking guy in Cleveland, wouldn't recommend. 

April - one of the hottest hires I have ever seen. Amazing. saw him again, but he told me he couldn't do the business as some clients were hard work. He also was wary of how temping it was to get stuck in the industry. smart guy. He gave me his personal number and still sees me when I reach out (which I have twice) 

May - hot top in Boston. would repeat when I am back in town

June- vers guy that was awful and I left a bad review here and on RM. He sent me my money back with apologies and I removed reviews as I believed he learned his lesson. 

August - tried to hire a guy in Philly but he cancelled last minute and I just got a guy from grindr instead.

November - Atlanta, saw a hot twitter/OF star bottom. Was very hard to pin down, but he had fair rates (could easily charge more) and he performed SO WELL. we exchanged personal numbers now we have met and I will see him every time I am in town for sure. 

 

[+ purplekow]

2 minutes ago, NYXboy said:

 

November - Atlanta, saw a hot twitter/OF star bottom. Was very hard to pin down, but he had fair rates (could easily charge more) and he performed SO WELL. we exchanged personal numbers now we have met and I will see him every time I am in town for sure. 

 

I kind of like it when a bottom is hard to pin down.   

[+ purplekow]

I arrived in Palm Springs in February.  I had two regulars in NJ I saw before I left for a total for 4 visits.     

So in Palm Springs  I have seen only visitors to the area.  No local regular.  This has been replaced by Scruff hook up which have totaled 7.  Two were coffee dates that did not go any further.  The other 5 were all encounters at my home totalling 8 encounters.  Scruff guys seem to be one and done type guys but two of them I have seen more than once but it takes a lot of effort to get them to come over.  

As far as hires go

Two hot Columbians in their late 20s early thirties.  Great fun.  Total of 8 2 hour encounters which stretched out to more like 4 as they are not clock watchers. 

Usually have a meal afterwards which stretches the entire encounter to 6 hours or so.  One was at my home for 5 visits including three days in a row and  the other I meet at his hotel. for three visits.    

One muscle guy from San Diego who was okay but would not  see again.  Similar to the others, 2 hours planned stretching out further.

Porn actor from LA. Saw him twice. Very hot muscle guy.  Vers.  He was two hours on the dot both times.  

Porn Actor Landon Conrad.  Great first encounter.  Tried to repeat but he cancelled trips to PS   Would definitely hire again but only once he was actually in town.

Traveller in from the east coast.  Only saw once.  His hotel.  Usual 2 hours.  Pictures were more favorable than real life but the sex was fun.  

Date with escort from the Pool Party went well.  Too bad he went back to UK but I am hoping to have him for a longer visit if he returns.  This was a good experience with someone I met in DC at a forum event but did not get to see. So it was unfinished business.  We both finished.  

And the ever popular Tristan Baldwin spent a few days in my guest room, as did I.  

So in 10 months.  8 men hired for a total of 16 encounters.  8 men from Scruff  2 of those no goes and 2 of them multiple times to total 8.   One pick up at the grocery story.  4 NJ visits.   Averaging out to one encounter every 10 days but in reality there were weeks with 8 encounters and two months when I had friends and family visiting where there was nothing.  

Considering my senior status, think this is not bad but I definitely could have used more. 

 

[ShortCutie7]

8 minutes ago, purplekow said:

 

Considering my senior status, think this is not bad but I definitely could have used more. 

 

I’m in my mid 30s and haven’t had any activity since June!  I also had even longer dry streaks in my 20s!

[+ purplekow]

2 hours ago, ShortCutie7 said:

I’m in my mid 30s and haven’t had any activity since June!  I also had even longer dry streaks in my 20s!

My comrade in Forum, please start getting some.  It does not get easier to get laid as you get older unless you hit the lottery or have major plastic surgery.  So start using what you got.  Perhaps expand your search radius and be more outgoing about seeking out partners.  Perhaps you think, sex is not that important to me.  I do not have that strong a libido.  I can assure you, once you start getting it regularly you will look back and think: why the fuck was I waiting.  Don't fear rejection.  Everyone gets turned down, some of us get turned down again and again and again and again.  Just as in baseball, you are an all star if you hit 300 and 250 is not bad.   

 

 

Edited Sunday at 09:28 AM by purplekow

[Mark_fl]

I guess I'll throw in my 2 cents:

June: Had a 2 night stay on a business trip with a cute guy I'd been trying to see for a while unsuccessfully. It was worth the wait. Just what I needed as my first foray into this. Would love to see him again if the planets aligned. I still reach out now and again to keep in touch, and he always replies. 

October: Hired a masseur who did a nice job and offered a "release" for a little extra and surprised me pleasantly by including oral as that release. Will repeat. Maybe today

December: Saw a rentman in NJ (Already posted about the experience here) and was surprised when he said he didn't do oral after discussing that would be important,  but claimed he must have missed it. Conflicted, as he was cute, nice, VERY affectionate and reached out before and after. And I saw in his profile and pictures that he does more.

[+ Pensant]

Started out this year on Friday night with my 26 yo “private stock” regular in Seattle. Two hour sessions usually last 3, since we love to gossip afterwards and take a shower. He wants to meet again, soon. Then I’ll head to Portland and see a new guy who has size 13 feet, which I will enjoy, among other things. I’ll also see “Darwin” from Venezuela, with whom I had a fabulous time last August. I’ll also try to zip up to Vancouver.

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[ShortCutie7]

5 hours ago, purplekow said:

My comrade in Forum, please start getting some.  It does not get easier to get laid as you get older unless you hit the lottery or have major plastic surgery.  So start using what you got.  Perhaps expand your search radius and be more outgoing about seeking out partners.  Perhaps you think, sex is not that important to me.  I do not have that strong a libido.  I can assure you, once you start getting it regularly you will look back and think: why the fuck was I waiting.  Don't fear rejection.  Everyone gets turned down, some of us get turned down again and again and again and again.  Just as in baseball, you are an all star if you hit 300 and 250 is not bad.   

 

 

It’s really mostly a time/logistics issue, but I will absolutely prioritize getting laid in the new year 😈