What do you do with an Escort over the weekend?

[Nebost]

So after years of admiration, I befriended my most favorite porn star ever, and am in process of setting up a weekend in NYC with him.  . Suggestions on how to spend the time between the sex?   Looking to do just fun stuff that might be more low-key casual, interactive and can get to know him a bit better.  Thanks in advance for any suggestions

Not going to name him because he has a family now and has been away from porn for years. He does more mundane stuff now like changing light bulbs lol.   But he’s mid-thirties now, in fantastic shape and the maturity looks great on him.

 

Edited October 18 by Nebost
Added discreet pics

[+ KensingtonHomo]

It's NYC! What do you want to do? Do you know his interests? 

You could see a show. You could explore cool restaurants. The weather is nice so you could head to Central Park or Union Square park.  

[big-n-tall]

Not trying to out your escort friend, but judging by those pics it looks like an older Marcus Mojo (and more ripped/muscled). If it is him, lucky you. I remember he used to advertise and people on this forum said he was hard to schedule.

As @KensingtonHomo suggested in NYC you can do almost anything in between. Ask him what he likes to do and find out if there is something you'll mutual enjoy and go do it.

Edited October 18 by big-n-tall

[jeezifonly]

I gather that the city is home for neither of you - you're on equal footing as visitors. Ask him for input - he's likely been there before - have you? Attending theatre reduces time for convo, but inspires it after. Do things you would do with any good friend.

Flea markets? Park/museum stuff? Does your agreement allow for him to have some alone/other client time? In NY simply walking down a street can inspire a mutual interest, so you'll surely figure out something fun! 

 

[+ PhileasFogg]

I encourage you to act as though you’re his host giving him opportunity to short list some things that he’d like to do and involve him in the dinner reservation choices. 

Edited October 19 by PhileasFogg

[+ PhileasFogg]

I’ll add that I’m currently ona  week long trip with an RM that many know well (but he prefers to maintain low profile - hence nameless) We are in Iceland.  We planned the trip together over the last six weeks.  We blended our short list, I gave it to an Icelandic Gay Travel Agency and they made nearly all of it happen. 

[Nebost]

Thanks everyone for the input.  I’ll ask my buddy if there’s anything in particular he’d like to do, and make a list of suggestions.  Top of my list would be Hudson yards (Beehive, Observations deck, walking trails)…something active and engaging that would still allow for conversation.  One thing I nixed is Adonis club , I’d  enjoy that more by myself, without worrying that somebody would try to steal away my escort, lol!

Phileas,

Your iceland trip sounds amazing.  Sometimes I wonder how we got to a place where we’re able to do what we truly most want..  Thinking of oneself as a good host is a great framework, thanks for that.

Big n Tall,

Perhaps I need be better at discretion, lol.

Jeez,

Yes , my buddy wanted to get away from his East Coast hometown, he’s a dad with toddlers and seemed to want a break from his regular life.   I’m West Coast so I thought of NYC.  Thanks for the encouragement.

Kensington,

Central Park sounds great, I did that with my last NYC escort trip we had a very nice time.

Edited October 19 by Nebost

[+ PhileasFogg]

There are endless opportunities for conversation in my experience.  It is funny though.  Yesterday, my guest and I went snorkeling between the tectonic plates in 35° temps.  He indulged me in that side trip with apprehension.  He LOVED it!  As an accommodation to him embracing the plan, I made sure we were covering every thermal lagoon we could fit in.  We also did a 6 mile hike to get inside a volcano.  My 60+ yr old a$$ was the oldest in the group and nothing slowed us down.  We talked the whole time and enjoyed interacting with the other hikers.

If you view this arrangement as travel companionship with side benefits, it usually makes the side benefits more gratifying for each of you. 

[Rod Hagen]

If I were single and hiring, I'd want an escort, 5'8" or shorter, bottom who snowboards as well or better than I do so we could spend each day boarding and each morning and late afternoon and evening, and in every empty godola, fucking. That's what we''d do for the weekend.  I'd be like Squirrel Murphy, but with a guy.

 

Edited October 22 by Rod Hagen