Law enforcement?

[Alchemy]

Does anyone here -- clients or escorts -- ever worry about being stung by law enforcement? I'm guessing big cities with significant tourism and gay populations (NYC, LA, SF, etc.) are hands-off. But is it a worry for anyone or are those days past us?

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

Some similar discussion from 2020...

The instances of it happening are few and far between.

I'd be most concerned if working at or patronizing a massage parlor posing as a front for happy endings with illegal labor, as those employees are the most vulnerable group and public opinion frowns on taking advantage of these vulnerable groups of people for sex.

I'm less worried about hiring a man who advertises independently, as society is more apt to let two consenting adults do whatever they agree to. 

I mention societal acceptance, because that is important when it comes to how elected officials prioritize enforcement and how a jury may perceive your case.

 

Edited Thursday at 09:28 PM by Vegas_Millennial

[+ azdr0710]

Find someone you like on Rentmen and search here in the forum for chatter if it exists.  If not found, start a new thread inquiry here. You can also stick with well-reviewed providers already "approved" here in existing threads. Stings often occur only when the public complains about activity in public bathrooms (Larry Craig, George Michael were busted this way). Avoid money talk at a meeting and definitely do not associate acts with money (lock down the financials ahead of the meeting). You may want to host to avoid those classic scenes of undercover cops busting in from the neighboring connecting motel room after the trapping undercover dude gets you to agree to pay him "$100 for a blowjob" on tape and video!!

Edited Thursday at 11:01 PM by azdr0710

[+ KensingtonHomo]

No, I don't worry it at all. 

[dbar123]

The police have other priorities, like pardoning sex traffickers 

[+ Jamie21]

Hire in the UK. We’re a sensible country: you can safely discuss buying sex here. It’s legal, within certain parameters. 

[Alchemy]

Thanks for the helpful responses. I appreciate them.

[+ SirBillybob]

On the one hand, in Canada we have Montreal metro uniformed police dropping in to, say, Campus on their bar venue beats a few steps away from the private MSM dance area where paid for erections and orgasms abound. Appropriately live and let live. 

On the other hand, non-pimp 3rd party vehicle drivers of female sex workers to their appointments arrested and convicted for participating in what is ostensibly an added safety mechanism for the women’s occupational hazards. 

Edited 16 hours ago by SirBillybob

[jeezifonly]

If you’re the only homosexual in Moosejaw, Idaho and you bring in a guy for an overnight from big city Boise, and there’s folks around who don’t approve of you and like to watch every coming and going and have the sheriff’s personal cellphone phone number, you might think twice. Otherwise I wouldn’t worry in major markets.

That said - 
Always be considerate of your host’s discretion requests, no matter which side of the bargain you’re on. 

[marylander1940]

On 8/7/2025 at 7:03 PM, Alchemy said:

Does anyone here -- clients or escorts -- ever worry about being stung by law enforcement? I'm guessing big cities with significant tourism and gay populations (NYC, LA, SF, etc.) are hands-off. But is it a worry for anyone or are those days past us?

Vegas, Miami, Oklahoma.

All the cities you mentioned are safe.

[marylander1940]

11 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

Hire in the UK. We’re a sensible country: you can safely discuss buying sex here. It’s legal, within certain parameters. 

We're backwards!

 

[Thelatin]

6 hours ago, jeezifonly said:

like to watch every coming and going

When I’m at work and my blink camera records my “friend” frolicking about my yard taking selfies lol.  The poor neighbor lady.

[+ SirBillybob]

6 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

We're backwards!

 

Want to simply enjoy & pay for doing ‘the reverse cowboy'? Busted.