+ Vegas_Millennial Posted July 27 Posted July 27 (edited) On 7/15/2025 at 5:09 PM, Walt said: Hmmmm...That particular carve out just doesn't appear in any of the statements from Wikipedia, National Harm Reduction Coalition, American Civil Liberties Union, Amnesty International USA, The Sex Workers Project, Human Rights Campaign, and the National Network Of Sex Workers on what a "proper" sex worker is. In fact with all their statements on risk reduction, empowerment, self-determination, codification of tights, and unionization, it seems that all these organizations favor the idea that "proper" sex workers have more power and control in the choices they make concerning what they will and will not do and with who they do them. I am sorry that all of our feelings get hurt when we get rejected. But rather than blaming the other person, could we possibly flip the explanation to recognize ta least some culpability ourseves? Maybe we are not always "proper" mature adults, that we are not as resilient as we might be as a "proper" adult, that we need to accept that we can't control so many, many things in our everyday lives but our lack of control is not simply because someone else is doing something wrong. Sex worker - Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_worker Sex Work Resources | National Harm Reduction Coalition https://harmreduction.org/issues/sex-work/ Sex Work is Real Work, and it's Time to Treat it That Way | American Civil Liberties Union https://www.aclu.org/news/lgbtq-rights/sex-work-is-real-work-and-its-time-to-treat-it-that-way Sex workers' rights | Amnesty International USA https://www.amnestyusa.org/issues/gender-sexuality/sex-work-rights/ Sex Work FAQ's - Sex Workers Project https://swp.urbanjustice.org/sex-work-faqs/ HRC | Beyond the Stereotypes: A Deep Dive Into Sex Work https://www.hrc.org/resources/beyond-the-stereotypes-a-deep-dive-into-sex-work Sex Work Overview - National Harm Reduction Coalition https://harmreduction.org/issues/sex-work/overview/ National Network Of Sex Workers http://nnswindia.org/ The next time I hire, I'll be sure to discerne first if he is a proper sex worker. As I surely don't want to waste my hour on a common gigalo. Thankfully, about 99% of the men I've met and hired, including all those I've met as members on Company of Men, have been proper and made me feel like and attractive Bear/Daddy.. BTW, I list "British English" on my resume as a 2nd language that I can understand (Australian English is listed as 3rd). Therefore, perhaps I have a better understanding of @Jamie21 meaning of "proper" as a British Adjective than others might. Just don't ask me to translate Canadian English! Edited July 27 by Vegas_Millennial mike carey and Luv2play 2
Boaxxx Posted July 27 Posted July 27 On 7/15/2025 at 12:44 PM, jgkarma said: https://rent.men/JordanLatino I am 72 yrs and bearish/daddyish... I have been with Jordan a couple of times and had a great time!! Each encounter gets better. He is a generous top/vers that enjoys what he is doing. His massage talents are great, as well. Highly recommend. He is an itinerant escort. He shows up in here in Cleveland a few times a year. Not to be missed. 5 Stars!! This is good to hear as he comes to San Jose quite regularly. Call it a self esteem issue or something else but I always wonder if the provider is enjoying himself. I'm far from a big bear but rather a senior pocket gay, only 5'2", 135 and quite average looking. Fortunately I never experienced any negative engagements but it's always in the back of my mind. Being a senior is one reason why I choose older providers, preferably 40+, as I feel like there may be a better connection and they understand what it is like to get older. I tend to steer away from younger guys, even though there are so many hot ones, because I think they would not be interested and it would show in there performance. I probably just need to work this out with a good therapist. That said I have a couple of regulars that I think like me as a client.🤞 + KensingtonHomo and Hen 2
+ Jamie21 Posted July 27 Posted July 27 9 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said: Therefore, perhaps I have a better understanding of @Jamie21 meaning of "proper" as a British Adjective than others might. Wow does ‘proper’ mean something different where you are @Vegas_Millennial? I didn’t realise that. As a Brit I use ‘proper’ in the correct way because I speak ‘the King’s English’ …the standard, correct and educated form of the English language. 😉. But if the client wants it I can also do proper cor blimey London cockney…just like Dick Van Dyke 🤪. + azdr0710, Smokey and TorontoDrew 1 2
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted July 27 Posted July 27 5 hours ago, Jamie21 said: Wow does ‘proper’ mean something different where you are @Vegas_Millennial? I didn’t realise that. As a Brit I use ‘proper’ in the correct way because I speak ‘the King’s English’ …the standard, correct and educated form of the English language. 😉. But if the client wants it I can also do proper cor blimey London cockney…just like Dick Van Dyke 🤪. When I "googled" "Proper definition", it gave me this: Quote adjective proper (adjective) BRITISH ENGLISH truly what something is said or regarded to be; genuine: "she's never had a proper job" · "a proper meal" similar: real genuine actual I had not seen the descriptor "British English" when I've looked up words before. But it makes perfect sense. In American English, we would likely say "That man is not an actual sex worker" instead of "proper sex worker", and it wouldn't ruffle as many feathers. I hear that word "actual" used several times a day in this context (not always about sex workers, but something like "I didn't actually have lunch today, only a snack", etc.) and it irks me, because "proper" is clearly the more accurate word in these situations. But that's what makes the English language the colorful language ...colourful language... it is which is awesome ...I mean, brilliant. 😊 Luv2play, Walt and + azdr0710 1 1 1
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Dr.KNYC Posted August 19 Posted August 19 As interesting as some of these comments are, I wish we would return to the original question: escorts that cater to or are particularly good with older or bearish men. Jeeper84, + MikeThomas, craigville beach and 3 others 4 2
Alchemy Posted August 25 Posted August 25 On 8/19/2025 at 9:42 AM, Dr.KNYC said: As interesting as some of these comments are, I wish we would return to the original question: escorts that cater to or are particularly good with older or bearish men. Another endorsement for sboyyy (if you like enjoy toned and slender). MikeBiDude and TJMS 1 1
TJMS Posted August 25 Posted August 25 Indeed, Sboyyy of Chicago, is just what the Daddy ordered!! Yum! Alchemy and MikeBiDude 1 1
+ jgkarma Posted September 11 Posted September 11 I just had an encounter with Collegefunx! I am a 72 yr old daddy... I asked if that will be a problem (as I always do). He said no problem... And it wasn't a problem at all. His kissing and affection are incredible. The sex was fantastic. I felt like a 30 yr old again.... I highly recommend Collegefunx!!!! https://rent.men/Collegefunx TJMS, + Act25 and mike carey 3
Luv2play Posted September 11 Posted September 11 (edited) On 7/26/2025 at 9:09 PM, Vegas_Millennial said: The next time I hire, I'll be sure to discerne first if he is a proper sex worker. As I surely don't want to waste my hour on a common gigalo. Thankfully, about 99% of the men I've met and hired, including all those I've met as members on Company of Men, have been proper and made me feel like and attractive Bear/Daddy.. BTW, I list "British English" on my resume as a 2nd language that I can understand (Australian English is listed as 3rd). Therefore, perhaps I have a better understanding of @Jamie21 meaning of "proper" as a British Adjective than others might. Just don't ask me to translate Canadian English! Our Canadian English is the only unaccented English in the world. Lol The limeys, Aussies, Americans, Kiwis all speak with distinctive accents. Ours is neutral, at least to my ears. 😏 Edited September 11 by Luv2play + azdr0710 1
mike carey Posted September 12 Posted September 12 7 hours ago, Luv2play said: Our Canadian English is the only unaccented English in the world. Lol The limeys, Aussies, Americans, Kiwis all speak with distinctive accents. Ours is neutral, at least to my ears. 😏 You're right, there is only one place that speaks unaccented English, respectfully it's not Canada. Luv2play 1
nate_sf Posted September 12 Posted September 12 I truly like big guys, and older guys, and big older guys. Grandpa bears have their fans! DznNYC, Smokey, + robear and 1 other 1 1 2
Smokey Posted September 12 Posted September 12 15 hours ago, mike carey said: You're right, there is only one place that speaks unaccented English, respectfully it's not Canada. Lerner and Loewe channeling George Bernard Shaw: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kT722r21eK0
mike carey Posted September 13 Posted September 13 4 hours ago, Smokey said: Lerner and Loewe channeling George Bernard Shaw: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kT722r21eK0 Indeed, 'In America they haven't used it for years'! + azdr0710 1
JSchorr Posted Wednesday at 06:12 PM Posted Wednesday at 06:12 PM I don’t have a specific recommendation but just wanted to comment. I tend not to go below a certain age. I am 71. I always ask if older is OK, I state my age and I’ve had pretty good luck with that. In the encounters that I’ve had it seems the more important issue is are you well groomed, decently dressed and clean. I have had a couple of meetings with guys who I’m sure would never be interested outside of a paid encounter but who went the extra mile, were quite pleasant and complimentary. The kinder and nicer you are the better- treating them like a person instead of an object of your desire…ask about their life, etc. I avoid any ad where the profile language is rough, aggressive or anything like that but that’s just my own personal preference. TJMS, + FLOutdoors, Nightowl and 5 others 6 2
jmichaeliii Posted Wednesday at 06:17 PM Posted Wednesday at 06:17 PM 3 minutes ago, JSchorr said: I don’t have a specific recommendation but just wanted to comment. I tend not to go below a certain age. I am 71. I always ask if older is OK, I state my age and I’ve had pretty good luck with that. In the encounters that I’ve had it seems the more important issue is are you well groomed, decently dressed and clean. I have had a couple of meetings with guys who I’m sure would never be interested outside of a paid encounter but who went the extra mile, were quite pleasant and complimentary. The kinder and nicer you are the better- treating them like a person instead of an object of your desire…ask about their life, etc. I avoid any ad where the profile language is rough, aggressive or anything like that but that’s just my own personal preference. Totally agree on all counts. There are a lot of hot guys out there that will treat you like gold if you do the same. I coming down off the high of a great encounter today! CADreamer, + Vegas_Millennial, + FLOutdoors and 1 other 2 2
+ FLOutdoors Posted Wednesday at 07:34 PM Posted Wednesday at 07:34 PM (edited) 1 hour ago, jmichaeliii said: Totally agree on all counts. There are a lot of hot guys out there that will treat you like gold if you do the same. I coming down off the high of a great encounter today! This is so true! I too am 30+ years older than the guys I hire (but don’t look it) . I marvel at how hot some of the guys are that I’ve been with, and repeatedly, just by being kind, humorous, respectful, clean, interesting and interested! And being a good tipper helps too! So yeah….do not let your age hold you back! Edited Wednesday at 07:35 PM by FLOutdoors Typo TJMS, CADreamer, jmichaeliii and 1 other 3 1
CADreamer Posted yesterday at 05:38 AM Posted yesterday at 05:38 AM These days I only hire when I make my twice-yearly trip to my timeshare in Las Vegas. Last fall I noticed that an L.A. provider I had admired was in town at the same time I was, and I contacted him. I am very glad I did. These days I am mostly interested in a BFE connection and Lawson fulfilled my desires completely. He contacted me ahead of my spring trip and offered to come to Vegas again, so we were able to meet up once more, and despite his busy schedule he is making a quick trip to meet me there again next week. He is passionate, sexy, and makes me feel like he's enjoying our time together as much as I am. I can't recommend him enough. https://rent.men/TheLawsonGraves https://rentmen.eu/TheLawsonGraves He has a few other favorable reviews here as well. The Lawson Graves - LA -411 DenverDad, thomas and + Vegas_Millennial 2 1
RayK Posted 13 hours ago Posted 13 hours ago I've found Las Vegas to have a number of terrific providers who enjoy mature clients. And not far from there is Palm Springs, also a great resource.
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