Would you hire a “side” provider?

[NYXboy]

I would personally would never hire a side as I find penetration to be a requirement for me to have fun sexually. However, as this thread shows there is a niche market for people who don't have such a requirement. If you are happy to limit yourself to this area of the market - go for it!  

 

You should only be doing what you are comfortable with. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

Anecdotally, I hear there’s a big market for what you describe.  But if I may suggest, don’t over analyze.  Just put yourself out there, see what the market accepts,  and refine the details until you get it where you want it 

[Saabster]

I think your profile is great. I would definitely be interested, if I were visiting your city. 

[marylander1940]

A "side" escort is called a masseur with a HE. 

Some masseurs also do anal. 

[MikeBiDude]

5 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

A "side" escort is called a masseur with a HE. 

Some masseurs also do anal. 

Disagree, basically a “side” doesn’t do penetration, most other activities on the table.

Urban Dictionary: Side

WWW.URBANDICTIONARY.COM

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Side: A homosexual male who does not enjoy anal penetration ([giving or receiving]), but will engage in other forms of same sex activity (fellatio, [frottage],...

 

[Cbilly17]

I’m sure there are guys out there that would love what you offer and not need the penetration. I’d be one of them.

[marylander1940]

10 hours ago, MikeBiDude said:

Disagree, basically a “side” doesn’t do penetration, most other activities on the table.

Urban Dictionary: Side

WWW.URBANDICTIONARY.COM

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Side: A homosexual male who does not enjoy anal penetration ([giving or receiving]), but will engage in other forms of same sex activity (fellatio, [frottage],...

 

My point, "side" means everything except anal. 

[pubic_assistance]

10 hours ago, MikeBiDude said:

 a “side” doesn’t do penetration

Urban Dictionary: Side

WWW.URBANDICTIONARY.COM

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Side: A homosexual male who does not enjoy anal penetration ([giving or receiving]), but will engage in other forms of same sex activity (fellatio, [frottage],...

 

Frottage is an under-appreciated sensual activity. 

When I was young, I used to volunteer for a workshop that taught young gay men to enjoy sexual encounters that didn't involve penetration as a way of reducing the spread of HIV.  

When you grow up in a religious community like I did, you learn to engage in a variety of sexual activity that doesn't involve actually fucking your girlfriend. Most girls wanted an expression of love and commitment before they would go there...so you learned to be satisfied without, if you werent yet serious with a partner. (Unless you went out with one of the sluttier girls)....who I eventually learned were more fun.

[LookingAround]

Some guys (like me) are into edging scenes. You could promote something like that, too. 

[pubic_assistance]

14 minutes ago, LookingAround said:

Some guys (like me) are into edging scenes

I second this opinion.

Too few guys in the escort or massage  business who are skilled at edging.

🍆⏰️⏰️⏰️💦💦💦💦

 

[asiantwunktop]

11 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I second this opinion.

Too few guys in the escort or massage  business who are skilled at edging.

🍆⏰️⏰️⏰️💦💦💦💦

 

Fuck, I love edging. Feeling a well-slicked cock swell and throb in my mouth before tasting that wave of precum right before release, and then backing off for the umpteenth time… these are the moments worth living for. 

[BeHappy]

Good luck handsome!  Be kind with your communication about your expectations!  Folks appreciate that!  Sounds like you are in the right from of mind and will have a lot of 5 Star reviews!

[liubit]

4 hours ago, asiantwunktop said:

Fuck, I love edging. Feeling a well-slicked cock swell and throb in my mouth before tasting that wave of precum right before release, and then backing off for the umpteenth time… these are the moments worth living for. 

I reiterate my suggestion for you to come to Hong Kong in one of your trips to Asia. You are an Asian side who loves rimming -that’s already three huge plus on my list-, and now you write that edging is also your thing. 👏👏👏👏👏

That takes you to the top of my wishes, @asiantwunktop

[dbar123]

There are times when I want an escort but I just don’t feel like prepping for anal. It would be a relief sometimes to not have to deal with that

[Chien Andalou]

There are plenty of “masseurs” who advertise on RM without offering full sex. Many state “Ask Me” as the position and don’t include anal in the things they’re into. Discreetly state in your text that you don’t fuck (however you want to say it) but do put what you’re willing to do (blow, kiss, rim) down below. I won’t generally hire an escort who won’t get fucked, but sometimes eating out a beautiful ass is more than enough. Give your future clients enough to make an informed decision.
 

PS: that holds true for all service providers. If you’re tired of “time wasters,” give enough information so we can weed ourselves out. 

[Decatur Guy]

I'm less likely to hire someone with no anal involved, but there are times, for sure, when I just do oral sessions. And sometimes that's my desire, not the provider's limits. 

Edited July 21 by Decatur Guy

[Mark_in_SF]

No, because at a minimum I'm looking to get fucked. I don't top, so you not bottoming would not be an issue. If you didn't top ICD not hire you. Plenty of escorts out there who just top, so you won't stand out if that's what you and your partner decide is acceptable. It's the pure bottoms who are the rarity.

I'm also looking for some BDSM and kink in addition to a good fuck, but finding guys who are actually into that and experienced is tricky. There are escorts who claim to be, but there's nothing in their RM profile suggesting it to be true.

Luckily, there is one local masseur/escort who is both a seriously hung top and into BDSM (if nothing too extreme). He's even close to my age, which is a plus to me and relatively uncommon (I'm in my sixties).