Guest Posted March 12 Posted March 12 No judgment here. We all have things that turn us off that are not logical or rational. It may be disproportionate to how much we shrivel at these turn-offs. Mine? Guys with painted nails. I have no reason why. But I may be hot as hell for a guy... till I see painted nails. Then bye-bye erection. Also, adults who talk like adolescents. If I hear "I'm here for it," "that was a choice," "I'm gonna say no," "you're not wrong," or other phrases like that--I'm instantly thinking of my exit strategy for the conversation.
maninsoma Posted March 12 Posted March 12 10 minutes ago, Angel-Ayy said: No judgment here. We all have things that turn us off that are not logical or rational. It may be disproportionate to how much we shrivel at these turn-offs. Mine? Guys with painted nails. I have no reason why. But I may be hot as hell for a guy... till I see painted nails. Then bye-bye erection. Also, adults who talk like adolescents. If I hear "I'm here for it," "that was a choice," "I'm gonna say no," "you're not wrong," or other phrases like that--I'm instantly thinking of my exit strategy for the conversation. I enjoy drag entertainment, but I'm not turned on by men in feminine attire. I remember a porn studio that featured a lot of Latino twinks a couple of decades ago started having some of them in feminine undergarments and make-up. Completely ruined those scenes for me. + claym, Otterlybelievable and + Charlie 3
Bokomaru Posted March 12 Posted March 12 Not sure if this is irrational, but … bottoms faking being turned on while they are getting fucked. Ugh. This is why I generally only watch amateur porn. 99% of the time bottoms are over acting during collab/OF/studio porn. + azdr0710 1
Guest Posted March 12 Posted March 12 46 minutes ago, maninsoma said: I enjoy drag entertainment, but I'm not turned on by men in feminine attire. I remember a porn studio that featured a lot of Latino twinks a couple of decades ago started having some of them in feminine undergarments and make-up. Completely ruined those scenes for me. Ooh! I hadn't thought of this. But I can agree.
Guest Posted March 12 Posted March 12 2 minutes ago, sync said: Mine are superficial: Standoffish demeanor Lack of personal hygiene Unkempt scalp hair Unkempt or unshaven facial hair Severe dental neglect Tattoos Piercings Ooh standoffish also perturbs me. i hooked up with a guy years ago. I was sucking him, then I stopped and said something like, "I wanna feel your mouth." He climbed on top of me and said, "I didn't hear you say please." Aaaaand we were done at that exact moment.
Guest Posted March 12 Posted March 12 37 minutes ago, Bokomaru said: Not sure if this is irrational, but … bottoms faking being turned on while they are getting fucked. Ugh. This is why I generally only watch amateur porn. 99% of the time bottoms are over acting during collab/OF/studio porn. Yes! Exactly! The exaggerated moaning and yells of "papi/daddy" and fake proclamations of "it's so big" or "you're so deep." I think the same about straight porn--the banshee shrieks from some of those women is horribly irritating.
+ JamesB Posted March 12 Posted March 12 I'm not sure I'd call it irrational, but any form of poor hygiene is a total turn-off for me. + sync, Jack Vernon, shinj518 and 3 others 1 5
+ Charlie Posted March 12 Posted March 12 Nose rings and other facial jewelry. ericwinters, + sync and + claym 3
MaybeMaybeNot Posted March 12 Posted March 12 Add me to the no fingernail polish trend, as well as facial piercings. Not personally a fan of excessive tattoos or long, straggly beards. The first STI I ever got was from a man with a long, straggly beard, and it scarred me, I guess. + Charlie, + claym and dbar123 3
Guest Posted March 13 Posted March 13 53 minutes ago, Lucky said: He's on the phone! Agreed. Once, I was sucking this guy. I was giving it my all, really getting into it. Then I looked up at him from his crotch… And he was scrolling on his phone. I was pissed.
soloyo215 Posted March 13 Posted March 13 11 hours ago, Angel-Ayy said: No judgment here. We all have things that turn us off that are not logical or rational. It may be disproportionate to how much we shrivel at these turn-offs. Mine? Guys with painted nails. I have no reason why. But I may be hot as hell for a guy... till I see painted nails. Then bye-bye erection. Also, adults who talk like adolescents. If I hear "I'm here for it," "that was a choice," "I'm gonna say no," "you're not wrong," or other phrases like that--I'm instantly thinking of my exit strategy for the conversation. It has changed in time, but some turnoffs (with exceptions) have been: long hair, guys who are much taller than me, what I call the "it's your lucky day" attitude when approaching me, guys who are too feminine and FTMs. + Charlie 1
moonlight Posted March 13 Posted March 13 Nipple piercings. I don't like any piercings at all, but something about nipple piercings in particular really drains any desire I have for a guy. + Charlie and + sync 2
caramelsub Posted March 13 Posted March 13 Hairy butts, even though my butt is hairy. I always hated having butt hair. I prefer the look of naturally smooth butts. Also skinny guys with no muscle tone is a turn off for me. Otterlybelievable, + Charlie and + Vegas_Millennial 1 2
+ azdr0710 Posted March 13 Posted March 13 12 minutes ago, caramelsub said: Hairy butts, even though my butt is hairy. I always hated having butt hair. I prefer the look of naturally smooth butts. Also skinny guys with no muscle tone is a turn off for me. just for fun, if for no other reason, have you ever had your butt crack and hole waxed?......I have mine waxed every several months, usually in preparation for a provider meeting, just to be clean, groomed, neat, no dingleberries!..... + Charlie, + Vegas_Millennial and + Lucky 2 1
ShortCutie7 Posted March 13 Posted March 13 There are exceptions to every rule, but… -long hair -long beards -too many feet pics -round faces -Prince Alberts + Charlie 1
caramelsub Posted March 13 Posted March 13 1 hour ago, azdr0710 said: just for fun, if for no other reason, have you ever had your butt crack and hole waxed?......I have mine waxed every several months, usually in preparation for a provider meeting, just to be clean, groomed, neat, no dingleberries!..... Well, I’ve tried laser hair removal. Multiple treatments, which were very expensive. But the hair just grows back. I have seen a little bit of a reduction. But I want something more permanent than waxing or shaving. + Lucky, + azdr0710 and + Charlie 2 1
CuriousByNature Posted March 13 Posted March 13 I'm really turned off by the square root of two. + azdr0710, Smokey, liubit and 9 others 1 11
mike carey Posted March 13 Posted March 13 4 minutes ago, CuriousByNature said: I'm really turned off by the square root of two. Yes, that is irrational. It would not be irrational to be turned off by √4. + Charlie, CuriousByNature, Smokey and 1 other 3 1
Lazarus Posted March 13 Posted March 13 A person who smokes cigars. Dealbreaker. Jack Vernon, + Lucky, ericwinters and 3 others 2 2 2
CuriousByNature Posted March 13 Posted March 13 2 minutes ago, mike carey said: Yes, that is irrational. It would not be irrational to be turned off by √4. Euler's number and the golden ratio are also very high on my list - lol. Ryan Gressel, + Charlie, mike carey and 2 others 1 4
+ claym Posted March 13 Posted March 13 Prince Alberts for sure. I speed past any photos and cringe. dbar123, Nightowl, + Charlie and 3 others 2 4
Guest Posted March 13 Posted March 13 7 hours ago, ShortCutie7 said: There are exceptions to every rule, but… -long hair -long beards -too many feet pics -round faces -Prince Alberts Prince Alberts! Woof 😳
+ robear Posted March 13 Posted March 13 6 hours ago, Lazarus said: A person who smokes cigars. Dealbreaker. Absolutely!. Any use of tobacco, including godforbid chewing tobacco, is a BLECHHHHH to me and instant turnoff. liubit, + Charlie and dbar123 2 1
Guest Posted March 13 Posted March 13 8 hours ago, caramelsub said: Well, I’ve tried laser hair removal. Multiple treatments, which were very expensive. But the hair just grows back. I have seen a little bit of a reduction. But I want something more permanent than waxing or shaving. I did laser hair removal treatments for two years. Never helped. Now I just ask my husband to shave my back for me about once a month 😂
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