Arranging a group with a provider

[MscleLovr]

On 3/6/2025 at 12:39 AM, GlendaleSmooth said:

I always have a fantasy of a group of hobbyists hiring a provider, and I wonder if there are any other people on the forum who share the same desire

My two cents (as a client, not a provider) for the OP….

I organized quite a few such events/parties over the years. (I assume you’re essentially having a small group for a sex party, and not seeking another guy  for a 3some where you split the cost of a provider’s time).

You need to ensure you have a good mix of hobbyists, ie nice guys who will play well together and be unselfish, with a mix of skills in bed. Then you need to find providers with a complementary set of skills to mesh with you and the other men. 

While such events can make for an amazingly erotic time extending over several hours, I cannot stress enough THAT IT IS A LOT OF WORK. You’ll be surprised how much time you will need to invest in first interviewing the other ‘hobbyists’ and planning. You need to do this so you can assure the working guys that it will all go well. 
 

My own experience was that other hobbyists can be shy or reluctant to confide what fetish or kink they enjoy. Working guys always wanted to know the other workers and what the men were expecting. I always took a suite in a large hotel and checked in a couple of hours early, not to relax but to make sure everything was set up properly (ordering more glasses, wine & bottles of water, getting extra pillows, lots of extra towels etc) - it’s not a good idea to order room service after the fun has started!
 

Again my experience was that providers can work the group well. It was always better when the clients had different skills/desires. And you need to set rules in advance (eg no drugs, cum only on a guy’s face or chest) to meet the stated preferences of the providers.

It worked best with 2 clients & 3 providers or 3 clients & 3-4 providers. I had a lot of fun playing with another guy who loved to rim a bubble butt and another (surprisingly handsome) client who loved to watch others have sex. As I’m a lazy, selfish top, I invited 3-4 muscleboys (1-2 bottom, 2 fully versatile). I used to state a start time, but allow a 15/20 minute window, as there’s always a late arrival. I stipulated guys should strip down to white briefs on arrival so we could chat easily…I used to invite the best cocksucker I knew so that he’d ‘break the ice’ by sucking all the cocks in turn. 
 

And to the OP, it will be a very horny and memorable evening…but it will also be very expensive 😎

[Mo Mason]

Arranging a group with a provider is probably best done during the Palm Springs get together in April, huh?