NJFUNGUY Posted February 20 Posted February 20 I know of a client in New York City who has been accused of abusive behavior toward providers. Message me directly if you want more information. HeyMan999, marylander1940, MikeBiDude and 1 other 1 1 2
pubic_assistance Posted February 20 Posted February 20 1 hour ago, NJFUNGUY said: I know of a client in New York City who has been accused of abusive behavior toward providers. Message me directly if you want more information. 1 hour ago, NJFUNGUY said: I know of a client in New York City who has been accused of abusive behavior toward providers. Message me directly if you want more information. I am assuming that the move to discretion here is because this "client" is a member of the forum. Danny-Darko 1
BuffaloKyle Posted February 20 Posted February 20 If it's serious if I were you and the providers I'd message everyone on RM in NYC his name and number so they know to block him. Danny-Darko, cany10011 and nycl4escort 1 2
marylander1940 Posted February 20 Posted February 20 8 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said: If it's serious if I were you and the providers I'd message everyone on RM in NYC his name and number so they know to block him. and also uploading his number on Mr. Number. Monarchy79 and cany10011 2
+ Lucky Posted February 20 Posted February 20 1 hour ago, NJFUNGUY said: I know of a client in New York City who has been accused of abusive behavior toward providers. Message me directly if you want more information. Why are you posting this? It sounds like gossip or you have a personal vendetta. MikeBiDude, CErik, Jim_n_NYC and 11 others 9 3 2
Cretus Posted February 20 Posted February 20 I mean, is this different from what happens to escorts on here? It would be nice to have more clarity on the charges/accusations though, and it would be nice to get escort opinions on here to validate the accusations. I never automatically believe or disbelieve disparaging assertions made on here. However, multiple voices saying similar things, add confidence to a charge. 5 minutes ago, Lucky said: Why are you posting this? It sounds like gossip or you have a personal vendetta. + robear and BuzzLiteQueer 2
LookingAround Posted February 20 Posted February 20 Is this "I have a secret but I can't tell you?" Monarchy79, Oakman, Lqsvnsp and 7 others 4 1 5
Asterisk Posted February 20 Posted February 20 5 hours ago, NJFUNGUY said: I know of a client in New York City who has been accused of abusive behavior toward providers. Message me directly if you want more information. The Deli is a place to discuss providers. Which provider are we discussing here? + goosh69 and Danny-Darko 1 1
+ azdr0710 Posted February 20 Posted February 20 the OP's request to message him directly about this indicates some semblance of polite discretion.......but not much........ Venite and marylander1940 2
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted February 20 Posted February 20 7 hours ago, Lucky said: Why are you posting this? It sounds like gossip or you have a personal vendetta. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Escorts have faced salacious, speculative headlines here for decades, whether true or untrue. I have zero clue as to the validity of this post, but I'd suggest that the actual escort(s) who have been victims of this abuse take appropriate measures. This board is not the place for the telephone game of such serious nature. Cretus, marylander1940, + DrownedBoy and 8 others 5 6
Walt Posted February 20 Posted February 20 8 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said: This board is not the place for the telephone game of such serious nature. I couldn't agree more, but I do think sometimes people dimply don't know what to do with information of such serious nature. I don't have the answer, but maybe the power/knowledge of the group can offer some constructive ideas for what to do with knowledge like this?
Oakman Posted February 21 Posted February 21 30 minutes ago, Walt said: the group can offer some constructive ideas for what to do with knowledge like this? There are already other forums for providers to use for this purpose. Solving problems like this alleged abuse would expand this forum beyond its current mission. It is not necessary to get dragged into every problem someone posts here.
marylander1940 Posted February 21 Posted February 21 Guys, if you don't care about this thread stop posting on it and bumping it! Let it go away and die! jimbosf, Asterisk, Hen and 1 other 1 1 2
BuffaloKyle Posted February 21 Posted February 21 That's why I said if it's true and serious then the op and providers in question should message all the other providers and tell them. It doesn't do anything to tell all of us, mainly clients, about this. Walt and CuriousByNature 1 1
NJFUNGUY Posted February 21 Author Posted February 21 Im not allowed to post anything about his info since I was warned after sharing his info here before. I was advised to have you DM me instead, and ill provide all the details. Honestly, it would be much easier if I could just post it rather than sharing it one by one.
NJFUNGUY Posted February 21 Author Posted February 21 (edited) This person was one of my early clients while I was working with RM. I had just finished a bartending shift and was planning to head home when he contacted me, asking if I could come to New York City to spend time with him for his birthday. I agreed and quickly checked the train schedule, calculating how much time I had to get home, shower, pack, and make it to the last train. In my rush, I forgot to ask for a deposit. Right before boarding the train, I remembered and asked him for it. We went back and forth, and he said,” I don’t normally give deposits because I’ve been burned before”. I told him that had nothing to do with me, and eventually, we settled on $100. He agreed to send it when I reached Trenton, the first stop on the way to NYC. When I arrived in Trenton, I called, no answer. I called again and still no answer. Eventually, he called me back and only sent $50. I asked about the remaining $50, and we went back and forth again. Then he started getting aggressive, irritated, and hostile toward me. But I hadnt broken any agreement, he had. The way he was speaking to me on the phone made other people around me take notice, and the whole situation started feeling extremely unsettling. At that point, I decided I no longer wanted to meet him. Then he started threatening me. I didnt want his deposit money at this point. I thought by refunding it, would be the end of it. Which I think pissed him off even more because he assumed i would just take it. But I wasnt going to engage any further. Now the issue was, I was now stranded in NYC because I had taken the last train up and had no way to get home immediately. I had to wait at Penn Station for five hours until the first train back, which cost me $120. Annoying, but fine, I just wanted to move on. That should have been the end of it. But the next day, I started receiving nonstop calls and texts from random numbers. When I answered, it was him. I hung up and blocked him, but he kept calling from different numbers. Because I had my number listed on RM for work, I assumed some of the calls were potential clients only to realize it was him every time. My block list grew ridiculously long, yet he still found ways to contact me. At that point, I reached out to other providers in NYC, asking if they had ever dealt with him. Every single one of them had and they all described the exact same behavior, dating as far back as 2016. Even now, many are still being harassed by him. He has an endless supply of phone numbers and continues to call and message despite being blocked repeatedly. My Mr. Number app is completely flooded with red from all his blocked numbers. Reports have already been filed against him by countless people before me, but he still does this every day, all day. I even changed my number multiple times, and yet he still manages to find me. And again I have never met this person. I refunded his deposit because I wanted nothing to do with him, thinking that would end things. But here I am, a year and a half later, still dealing with his harassment. After speaking with many other providers, its clear that he is the common denominator in all these situations. The problem isn’t us its him. Im sharing this as a warning because if you engage with this person, you will likely experience the same relentless harassment. He is mentally unstable, and avoiding him altogether is the only way to protect yourself. and if you directly message me, I can provide you with more information and that I cannot post here due to violations that I don’t want to occur by posting things that I’m not allowed to post on public forums. The reason for this posting wasn’t me to gossip me to spread any rumors. This is to make people aware of a client who is mentally unwell, who will make your life a living nightmare for no reason and all I’m trying to do is the right thing to do and let people be aware of it. Edited February 21 by NJFUNGUY NYXboy, Luv2play, marylander1940 and 4 others 1 1 2 1 2
BrooklynIrish Posted February 21 Posted February 21 There are literally guys on here who talk about providers as if they were subhuman. Having a provider post a warning about an abusive client isn’t the end of the world. + Pensant, + BenjaminNicholas, Walt and 6 others 4 4 1
LookingAround Posted February 21 Posted February 21 I know another escort with a somewhat similar story of extreme harassment from a client. To the point of having to go to the police. Some clients are totally wacko. + PhileasFogg, DrStrange, + Summerson and 2 others 2 3
+ WestGuy Posted February 21 Posted February 21 2 hours ago, LookingAround said: Some clients are totally wacko. Yes, harassment and stalkers are some of the unfortunate things that go with this territory. LookingAround 1
Asterisk Posted February 21 Posted February 21 15 hours ago, BrooklynIrish said: Having a provider post a warning about an abusive client isn’t the end of the world. And has been pointed out in myriad threads about "rating clients," there are escort-only message boards, blacklists, Mr. Number, etc. to share this very type of information. Not sure what hobbyists are meant to do with this "warning" about an anonymized abusive client here, except sympathize. Luv2play and marylander1940 1 1
NYXboy Posted February 21 Posted February 21 4 hours ago, LookingAround said: I know another escort with a somewhat similar story of extreme harassment from a client. To the point of having to go to the police. Some clients are totally wacko. yeah there was a thread here recently where the provider posted some of the harassing messages and it was a shocking and eye-opening read. + PhileasFogg and marylander1940 1 1
JPHL Posted February 21 Posted February 21 Saw this and needed to comment that I have heard about this person from 2 separate providers and have seen some of the messages for myself. It’s so insane it almost seems not real, but it absolutely is and I can attest to it. This is a very unstable individual. + PhileasFogg, marylander1940 and pubic_assistance 1 1 1
+ DrownedBoy Posted February 21 Posted February 21 It sounds like Mr. Number had this guy pegged already. Not exactly hush-hush. And you're allowed to post Mr. Number screenshots. marylander1940 and Pd1_jap 2
afterfallhours1 Posted February 22 Posted February 22 5 hours ago, NYXboy said: yeah there was a thread here recently where the provider posted some of the harassing messages and it was a shocking and eye-opening read. link to the thread?
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