Your preferred age for a service provider?

[Mo Mason]

How old are you, and what is the age range you prefer for providers?

My preference has changed over the years.  When I was 18 to 30 I liked older guys (dated a 31 year-old when I was 19... great guy, good times).  Then in my 30s I only liked guys my own age (also in their 30s).  Now that I'm in my 40s (44), I like younger guys (18 to 30).  Isn't that strange how things have shifted?

[Thelatin]

Hard to know when they all lie about their age lol. 

[Mo Mason]

But what does lying about one's age matter?  This is about who you are attracted to.  If he says he's 41 but he's 55 then his lying doesn't affect your attraction to him, does it?

[+ ApexNomad]

10 minutes ago, Mo Mason said:

But what does lying about one's age matter?  This is about who you are attracted to.  If he says he's 41 but he's 55 then his lying doesn't affect your attraction to him, does it?

I hear you. However, if I’m already attracted to you, then why lie about your age? The lie doesn’t change how I feel, so what’s the point? It seems like the lie might stem from insecurity or a desire to present a version of yourself that you think is more acceptable, but if I’m still interested regardless, it makes the deception seem unnecessary. So the real question becomes: What are you hoping to gain from the lie when it doesn’t impact my attraction?

[pubic_assistance]

I'm 53.

I have NO interest in men my own age.

ZERO

When I am looking, I use a filter for men under 30.

25 to 28 is usually optimal.

 

[caliguy]

I do understand the attraction to younger guys. However, to limit yourself saying you wouldn't even consider anyone over 30 seems weird and just sad and lonely to me.

 

 

 

[liubit]

I prefer guys in the 18-30 range. I don’t card them, they just have to look that age. As for me, well, let’s just admit that I am significantly older than that 😈

[+ Charlie]

I always preferred men in the 30-60 age range: old enough to look good and know what they were doing, young enough to still look good and be able to do it.

[pubic_assistance]

14 hours ago, caliguy said:

.....to limit yourself saying you wouldn't even consider anyone over 30 seems weird and just sad and lonely to me.

 

 

 

To tell someone who they SHOULD be attracted to is weird, inappropriate and rude to me.  It's the equivalent of me saying that YOU, not finding women attractive, is "weird", just because others do.

Edited November 17, 2024 by pubic_assistance
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[+ sniper]

14 hours ago, caliguy said:

I do understand the attraction to younger guys. However, to limit yourself saying you wouldn't even consider anyone over 30 seems weird and just sad and lonely to me.

 

 

 

Keep in mind this is about recreation not finding a life partner.  If someone only wanted to live with someone in a narrow age range and kept trading them in for a younger model every three years, you'd have a point.

[Danny-Darko]

I'm in my mid 60's. I've always liked men between the ages of around mid 20's to mid to late 30's. These have been my tastes even with I was a teenager and first realized I was attracted to men. It's not written in stone, but in general this what I've always liked sexually. As a kid I like older guys, when I was in college I liked guys my own age, and now I like them younger but mature. Again, we are talking about sexually and specifically sex "providers"! I feel men in general are in their prime in their 30's and some who keep well might be able to carry it through their 40's or even early 50's. 

Edited November 17, 2024 by Danny-Darko

[+ Lucky]

So when I am attracted to someone, I don't worry about their age so long as they are of legal age to engage in acts which we might like. As a practical matter, they tend to be in their mid-20's.

[Luv2play]

On 11/16/2024 at 6:13 PM, Mo Mason said:

How old are you, and what is the age range you prefer for providers?

My preference has changed over the years.  When I was 18 to 30 I liked older guys (dated a 31 year-old when I was 19... great guy, good times).  Then in my 30s I only liked guys my own age (also in their 30s).  Now that I'm in my 40s (44), I like younger guys (18 to 30).  Isn't that strange how things have shifted?

The one constant in your life is that you have mostly always seemed to prefer guys around 30. The one thing that has changed as you are now in your 40s is stretching the range from 30 to 18 . That lower age is quite a change. 

[sunnysideup]

I prefer under 35.

For bottoms I usually prefer 19 to 26. For tops I usually prefer age 27 to 35.

I'm 48, I never go for an escort above 35.

That being said Antoni Porowski (from the TV show Queer Eye) is 40 and would happily go with any guy that looks like him:

 

[pubic_assistance]

26 minutes ago, sunnysideup said:

That being said Antoni Porowski (from the TV show Queer Eye) is 40 and would happily go with any guy that looks like him:

There's an exception to every rule.😉

[Becket]

I prefer men ages 30 to 45. I have no interest in younger providers, though Lord I've tried. I'm in my mid 60's.

[+ Pensant]

20 to 28. That said, I have a super hot regular who’s been “off market” for 8 years. He still has a lean and smooth twink body and will turn 36 in January!

[+ Yellowrod]

I’m in my 50’s and I used to only desire those in their late 20’s to 30’s.  Recently I’ve had some incredible encounters with other 50 plus gents, so finally my horizons are expanding.  I just love men! 

[NJF]

I would say I prefer the age range of mid 20’s to early 30’s. Then I realized that my two regulars would be 36 next year. It seems a bit arbitrary to “fire” them simply because of their age.

[TorontoDrew]

I'm 61 and I usually hire guys between 25 and 45.  Always willing to make an exception.

[CheckCar]

I favor guys in their mid 30s to mid 40s with a year-plus track record of providing good service and enough maturity and life experience to have a decent conversation.

[Whippoorwill]

I am ancient, but have always liked guys in their 20s...old enough to be legal, but young enough to be a boy. I hire providers who mostly claim to be, e.g., 29. (Ever notice how many claim to be 29 for years on end?) Old enough to be experienced, good at sex, but still look like a boy. While I don't care what the actual age number is, when their looks start slipping from boy to man, even a very good looking man, my interest wanes. Fortunately for me, I particularly like Asians, who can look and feel much younger than their actual age.

[+ SundayZip]

The age I find most attractive correlates to the change in my age per the following formula where X equals my current age and Y = 20.  

Most attractive age = (X-Y)/5+Y  

 

[caramelsub]

I like mature men. I don’t have an age preference though. I’ve been attracted to men as old as 60. My number one hire is in his early 40’s. I like men that look like men, not boys. 25-45 is my preferred age range.

[NJF]

4 hours ago, SundayZip said:

The age I find most attractive correlates to the change in my age per the following formula where X equals my current age and Y = 20.  

Most attractive age = (X-Y)/5+Y  

 

Somehow your formula keeps giving me single digit age numbers. What did I miss?