What escort records do you keep?

[+ StLouisOct]

I keep records of the dates and number of times I’ve been with escorts, and have a file of the RM photos for most of them. Just curious, is my practice unusual among clients?

Edited November 13, 2024 by StLouisOct

[Vin Marco]

[+ ApexNomad]

This is why I don’t exchange photos with providers! Discretion.

[Vin Marco]

3 minutes ago, ApexNomad said:

This is why I don’t exchange photos with providers! Discretion.

And the good ones will NEVER ask for your photo 😉

[+ JamesB]

For providers I may consider hiring again, I keep basic records such as their name (both real and site alias), phone number, the quoted and paid rates, the session date, and a brief note if there’s something particular I'd like to remember.

[+ Just Chuck]

I keep them listed in a Google Contacts file.  It makes contacting them via Google Voice super easy.  I can add labels and categories to them.  You might see [Name}#seen,#DFW,#2024 in my contacts files.  

[Vin Marco]

13 minutes ago, Just Chuck said:

I keep them listed in a Google Contacts file.  It makes contacting them via Google Voice super easy.  I can add labels and categories to them.  You might see [Name}#seen,#DFW,#2024 in my contacts files.  

 🏺 🧞    🙌🏽👏🏽

[+ ApexNomad]

43 minutes ago, Just Chuck said:

I keep them listed in a Google Contacts file.  It makes contacting them via Google Voice super easy.  I can add labels and categories to them.  You might see [Name}#seen,#DFW,#2024 in my contacts files.  

Can you organize my closet?

[+ StLouisOct]

4 hours ago, ApexNomad said:

This is why I don’t exchange photos with providers! Discretion.

I don’t either. The question is whether you keep records or notes ABOUT providers - the guys in business who make their information public.

[Act25]

I keep all my text messages for my main #, internet # & WhatsApp.  And they're in my contacts list with a code that identifies them as a provider.  For excellent (or even above average encounters) the details are stored in my head - the rest I mostly forget about.   

[+ ApexNomad]

1 hour ago, StLouisOct said:

I don’t either. The question is whether you keep records or notes ABOUT providers - the guys in business who make their information public.

A photo is a record, and the post came on the heels of a provider (vin) having posted an image of a little black book. 

[+ Charlie]

I used to keep a list of every escort I hired, the date and place of the initial meeting, and the number of subsequent meetings. Anything else about the escort and the meeting is in the narrative daily journal I have kept for the past 50 years. (My first hire was in 1978, and the last was in 2011.)

[Luv2play]

I’ve kept all my daily agendas since the 1970s but unlike @Charlie not extensive notes. So maybe just the first name, date and time of the day. I rarely look back at them but the odd time I do often no face comes to the name. But some, a very few, were so memorable that I do place a face to the name. And much more!

[LaffingBear]

The only record I have was a retrospective list.  I think I decided to create it due this site or its predecessor. 

I was estimating in any post here, or even discussion with others, as to how many guys I'd hired over the years.  So I created a list. It's only purpose was to achieve an accurate count.

[+ StLouisOct]

1 hour ago, LaffingBear said:

The only record I have was a retrospective list.  I think I decided to create it due this site or its predecessor. 

I was estimating in any post here, or even discussion with others, as to how many guys I'd hired over the years.  So I created a list. It's only purpose was to achieve an accurate count.

It’s a little startling how those numbers add up. 😉

[liubit]

I keep a plain list with date and location of the meeting, rate, number of meetings when there is a repeat, and a brief description of our activities in my very own shorthand. I do it for escorts and free hookups. 

[+ ApexNomad]

I keep a basic list, primarily for health and safety reasons. God forbid I get an STD, this helps with contact tracing and ensuring I can inform any recent partners immediately.

[maninsoma]

I have a photo (or multiple photos) of almost everyone I've hired over the decades, with the earliest ones being the exceptions since some of them were pre-internet.  My memory is still pretty good so for the guys who were above average, I have no difficulty remembering sufficient details of my encounters with them.  (Not dates or rates as much as what specifically I enjoyed about being with them.)

I also keep track of all of my expenses so all of my hires are accounted for on those spreadsheets going back several years.  (Before that I used to just use little notebooks to write down expenses as I incurred them.)  I've also kept track on a monthly basis of how much I spent that month on escorts.  When I hired more frequently, that helped me keep my hiring in line with my budget. 

[jawjateck]

I have a simple register with name, location, month/year, going back 25 years. I just reviewed it and took a sweet trip down memory lane. Most emails are deleted, although I kept a few of the best. Those from 2000-2009 were especially steamy. Back then, providers used email to create a scene/anticipation for the encounter before texting and messaging became common and ripped away much of the fun.

But nothing I have compared to our dear friend Epigonos. His 3-ring binder was magnificent. 🥰

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

I've never kept records from escorts.  One massuer did leave his CD, though (this was years ago).

[harlow]

Beyond their advertised name location and their requested rates I keep nothing. Hopefully they do the same for me 

[pubic_assistance]

Photos, Contact info, location & fee...all in a file on my computer. Password protected. (I have teenage kids in the house ).

Like @Act25 said. If they were good. I will remember.  If they were bad, they are thankfully forgotten.
 

 

Edited December 5, 2024 by pubic_assistance
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[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 11/16/2024 at 7:22 PM, Vegas_Millennial said:

I've never kept records from escorts.  One massuer did leave his CD, though (this was years ago).

 

On 12/5/2024 at 2:08 AM, pubic_assistance said:

Photos, Contact info, location & fee...all in a file on my computer. Password protected. (I have teenage kids in the house ).

Like @Act25 said. If they were good. I will remember.  If they were bad, they are thankfully forgotten.
 

 

I keep similar information in my telephone contacts list.   I don't list dates... Just a general "Saw in 2024 for $250, will see again" type of comment

[BuffaloKyle]

You could keep a lot of these notes if they're from rentmen right on there. Just add them to your buddy list and there is a notes section you can utilize. 

[jeezifonly]

I keep the records in… corners