2025 Palm Springs Weekend

[MikePDNA51]

Is there anyone whose place I could crash at over the weekends? If possible perform massages at location. Also message if want to split a room. 

[+ nycman]

5 hours ago, Callas said:

I wanna go, but it would be only myself and i know no one… would it be fine? 

You’ll be fine. The hardest part is walking into David’s pool party on the first day. It’s awkward opening the front door and walking into someone’s house you’ve never met before. Nonetheless, my discomfort only lasted about 2 minutes until people started walking over and introducing themselves. It’s a very friendly bunch. I was suprised at how many men I met who’ve never posted here. There’s a large number of lurkers on this forum. And of course, finally getting to match faces to the profiles and characters here was a real hoot as well. 

My only regret is that my love of luxury lead me to book at the Hacienda at Warm Sands. The place is beautiful and very relaxing, but it seemed like all the cool kids were having more fun across the street at Inndulge. 

I say just go and check it out. You may love it. You may hate it. But you’re never gonna know until you try. 

[+ Summerson]

15 hours ago, nycman said:

My only regret is that my love of luxury lead me to book at the Hacienda at Warm Sands. The place is beautiful and very relaxing, but it seemed like all the cool kids were having more fun across the street at Inndulge.

If you ever want to come over and spend some time with us at Inndulge, we can make that happen, you know. Just get one (or more) of our phone numbers and text us. They leave us unsupervised after the staff goes home at night and I've had a few people join me for breakfast over the years. I think I pay enough for my suite that nobody's ever asked me to splash out for an extra piece of toast and cup of coffee, but if they ever do, I'll happily do it. We can just sneak you in the side door. Hacienda is literally across the street. 

Edited December 28, 2024 by Summerson

[+ BobPS]

9 hours ago, Callas said:

I wanna go, but it would be only myself and i know no one… would it be fine? 

It will be fine and you will have a great time. Just walk in and say hi my name is CALLAS on the board and this is my first time here and everyone will welcome you. 

[Simon Suraci]

Last year was my first PS weekend. I came alone. I felt this same way at first:

17 hours ago, nycman said:

The hardest part is walking into David’s pool party on the first day. It’s awkward opening the front door and walking into someone’s house you’ve never met before. Nonetheless, my discomfort only lasted about 2 minutes until people started walking over and introducing themselves. It’s a very friendly bunch. I was suprised at how many men I met who’ve never posted here. There’s a large number of lurkers on this forum. And of course, finally getting to match faces to the profiles and characters here was a real hoot as well. 

Then the rest of the weekend it was easier to open up and socialize. I didn’t get to talk to everybody, and with some I only met briefly or chatted with a few minutes the whole weekend because there is so much going on. I wish I had more time with more members last year, but I’ve been in touch with several of you in person, by text, online, and by phone in the months following.

The good news is no matter how little or much you interact with any particular member over the weekend, you can continue to build your connections long after. PS is a great way to spark up conversations and make those connections, however deep or shallow they initially may be. You can’t hide behind a screen name here. It’s real people being themselves in the moment, and that’s pretty refreshing.

The other good news is that members attending these trips are the cream of the crop. They’re the most welcoming, social, friendly, supportive, and fun of the whole lot. True, some are lurkers or rarely post, and that’s ok. They’re fun too! Everyone is there to have a good time. Remember that even the most social among us are shy or nervous at times. Once you break the ice with one or two, it’s very easy to make friends with many others. So say hello.

Anyone wanting to chat with me please come up and say hello. I don’t bite… at least not until we establish consent.

My masseur/escort bud Newell plans to attend the dinner again. I’ll update the group closer to the dates. He’s probably only staying for 1-2 nights, as he gets restless on these trips. Say hello to him at the dinner. He’s a tall ginger hulk but very friendly. Newell is a bit shy about coming up and chatting with new people, but very easy to talk to if you initiate a conversation.

[+ purplekow]

2 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

Last year was my first PS weekend. I came alone. I felt this same way at first:

Then the rest of the weekend it was easier to open up and socialize. I didn’t get to talk to everybody, and with some I only met briefly or chatted with a few minutes the whole weekend because there is so much going on. I wish I had more time with more members last year, but I’ve been in touch with several of you in person, by text, online, and by phone in the months following.

The good news is no matter how little or much you interact with any particular member over the weekend, you can continue to build your connections long after. PS is a great way to spark up conversations and make those connections, however deep or shallow they initially may be. You can’t hide behind a screen name here. It’s real people being themselves in the moment, and that’s pretty refreshing.

The other good news is that members attending these trips are the cream of the crop. They’re the most welcoming, social, friendly, supportive, and fun of the whole lot. True, some are lurkers or rarely post, and that’s ok. They’re fun too! Everyone is there to have a good time. Remember that even the most social among us are shy or nervous at times. Once you break the ice with one or two, it’s very easy to make friends with many others. So say hello.

Anyone wanting to chat with me please come up and say hello. I don’t bite… at least not until we establish consent.

My masseur/escort bud Newell plans to attend the dinner again. I’ll update the group closer to the dates. He’s probably only staying for 1-2 nights, as he gets restless on these trips. Say hello to him at the dinner. He’s a tall ginger hulk but very friendly. Newell is a bit shy about coming up and chatting with new people, but very easy to talk to if you initiate a conversation.

Does Newell mind if you ask for evidence that he is a natural Ginger?   How does he feel about being held prisoner until the entire weekend is over?   Oh so many questions and so little time.  

[Simon Suraci]

1 hour ago, purplekow said:

Does Newell mind if you ask for evidence that he is a natural Ginger?   How does he feel about being held prisoner until the entire weekend is over?   Oh so many questions and so little time.  

LOL. PM me. He’s open to lots of things. I’ve been quite up and personal with him working together to verify that yes, he is a natural ginger... all over. What “evidence” do you need? 😆 He’s partial to wearing hats so maybe not obvious clothed, at quick glance. We are looking forward to doing some bdsm related scenes together for a client soon. I am sure we can arrange something.

[Callas]

just booked all. Will see you guys there ☺️

[DznNYC]

A little late to the game on this, but this seems like an amazing time.  

And it looks like InnDulge may still be booked, though the site suggests I call the property to inquire.  I'm guessing I could only do Thursday or Friday through Monday.

Is it still worth it if I can only do a limited time?  Or if I can't manage a room at InnDulge?

[+ Pensant]

On 12/28/2024 at 1:55 PM, Simon Suraci said:

We are looking forward to doing some bdsm related scenes together

Oooh, I love that!

[Simon Suraci]

3 hours ago, DamizzonNYC said:

Is it still worth it if I can only do a limited time?  Or if I can't manage a room at InnDulge?

Yes, absolutely. I attended Friday afternoon through Monday morning and it worked out great. There’s something organized to do with the group each day.

InnDulge is a ton of fun, but it books up months in advance. Call just in case. I booked a year in advance this time to make sure I could get a larger room type to better accommodate my massage table.

If InnDulge doesn’t work out, you can stay at many other nearby hotels and hang out for free around the pool at InnDulge as a guest. Be my guest 😉 

We’d love to meet you, @DamizzonNYC!

[DznNYC]

I’m working on making this happen!   Thankfully I have a friend who lives nearby I can crash with, cause InnDulge looks full.  😫 
 

Fingers crossed, this sounds like an amazing time. 

[+ Oliver]

On 9/26/2024 at 3:36 PM, Oliver said:

Tentative dates - for those who like to plan ahead – mark your calendars for Saturday (dinner), April 12 - Sunday (pool), April 13 and Monday (breakfast), April 14.  I hope to see many of you there.  And to those of you who said “I’ll go next year” – it’s next year!😀 

Just to let you know - the dates (as stated above) are no longer "tentative".  They're real!  And it's almost next year!🥂🎉🎉  Happy New Year!

[TruthBTold]

Good to know . . . I just got my airline tickets.   🤩    I had gotten my resort tickets previously.  Thanks for all your work.  And it is the new year.

[+ m_writer]

I learned that PS also has a Villagefest on Thursday nights which is a Thursday night street fair for vendors, arts, crafts, and of course, lots of food stalls and trucks!

https://villagefest.org/

Plus, there's the Farmer's Market on Saturday mornings at the Palm springs Cultural Center:

Farmers Markets in Coachella Valley California

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Fresh and locally grown fruits, vegetables, flowers, meat and more. All our farmers and vendors are certified so you can trust that the produce is organic and grown in an...

We can make a group visit/event to there if people are interested.

[+ azdr0710]

yes, the Thursday evening VillageFest is fantastic......several blocks of various things for sale and nice to just wander and people-watch......well worth it......we did go to the PS Cultural Center farmers' market one day about two or three years ago after a group hike during the forum weekend, but I found it to be a bit small with not many booths or action......however, we were just wandering and I'm sure local regulars know where what they want is and how to get it and get out

Edited January 11 by azdr0710

[MikePDNA51]

Love farmers market!

[mike carey]

Room booked! INN Thursday, out Tuesday. Now to find the right flights.

[+ Pensant]

Wish I could join you guys. I’m always too busy with work and travel to make that weekend work.😟

[Hen]

So sorry we missed it!! One day my husband and I will join you 

[+ m_writer]

3 hours ago, Hen said:

So sorry we missed it!! One day my husband and I will join you 

You didn't miss it at all; it's coming this April 2025.

You and your husband can still join this year in three months if you want.

[CuriousByNature]

I was very tempted to attend this year, but then our dollar began crashing.  It's becoming prohibitively expensive to vacation in the US for a lot of us Canadians.  I ended up arranging a quick 7-day trip to Europe in May for significantly less than the four days in PS would have cost.  Even though the Euro exchange is not good either, the exchange has remained pretty stable and the hotel and food prices are considerably lower than in the US.   I'm using air miles for the flights, so that was not a factor in either case.  Hope to get to the desert again one of these days - it's a beautiful part of the country!  Enjoy your time together!

[mike carey]

@CuriousByNature, yes, exchange rates, tell me about it! The AUD seems to have passed its latest nadir, inshallah! I'm holding my breath waiting for the InnDulge deposit to be charged to my card. I have some USD in cash and the USD account at my bank, bought when rates were better.

[+ purplekow]

Well I finally was able to complete my move to Palm Springs.  It has been a bit more expensive than I thought it would be and as a result I will probably not be keeping my reservation for InnDulge.  If there is anyone who would like to transfer the reservation give me a PM.  I have been in PS for 5 days. 2 days of rain.  A downed power line on my street left me in a blackout for 15 hours, the surge of the power coming on likely burned out my garage door motor.  I spent one entire day waiting for wifi connection only to have them not show without notice.  Fought with them to get it connected the next day which took about 3 hours.  So the transition has not been smooth.  On the other hand, I was able to sit out on my covered patio and eat dinner, which consisted of a PBJ sandwich as I had not had time to properly food shop.  It was very nice and back in NJ it was in the twenties with snow and freezing rain.   So, on balance, not smooth but not bad.   Hope to see many of you men in my new home town in April.  

[+ Charlie]

10 hours ago, purplekow said:

Well I finally was able to complete my move to Palm Springs.  It has been a bit more expensive than I thought it would be and as a result I will probably not be keeping my reservation for InnDulge.  If there is anyone who would like to transfer the reservation give me a PM.  I have been in PS for 5 days. 2 days of rain.  A downed power line on my street left me in a blackout for 15 hours, the surge of the power coming on likely burned out my garage door motor.  I spent one entire day waiting for wifi connection only to have them not show without notice.  Fought with them to get it connected the next day which took about 3 hours.  So the transition has not been smooth.  On the other hand, I was able to sit out on my covered patio and eat dinner, which consisted of a PBJ sandwich as I had not had time to properly food shop.  It was very nice and back in NJ it was in the twenties with snow and freezing rain.   So, on balance, not smooth but not bad.   Hope to see many of you men in my new home town in April.  

Welcome to Palm Springs!