Maturity Matters, No?

[PileDriver]

just hit on someone young..regret my hit...juvenile in his response...buyers deserve better...thoughts?

[jmichaeliii]

14 minutes ago, PileDriver said:

just hit on someone young..regret my hit...juvenile in his response...buyers deserve better...thoughts?

If I get an unacceptable response from anyone, I just move on.  There are plenty of options out there.

If it starts off on a bad foot, it is probably going to end that way too.

[wanderlust307]

I don't like maturity - it comes with age.

[Frog]

Probably comes with the territory and not a massively unsurprising response.  Of course, some young bucks are more emotionally / socially mature than others but....I guess part of the attraction was his physical condition.?  Young, hung & full of cum...??  Guess sometimes we just have to take the rough with the smooth...

[marylander1940]

1 hour ago, PileDriver said:

just hit on someone young..regret my hit...juvenile in his response...buyers deserve better...thoughts?

Only those who like escorting remain in the job for more than a couple of months.

I've learned we must love what we do for a living.

Not sure if this exactly applies to your bad situation.

 

[Whippoorwill]

I stay away from anyone in their 20s/anyone who's only been in the business a couple of years. While I like the young bucks physically, I find 30s a better combination of youth and maturity. Young enough that they aren't jaded but old enough to know the score. Been around the block a few times. Be skilled while realizing that they're not god's gift to the world. Understand that they're in a service industry. Are serious about their career and have a business model that works for both parties. Know how to communicate, make good on their commitments, and care about delivering the whole product. 

[+ JamesB]

1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

I've learned we must love what we do for a living.

 

Such a true statement but so often overlooked. Loving what we do can make all the difference, turning work from a chore into something that brings purpose and satisfaction.

[+ DrownedBoy]

5 hours ago, PileDriver said:

just hit on someone young..regret my hit...juvenile in his response...buyers deserve better...thoughts?

It's a sink or swim business, and this kid hasn't learned to swim yet. Or he thinks this is like getting paid for normal Grindr hookups.

I'd flag him in Deli or Spa. We've done that with escorts who haven't learned the business yet.

[+ purplekow]

4 hours ago, Frog said:

Probably comes with the territory and not a massively unsurprising response.  Of course, some young bucks are more emotionally / socially mature than others but....I guess part of the attraction was his physical condition.?  Young, hung & full of cum...??  Guess sometimes we just have to take the rough with the smooth...

Or, in the case of young subs, they just have to take the rough with the rougher.   Now we are having some fun learning.  

[wanderlust307]

I said before that I don't like maturity and that I like young guys. But I also fully understand the problems with youth and inexperience. And I recently had a real life example: I met (via instagram) a 19 yo, I took him for lunch and we had a nice time. Then we lost touch until recently. He messaged me that he is back in town. I said fine, come over to my place for a drink and more. And he replied, "what more?". 😅 

Edited August 22, 2024 by wanderlust307

[Redwine56]

1 hour ago, wanderlust307 said:

I said before that I don't like maturity and that I like young guys. But I also fully understand the problems with youth and inexperience. And I recently had a real life example: I met (via instagram) a 19 yo, I took him for lunch and we had a nice time. Then we lost touch until recently. He messaged me that he is back in town. I said fine, come over to my place for a drink and more. And he replied, "what more?". 😅 

Maybe he was wondering if you were inviting him to dinner?  😂

[wanderlust307]

8 minutes ago, Redwine56 said:

Maybe he was wondering if you were inviting him to dinner?  😂

lol 

He seemed to be in his own remote galaxy too far from planet earth, that everything is possible. 

Of course it could be a genuine question. I will find out someday.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 8/21/2024 at 9:38 AM, PileDriver said:

just hit on someone young..regret my hit...juvenile in his response...buyers deserve better...thoughts?

At least he was young. 

It's when he gives a juvenile response and he's over 40 that it's a real turn off.

Maturity CAN come with age, but it's not guaranteed.

[soloyo215]

On 8/21/2024 at 12:38 PM, PileDriver said:

just hit on someone young..regret my hit...juvenile in his response...buyers deserve better...thoughts?

Depends what for. If it's hire just for sex, I can't care less about the level of maturity, for as long as there is cognition enough to understand consent and the deal.

I've always been terrible at flirting, so in that respect, the level of maturity of the other person doesn't necessarily place a role. I imagine you didn't get a response that made you want to continue the conversation.

Just one of those live and learn things. Normally I just move on. Plenty of people out there.

[ICTJOCK]

If you don't have someone who is mature and responsible about their actions,  I'd move along.    If you are contacting someone who views the job as an escort in a professional context  you will know.... and certainly the opposite.  

[+ DrownedBoy]

On 8/22/2024 at 3:10 PM, Vegas_Millennial said:

It's when he gives a juvenile response and he's over 40 that it's a real turn off.

Maturity CAN come with age, but it's not guaranteed.

There's nothing sadder than a provider in his 30s who still acts like an entitled, spoiled brat.

I've seen the type, and they usually get into drugs.

[Thelatin]

1 hour ago, DrownedBoy said:

There's nothing sadder than a provider in his 30s who still acts like an entitled, spoiled brat.

I've seen the type, and they usually get into drugs.

And then I pay for their treatment/ and they come out on Xanax.  F me. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

4 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

There's nothing sadder than a provider in his 30s who still acts like an entitled, spoiled brat.

Yes, there is.  A CLIENT in his 30s who acts like an entitled, spoiled brat, is even worse

[+ DrownedBoy]

14 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Yes, there is.  A CLIENT in his 30s who acts like an entitled, spoiled brat, is even worse

Even worse when the client is in his 50s, 60s, even 70s...

[HockeyMan]

I like younger providers. But they still need to have good communication and maturity.