Overnight with an escort

[Luv2play]

27 minutes ago, Daniel84 said:

I am an escort lol. When I do a overnight it's only for 6-8 hours 

To each his own 😀

[Wolfer]

27 minutes ago, Daniel84 said:

I am a escort lol. When I do a overnight it's only for 6-8 hours 

So is the only activity sleeping then? I get about 5 to 6 hours of sleep a night, that'd leave 1 to maybe 2-3 hours of actual playtime. I've always found short overnights like this puzzling. 

As for the topic of this thread: both overnights I've done were at least 12 hours, one lasted from 8pm till 9:30am, the other from 5pm till noon the following day (all scheduled and agreed to beforehand).

I can only agree with what others have said, reflect on what you would like to happen, have a rough outline of the evening and talk about that with the provider. 

[big-n-tall]

1 hour ago, Daniel84 said:

I am a escort lol. When I do a overnight it's only for 6-8 hours 

 

1 hour ago, Daniel84 said:

A overnight is 6-8 hours. I have never heard of a overnight being 12-14 hours.. 

Just because you never heard of something doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

Seriously though I have done a lot of overnights. All but one where 12 hours or more. Many of them were first time hires. The one that was shorter than 12 was because the escort came late and left while I was half asleep early in the morning. They mostly began around 7 or 8pm... some earlier. None (saved the one) ended before 8am the next day.

Each provider runs their business how they see fit of course. If 6-8 hours is your limit more power to you.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

3 hours ago, Daniel84 said:

I have never heard of a overnight being 12-14 hours.. 

Well, now you have.

[Becket]

2 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Well, now you have.

Cuddle time is most important.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

1 hour ago, Becket said:

Cuddle time is most important.

For me, I look at it this way: 

If I'm charging my clients a premium rate for overnights/weekends/etc, I'm not going to skimp the time frame.

And yeah, cuddling is always bueno.

[wanderlust307]

3 hours ago, Becket said:

Cuddle time is most important.

Absolutely! That's why I only cuddle and sleep with my boyfriend whom I have nicknamed Xanax 😅.

[Daniel84]

11 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

For me, I look at it this way: 

If I'm charging my clients a premium rate for overnights/weekends/etc, I'm not going to skimp the time frame.

And yeah, cuddling is always bueno.

I never watch the clock but I set boundaries so neither I nor the client feels like we were taken advantage of. 

[Daniel84]

15 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Well, now you have.

That's not considered an overnight to me that's a half day rate.. 

[Daniel84]

18 hours ago, big-n-tall said:

 

Just because you never heard of something doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

Seriously though I have done a lot of overnights. All but one where 12 hours or more. Many of them were first time hires. The one that was shorter than 12 was because the escort came late and left while I was half asleep early in the morning. They mostly began around 7 or 8pm... some earlier. None (saved the one) ended before 8am the next day.

Each provider runs their business how they see fit of course. If 6-8 hours is your limit more power to you.

The majority of the clients I see want me to come over at 11pm or midnight . I've had some overnights that wanted to start at 5:00 p.m. but we could not agree on a price so I didn't see that client. 

Edited July 14, 2024 by Daniel84

[Luv2play]

24 minutes ago, Daniel84 said:

The majority of the clients I see want me to come over at 11 or 12pm. I've had some overnights that wanted to start at 5:00 p.m. but we could not agree on a price so I didn't see that client. 

Did you mean to say 11pm or 12am? Otherwise your statement makes no sense. 

[Daniel84]

18 minutes ago, Luv2play said:

Did you mean to say 11pm or 12am? Otherwise your statement makes no sense. 

Thank you , I just corrected the times. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

On 7/14/2024 at 11:49 AM, Daniel84 said:

That's not considered an overnight to me that's a half day rate.. 

Ah. You expect to get paid for sleeping.

That's why I don't hire providers like you for overnights .

[pubic_assistance]

On 7/13/2024 at 5:21 PM, Daniel84 said:

A overnight is 6-8 hours. I have never heard of a overnight being 12-14 hours..

Well....although I'm not experienced, I am logical. If people are generally sleeping 8 hours a night, then how is an "overnight" hire 6 to 8 hours ? Do people hire you just to sleep next to them ?

I think the other estimates on time make more sense. Dinner, Relaxing, Bed time and breakfast ( maybe some morning sex ) would add up to 12 to 14 hours minimum. Maybe some providers wouldn't expect a mere overnight booking to be so much of a "boyfriend experience" but logically I see no point in having someone stay over unless that's what you're trying to get.

[+ Jamie21]

There’s no rules about what should or shouldn’t happen in an overnight or for how long it lasts. It’s whatever gets agreed between you and the client. If that includes sleeping time then why not? Some people like to wake up with a warm body next to them ready to play.

Be warned though, I snore and I dribble in my sleep. I don’t charge extra for that……..Oh and I don’t do overnights as it’s too much hassle now unless of course he’s paying lots. Everyone has a price 😂. 

[Daniel84]

Most of the guys that hire me for overnights are doing PNP which means I'm not sleeping at all. Some clients that hired me for the whole weekend would be a boyfriend experience. 

 

[Daniel84]

Just now, Jamie21 said:

There’s no rules about what should or shouldn’t happen in an overnight or for how long it lasts. It’s whatever gets agreed between you and the client. If that includes sleeping time then why not? Some people like to wake up with a warm body next to them ready to play.

Be warned though, I snore and I dribble in my sleep. I don’t charge extra for that……..Oh and I don’t do overnights as it’s too much hassle now unless of course he’s paying lots. Everyone has a price 😂. 

I tell all my clients heads up and sleep very weird.. lol he has to be pitch dark so I literally have the blankets cover my whole head. 

[Becket]

On 7/14/2024 at 11:51 AM, Daniel84 said:

The majority of the clients I see want me to come over at 11pm or midnight . I've had some overnights that wanted to start at 5:00 p.m. but we could not agree on a price so I didn't see that client. 

What? You quibble? Not that I care, I just wanted to say "quibble!"

[Daniel84]

3 minutes ago, Becket said:

What? You quibble? Not that I care, I just wanted to say "quibble!"

Lol 😅😆 

[BonVivant]

11 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Dinner, Relaxing, Bed time and breakfast ( maybe some morning sex ) would add up to 12 to 14 hours minimum.

This! Is. An. Overnight. The sex can happen at multiple times in the set. So fun. A true BFE/lovers experience. I only do this with one person; the chemistry between us is incredible. 

Edited July 22, 2024 by BonVivant

[SamRockdale]

To each their own, but evening to late morning allows for play, ample cuddles, and a good morning kiss on the forehead.

[mike carey]

4 minutes ago, SamRockdale said:

To each their own, but evening to late morning allows for play, ample cuddles, and a good morning kiss on the forehead.

Welcome to the forum @SamRockdale, great to see you engaging in so many threads. 'Good morning kiss on the forehead', sign me up!

[SamRockdale]

Just now, mike carey said:

Welcome to the forum @SamRockdale, great to see you engaging in so many threads. 'Good morning kiss on the forehead', sign me up!

I'm so glad I found the forum!  

[+ DrownedBoy]

On 7/13/2024 at 10:58 PM, Becket said:

Cuddle time is most important.

Yes. It relaxes and softens you up for the sexual torture later in the evening.

[starman05]

I had an overnighter with a guy once; it was more of an emotional companionship thing for me.

I think i got to his place round 7 and we went out for breakfast the next day and parted by about 9?

The one thing I regret is not asking him to whisper into my ear, just as it looked like I was going to nod off, that he loved me. 

Silly, I know. Or not. Even still, it was everything.