What's your Sexual Position?

[BuffaloKyle]

Just curious what the makeup of the forum is when it comes to sexual position. I'm guessing the majority are bottoms as we have a good amount of older guys on here. I'm pretty much a top although I like to be rimmed and fingered. Just no cock in my hole. Only been fucked a couple times and wasn't a fan.

[samhexum]

My position is that I am definitely for it.

Do you really think there are gonna be people here that are against it?

1 hour ago, BuffaloKyle said:

What's your Sexual Position?

 

[wsc]

I open to it.

[pubic_assistance]

10 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said:

I'm guessing the majority are bottoms as we have a good amount of older guys on here.

That assumption seems a little upside down to me.

When I was younger and was going with older men...I  bottomed a lot because all the masculine sporty men I went with were tops and I was possessed with a perfect round 🍑 butt that everyone wanted.

By my late 20s I only went with guys my own age and became more vers as many of them wanted me to top.

By my 40s I was now an older masculine man and everyone I met was younger and eager for me to top.

So in most of MY own experiences it was always younger bottom / older top.

It would actually seem kind of odd to me for a mature man to expect a twink to take over. 🤔

 

[samhexum]

2 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

I was possessed with a perfect round 🍑 butt that everyone wanted.

not to mention an almost crushing dose of modesty and humility!!!

😇😇😇

[pubic_assistance]

12 minutes ago, samhexum said:

not to mention an almost crushing dose of modesty and humility!!!

😇😇😇

I was literally voted "best ass" in high school (by the girls).

I've been told I have the hottest ass so many times, I don't need to pretend I don't know it.

[marylander1940]

3 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

I was literally voted "best ass" in high school (by the girls).

I've been told I have the hottest ass so many times, I don't need to pretend I don't know it.

Pics, please! Can you take a belfie!

I'm sure you could make a few extra bucks in this forum!

Edited April 23 by marylander1940

[marylander1940]

11 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said:

Just curious what the makeup of the forum is when it comes to sexual position. I'm guessing the majority are bottoms as we have a good amount of older guys on here. I'm pretty much a top although I like to be rimmed and fingered. Just no cock in my hole. Only been fucked a couple times and wasn't a fan.

Btw so many young guys now refer to oral only as "side".

Urban Dictionary: Side

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A homosexual male who does not enjoy anal penetration (giving or receiving), but will engage in other forms of same sex activity (fellatio, frottage, mutual masturbation...

 

[samhexum]

2 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

I was literally voted "best ass" in high school (by the girls).

Did you ever get your hearing checked just to make sure they weren't saying biggest?

5 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

I've been told I have the hottest ass so many times, I don't need to pretend I don't know it.

Did you ever get your hearing checked just to make sure they weren't saying are?

[pubic_assistance]

30 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

A homosexual male who does not enjoy anal penetration (giving or receiving), but will engage in other forms of same sex activity (fellatio, frottage, mutual masturbation...

Frottage is a lost art.

[samhexum]

6 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Frottage is a lost art.

Is that anything like decoupage?

[pubic_assistance]

1 minute ago, samhexum said:

Is that anything like decoupage?

Yes..because there's a lot of stickiness and rubbing things together...

[Jamie21]

3 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I was literally voted "best ass" in high school (by the girls).

I've been told I have the hottest ass so many times, I don't need to pretend I don't know it.

Work your assets 👍

[+ DERRIK]

opening my wallet

[JamesB]

I have always considered myself as vers but, yes there is always a but, I will not bottom for just anyone. On the other hand, I will Top just about anything that moves. Does that make me vers Top?

[Simon Suraci]

30 minutes ago, JamesB said:

Does that make me vers Top?

I think so… 🤔 

or just…slutty. Which I mean in the most positive way! 

[BuffaloKyle]

6 hours ago, JamesB said:

Does that make me vers Top?

I would say so. I look at guys who are versatile as they bottom or top pretty equally or enjoy both equally. But a vers/top or vers/btm  they usually prefer and enjoy one over the other but will do the other with the right guy or for pay or when the mood strikes.

[BuffaloKyle]

12 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

That assumption seems a little upside down to me.

I was just going by the breakdown of older guys that I talk to and that the majority of them are bottoms. I shouldn't have assumed from such a small sample size that most older guys are bottoms.

[samhexum]

On 4/22/2024 at 9:49 PM, BuffaloKyle said:

Just curious what the makeup of the forum is when it comes to sexual position. I'm guessing the majority are bottoms as we have a good amount of older guys on here.

 

14 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

That assumption seems a little upside down to me.

well, this IS a thread about positions...

[nate_sf]

2 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said:

I was just going by the breakdown of older guys that I talk to and that the majority of them are bottoms. I shouldn't have assumed from such a small sample size that most older guys are bottoms.

I think you've both got a point in different respects.

In my escorting career, when I first started I was more of a twink, and more often than not clients wanted me to bottom. Now that I'm older, most clients want me to top. So some of it comes down to what an individual might want, versus what his partner is looking for or expecting. I'm truly versatile, so honestly happy either way.

[Jamie21]

I notice that because I’m large a lot of clients want me to top. The same applies when making films, I usually top. So generally in my professional sex (that’s what I call work sex) I’m a top. But for recreational sex I usually like to bottom. Perhaps it’s because it’s different.

Overall to me though it doesn’t matter, I like both roles (even at the same time  😈). It’s just that sometimes it’s simply more practical to top, or even to do everything else but penetrate. One of the roles not listed in the OP’s survey was ‘side’ but I find quite a lot of clients would describe themselves as just that. Nothing internal but lots of cuddling, body contact, frontage, hand jobs and kissing etc. That can be a fantastic session without the ‘pressure’ to penetrate anything. 

[pubic_assistance]

1 hour ago, Jamie21 said:

Overall to me though it doesn’t matter, I like both roles (even at the same time  😈).

Which is the most likely way to get me to bottom now. Offer me the middle spot in a three way....

  🍆🍑🍆

Edited April 24 by pubic_assistance
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[JamesB]

11 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said:

I would say so. I look at guys who are versatile as they bottom or top pretty equally or enjoy both equally. But a vers/top or vers/btm  they usually prefer and enjoy one over the other but will do the other with the right guy or for pay or when the mood strikes.

Honestly, I find enjoyment in both roles, and my ideal scenario is when I can switch during an encounter. However, I'm not a fan of the preparation required for bottoming, so I'm selective about who I engage in that role with.

[soloyo215]

What's your sexual position?

CEO of my own sex life.

[Simon Suraci]

This is a vanishingly small sample size. You need at least hundreds, if not thousands of responses for the data to mean anything. Survey responses are the least reliable type of data because people respond in a way that often does not align with their behavior. More often they respond to their ideals, societal expectations, aspirations, and so on.

Add to that sex worker behavior and it gets a bit murky. As others have said, we do whatever clients want us to do, and that doesn’t always align with our preferences for recreational sex. Fortunately my preference for topping recreationally tends to carry over to my professional work, but some of my best long term clients like to flip, and it’s a great time. I have total top clients too and I serve them well. The distribution leans heavier on the bottom client side. Even some otherwise total top clients tend to want to bottom for me, and I welcome whatever they want.

What would be more telling is if we had some way of automatically tracking sexual behavior over a longer period, say a year. I’m not sure how to design something like that, and the participants would have to consent…all pretty big hurdles.

Additional data attached to the set like demographics would reveal more about who you are surveying and give potentially more correlations. Respondents on CoM represent not only a small sample size, but likely a particular type of person versus a truly random population sample. Differences will  exist between the average person using the site and a truly random sample of men who have sex with men.

I agree with the practical points regarding bottoming. It’s more difficult to serve many clients that way. It takes more time to prepare and a larger toll on your body receiving. You have to be very in tune with your digestive health. You can’t prepare all the time every day otherwise your rectum gets more prone to infection and injury, not to mention more sensitive to pain. As a client you bottom on your own terms, when you feel like it. As an escort, we have to bottom if/when a client requests service. We may not be in the mood, it may not be a great time, it may be inconvenient, and our bodies may be uncooperative on any given day. This is one of many reasons why I prefer to top, both recreationally and for work.