DWnyc Posted September 10, 2023 Share Posted September 10, 2023 2 hours ago, ICTJOCK said: I would hope that wouldn’t be an incentive It’s indisputable that providers frequently misrepresent their age. Why then? The bigger question is does it matter since we can all see through it (and some of the other lies or stretches too). Archangel 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DWnyc Posted September 10, 2023 Share Posted September 10, 2023 I assume every age listed is incorrect along with several other of the filtering stats. I assume I could imagine the person in front of me could play someone that age in a movie convincingly though and if they can’t - while not a dealbreaker for me I’d question their EQ more than integrity, My favorite lie that I caught was a Hispanic guy from Connecticut who put on a fake accent and claimed he was recently arrived from Argentina. I asked him a few questions related to his home country, where I traveled to regularly at the time for work, when first meeting, not to diligence but to make conversation and out of genuine interest, and he begged to be let back to his normal persona. But he did explain that his bookings would go up considerably when he presented himself as the exotic visitor with lust that only those south of the equator can channel. Whippoorwill and + DrownedBoy 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 3 hours ago, DWnyc said: ... with lust that only those south of the equator can channel. So do you also look for Aussies and Kiwis? Maybe a Botswanan here and then? 😁 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NYXboy Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 I think its ok if they say the age they look like, rather than the age they are. + bashful, JTtorretto, marylander1940 and 1 other 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 5 minutes ago, NYXboy said: I think its ok if they say the age they look like, rather than the age they are. The danger with this is that many--perhaps most--escorts THINK they look a lot younger than they are, perhaps not the case. That being said, so many escorts lie about their age that it's wise to either FaceTime or have a documented recent photo. According to @BenjaminNicholas, lying is OK as long as you don't shave more than 10 years off the age. However a person thinks about himself, 38 and 48 are two different things, all together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 News flash… Lying isn’t okay. We just accept it as inevitable in certain circumstances when we’re thinking with our little head… + nycman, Whippoorwill and Medin 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted September 11, 2023 Author Share Posted September 11, 2023 Two of my favorite escorts shave their age by more than a decade. I hate that they do that, but each of them admits the volume of business would be substantially lower if they were straight forward about how old they really are. Whippoorwill and + KensingtonHomo 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted September 11, 2023 Author Share Posted September 11, 2023 (edited) 1 hour ago, NYXboy said: I think its ok if they say the age they look like, rather than the age they are. Agreed as long as the pictures are current and not from the year they had the age they still declare for business purposes. Not sure if that's also something you agree. Edited September 11, 2023 by marylander1940 NYXboy and JTtorretto 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NYXboy Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 3 hours ago, Unicorn said: The danger with this is that many--perhaps most--escorts THINK they look a lot younger than they are, perhaps not the case. That being said, so many escorts lie about their age that it's wise to either FaceTime or have a documented recent photo. According to @BenjaminNicholas, lying is OK as long as you don't shave more than 10 years off the age. However a person thinks about himself, 38 and 48 are two different things, all together. they are only allowed to lie when they pretend to be attracted to you! got it. 😂 MikeBiDude, + nycman, + bashful and 2 others 1 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 I find it fascinating that most the concerns and comments are much more about the physical looks of some because of age, and maturity and “values” of someone are much more indifferent irrespective of age. + WestGuy and + bashful 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DWnyc Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 7 hours ago, Unicorn said: So do you also look for Aussies and Kiwis? Maybe a Botswanan here and then? 😁 I was channeling the fake Argentine’s Connecticut persona, not mine 😊 The Aussie accent is pretty hot though. And if you can identify a Kiwi from his accent and not call him Australian he will typically melt. mike carey 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DWnyc Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 7 hours ago, Archangel said: News flash… Lying isn’t okay. We just accept it as inevitable in certain circumstances when we’re thinking with our little head… Q.How are you doing? A. I’m great! Q. How’s the work you owe me coming along? A. Totally fine, no problems … Q. Do I look fat in these jeans …? NJF, Whippoorwill, + Charlie and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted September 11, 2023 Author Share Posted September 11, 2023 10 hours ago, Unicorn said: The danger with this is that many--perhaps most--escorts THINK they look a lot younger than they are, perhaps not the case. That being said, so many escorts lie about their age that it's wise to either FaceTime or have a documented recent photo. According to @BenjaminNicholas, lying is OK as long as you don't shave more than 10 years off the age. However a person thinks about himself, 38 and 48 are two different things, all together. In the dating market and places like Seeking Arrangements Success most potential sugar daddies embellish their resume, assets, age, etc. in order to look like a better deal. Whippoorwill 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ WestGuy Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 16 hours ago, TorontoDrew said: I don't care about age. I'm looking for a guy in great shape with good reviews (and legal of course). I am the same way. Not attracted to twinks and like more mature guys. The three guys I consider “regulars” range in age from 34 to early 40s. The two that still advertise have knocked a few years off their actual age but that doesn’t bother me at all since they look exactly like their photos. In fact, one guy’s age was accurate when he started advertising but he hasn’t updated it with each passing year and I suspect few would. TorontoDrew and marylander1940 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 (edited) There is no standard for age shaving because everyone ages differently. I had a tough time getting into a bar until I was 30... I had such a baby face. Likewise, my mother used to get hit-on by high school boys (when I was in High School.)...so she was in her late 30s. On the other side I had a friend in high school who was bald by 18...and therefore looked more than 10 years older than he was. So shaving your age needs to line up with what someone would guess your age to be...not calculated with some socially acceptable math. Edited September 12, 2023 by pubic_assistance Just Chuck, + Charlie, Medin and 5 others 6 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DWnyc Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 In parallel elsewhere on here we have ongoing discussions on background checks of clients and providers. Given the information publicly available (and non public information that is easily accessible) it’s not that hard to find out real age for some providers. I discovered someone I was considering was 51 when checking for something else, though his RM profile said 35. As I looked at his pics more closely I remember thinking he does look like he’s aged a little fast for 35 … but he looks pretty great for 51! And reinforced when I met him in person. The other info that is often fudged - organ size for instance - is harder to check beforehand. Though I did once see a 2 inch difference between what was claimed on someone’s online hookup site profile and their RM profile - age height and weight were the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Charlie Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 Things like height, weight and cock size can be quickly checked upon meeting; age is more problematic. I don't mind if someone shaves a couple of years off his advertised age, but when a "27" turns up looking like 45, or vice versa, it is bound to be disappointing for the client, who usually hires with certain fantasies he expects to satisfy, and they almost always include the age demographic of the provider. spidir, 56harrisond, Archangel and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 (edited) 6 hours ago, marylander1940 said: In the dating market and places like Seeking Arrangements Success most potential sugar daddies embellish their resume, assets, age, etc. in order to look like a better deal... Not me, if that's what you're implying. I guess escorting is one thing. If one lies when actually dating, the other man will find out the truth sooner or later, in which case he will have to decide at that point whether or not to continue dating a liar. I'd rather date someone who looks younger than his age, quite frankly. Extra points for looking younger--there's someone with a longer shelf-life! 😄 I definitely have my faults, but people who know me at least know that I never lie, except where necessary to spare someone's feelings (never for my benefit). Incidentally, my fiance has never lied to me, either. When he escorted, he had an ad with an accurate age. He looks younger than his age. Now, still calling oneself a twink in one's 30s is one thing--but that just shows a state of mind. It's not lying. Edited September 11, 2023 by Unicorn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 Granted, some of these photos were uploaded up to 4 years ago (some more recent). Even then, this man's profile lists himself as 34. If he looked this good at 30 or 31, he's doing well. I'd want to verify the accuracy of his photos, but the fact that he looks so good in his 30s is a turn-on for me. Razielcik - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Vilnius, Lithuania | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Vilnius, Lithuania - Razielcik: PHENOMENAL GOD LEVEL WORLDWIDE MASSAGE ARTIST Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted September 11, 2023 Author Share Posted September 11, 2023 16 hours ago, NYXboy said: they are only allowed to lie when they pretend to be attracted to you! got it. 😂 It's called acting! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 19 hours ago, Archangel said: News flash… Lying isn’t okay. We just accept it as inevitable in certain circumstances when we’re thinking with our little head… Yup. Last weekend, I just kicked a guy out when I learned he was using fake pics. He said he thought "we could have some fun" and told me, "I'm still attractive, right. " I loved the look on his face when I told him I didn't find him attractive. marylander1940, TorontoDrew and + Vegas_Millennial 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ FrankR Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 3 hours ago, Unicorn said: Granted, some of these photos were uploaded up to 4 years ago (some more recent). Even then, this man's profile lists himself as 34. If he looked this good at 30 or 31, he's doing well. I'd want to verify the accuracy of his photos, but the fact that he looks so good in his 30s is a turn-on for me. Razielcik - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Vilnius, Lithuania | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Vilnius, Lithuania - Razielcik: PHENOMENAL GOD LEVEL WORLDWIDE MASSAGE ARTIST “God level” you say! Lol I remember when it was the fashionable thing for masseurs to do youtube verification videos, years ago before the whole Rentboy/Backpages/Fosta thing. Some of the masseurs gave you a good look! You can still find some of them on Youtube. Search for: masseurfinder nyc 😉 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 15 minutes ago, FrankR said: “God level” you say! Lol... I do agree that this is a rather arrogant statement. However, his body is quite perfect. And he looks quite similar in his photos to this Slovenian wrester turned personal trainer, who's turning 24 this week (23 at the time of the photos). So that Lithuanian masseur for hire doesn't need to lie about his age. It matters little how old he "thinks" he looks like. If those photos are accurate (and his many reviewers say they are), then he doesn't just talk the talk, we walks the walk. Extra kudos to him for both looking great and being honest. https://www.instagram.com/chris_bednarik/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DWnyc Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 11 hours ago, marylander1940 said: In the dating market and places like Seeking Arrangements Success most potential sugar daddies embellish their resume, assets, age, etc. in order to look like a better deal. But of course being “honest” would reduce probability of these encounters taking place at all Swipe right takes just a second - the pool of potential matches for anything is greater than it has ever been, but so is the ability to filter out with ever increasing complexity + Charlie and marylander1940 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 On 9/11/2023 at 5:26 AM, DWnyc said: Q.How are you doing? A. I’m great! Q. How’s the work you owe me coming along? A. Totally fine, no problems … Q. Do I look fat in these jeans …? I hate those interactions because I won’t lie. If you want a pleasantry, don’t ask a question. + DrownedBoy and + Vegas_Millennial 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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