Age shaving? How much is too much and what's acceptable?

[marylander1940]

How old should this 55 y/o escort advertise?

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

12 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

How old should this 55 y/o escort advertise?

Between 25 to 27.

If all of his pictures are in black & white, we could bump that down to 18 to 23.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

It depends on the individual, but I think I started shaving at age 14.

[handiacefailure]

Or when they use old pics from a decade ago.   I'm thinking though rentmen may have the provider type in their age instead of birthday.   There's a provide in NYC who says he's 27 and has been on the site since 2008.  Means he start escorting when he was 12 or younger lol.

I hired him in 2013 and he said he was 27 then and had to be early 30s at the youngest back then   

[ChasingGirth]

They all do it, if you see that a guy lists 35 he is probably in his 40’s.

We are dealing with good looking men, in shape and with an attractive physique for most.

I personally don’t mind it because I pick guys with reviews and that have been well reviewed here as well but they are never the age they claim. 

[Archangel]

On 9/24/2023 at 4:31 PM, marylander1940 said:

How old should this 55 y/o escort advertise?

If he’s 55, 55.

[Archangel]

Just now, marylander1940 said:

I guess you never embellished your resume for a job interview or misrepresented your stats in online dating. 

You guess right! 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

2 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

I guess you never embellished your resume for a job interview or misrepresented your stats in online dating. 

I never would have thought of lying on either.  But I know it's done.  At my workplace, a few new employees were fired a few weeks after they were hired because it was discovered they lied on their resume.  (Our HR Department doesn't have time to validate resumes for all candidates, so they wait until a job offer is accepted before they begin validating the resume.  Any lying on a resume results in automatic termination).  And what's the point of starting out a romantic relationship with a lie?  Weird.

I'd rather the escorts just leave their age blank.

[marylander1940]

2 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I never would have thought of lying on either.  But I know it's done.  At my workplace, a few new employees were fired a few weeks after they were hired because it was discovered they lied on their resume.  (Our HR Department doesn't have time to validate resumes for all candidates, so they wait until a job offer is accepted before they begin validating the resume.  Any lying on a resume results in automatic termination).  And what's the point of starting out a romantic relationship with a lie?  Weird.

I'd rather the escorts just leave their age blank.

Unfortunately we don't have an emoji for being naive or pretending to.

 

Edited September 26, 2023 by marylander1940

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 9/10/2023 at 6:06 AM, KensingtonHomo said:

However, if someone claims to be 25 and they're clearly 40, that makes me think they're untrustworthy or deluded. 

True.  I, too, avoid the person based on their propensity to lie.  That's not someone with whom I would want to associate.

[SpadeKing]

I once hired someone who said he was 46. The guy arrived and clearly was over 60s. Sure he’s got a toned body, but the skin quality, hair, wrinkles on his face just couldn’t lie.

 

In the spirit of this thread, in my opinion no that is not acceptable. I hire because of all factors presented to me by the provider. I rather they just keep that part unanswered.

[+ Charlie]

On 9/24/2023 at 1:31 PM, marylander1940 said:

How old should this 55 y/o escort advertise?

He could easily pass for 50.

[marylander1940]

10 minutes ago, Charlie said:

He could easily pass for 50.

If he lost his real age he wouldn't show up in the search of many potential clients. Obviously most 55 year old guys don't look like him

[Archangel]

Bringing up a resume is apt. Lying (“embellishing”) on a resume is unethical and fraudulent and if an employer found out, wouldn’t hire the applicant or would fire them. Because its wrong.

 I suppose it’s fine for a provider to embellish that they are STD free and on Prep too, even if they’re not! 

[NJF]

1 hour ago, Archangel said:

Bringing up a resume is apt. Lying (“embellishing”) on a resume is unethical and fraudulent and if an employer found out, wouldn’t hire the applicant or would fire them. Because its wrong.

 I suppose it’s fine for a provider to embellish that they are STD free and on Prep too, even if they’re not! 

Things are not all black or white. It is safe to say everyone lies about their size. Not everyone lies about their STD status. There is a difference there.

[maninsoma]

On 9/24/2023 at 1:31 PM, marylander1940 said:

How old should this 55 y/o escort advertise?

Hugh Jackman escorts?  What's his rate?

[marylander1940]

2 hours ago, Archangel said:

Bringing up a resume is apt. Lying (“embellishing”) on a resume is unethical and fraudulent and if an employer found out, wouldn’t hire the applicant or would fire them. Because its wrong.

 I suppose it’s fine for a provider to embellish that they are STD free and on Prep too, even if they’re not! 

In some states lying about HIV status is illegal.

 

1 hour ago, NJF said:

Things are not all black or white. It is safe to say everyone lies about their size. Not everyone lies about their STD status. There is a difference there.

Exactly not all lies are the same.

 

[Guest]

10 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I never would have thought of lying on either.  But I know it's done.  At my workplace, a few new employees were fired a few weeks after they were hired because it was discovered they lied on their resume.  (Our HR Department doesn't have time to validate resumes for all candidates, so they wait until a job offer is accepted before they begin validating the resume.  Any lying on a resume results in automatic termination).  And what's the point of starting out a romantic relationship with a lie?  Weird.

I'd rather the escorts just leave their age blank.

That sounds like a wise policy by your HR department. I've never lied on a resume or job search, nor do I ever lie, except to prevent harm to someone (for example, to avoid hurting the person's feelings), not for personal benefit. If someone lies, for example on a job application, then you can never trust what that person says, nor can you really know anything about the person, other than the fact that he's a liar. I definitely have my faults, but those who know me, especially those who know me well, know that at least they can trust what I say. That goes for my fiance as well. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 9/14/2023 at 7:51 AM, marylander1940 said:

Should he advertise as a 60 years old or shave his age to 45? 

Should advertise as 62.  This way he looks younger than he actually is, plus then he's old enough for Social Security 💰

[+ glutes]

Age shaving? How much is too much and what's acceptable?

Answer: None

If it is accepted, then it is the first part of their fraud.

[Archangel]

On 9/26/2023 at 3:03 PM, NJF said:

Things are not all black or white. It is safe to say everyone lies about their size. Not everyone lies about their STD status. There is a difference there.

No. Disagree. Vehemently.

[Archangel]

On 9/26/2023 at 3:03 PM, NJF said:

Things are not all black or white. It is safe to say everyone lies about their size. Not everyone lies about their STD status. There is a difference there.

No. Disagree. Vehemently.

Pay shaving? How much is too much and what's acceptable? Escort quotes me $1800 for an overnight, I say I’ll pay it, but show up with $1500. What matters is that I’m a nice guy, right?

Lunacy. The idea that lying is somehow understandable and acceptable! 

[NJF]

4 hours ago, Archangel said:

No. Disagree. Vehemently.

Pay shaving? How much is too much and what's acceptable? Escort quotes me $1800 for an overnight, I say I’ll pay it, but show up with $1500. What matters is that I’m a nice guy, right?

Lunacy. The idea that lying is somehow understandable and acceptable! 

Ok. Now tell me you always strictly observe the speed limits and obey every laws and ordinances 😂. I had a classmate just like that. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

13 hours ago, NJF said:

Ok. Now tell me you always strictly observe the speed limits and obey every laws and ordinances 😂. I had a classmate just like that. 

Yes, always 5 mph under posted speed limit, just in case my speedometer is calibrated wrong.  And I never jay-walk.  I will walk to the corner to cross the street to get to my community mail box.  Integrity is doing the right thing when no one is watching, always, out of habit.  Besides having less to worry about, following rules has probably kept me alive thus far by avoiding an accident.

And if I'm going to break a law I disagree with, I also do that consistently and with conviction.

[Archangel]

16 hours ago, NJF said:

Ok. Now tell me you always strictly observe the speed limits and obey every laws and ordinances 😂. I had a classmate just like that. 

I don’t. It’s also not right. Or acceptable. I just don’t get caught. I'm delusional enough to think that breaking the law, whatever it is, isn’t wrong. Facing consequences and being wrong are too very different things…

We all do things that are wrong; but just because everyone does it doesn’t mean it’s not wrong anymore.