Age shaving? How much is too much and what's acceptable?

[pubic_assistance]

9 hours ago, Kenny said:

We are? 🙄

Well...I certainly am.

I have ZERO interest in any man over 35.

Of course...to be clear, I am not talking about DATING these people...just fucking them.

My wife is only a year younger than me...and I've always dated men and women around my own age. So I would probably be of a much different opinion, if I were looking for dates, not just hot fucks.

 

Edited May 6 by pubic_assistance
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[Kenny]

On 5/5/2025 at 4:11 PM, pubic_assistance said:

Well...I certainly am.

And you think this desire is biological? Uh… it may be in your jeans, but it’s not in your genes. 

[pubic_assistance]

26 minutes ago, Kenny said:

And you think this desire is biological? Uh… it may be in your jeans, but it’s not in your genes. 

• Humans are mammals. Mammals prefer young and healthy sexual companions.

   

  QUOTE:

   

  "In many species, younger individuals are considered more desirable for mating due to their perceived fertility and vitality."
• "While not always about mating, young individuals can be favored in social groups for their playfulness, energy, and potential for future contributions to the group."

   

  -Wikipedia
• A desire for an older mate is an aquired mental fetish. The craving for youth is a biological impulse.

[Kenny]

42 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Humans are mammals.

🤣 

Male sexual desire is characterized by an interplay among biological, psychological, relational, and cultural elements. Rodents, monkeys and seals probably display limited psychological and cultural considerations, but only their therapists and pastors know for sure.

[+ José Soplanucas]

47 minutes ago, Kenny said:

🤣

Male sexual desire is characterized by an interplay among biological, psychological, relational, and cultural elements. Rodents, monkeys and seals probably display limited psychological and cultural considerations, but only their therapists and pastors know for sure.

Recommended reading for the friends who think that human behavior is determined by "Nature".

[Archangel]

Here’s an idea: it’s a spectrum! Not wholly nature, not wholly nurture. I’m sort of surprised that we’re still debating that dichotomy. 🤨 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

What is Nature's condition for lying about age? Does lying about age happen to all mammals, or just humans, or just homosexual mammals?  (Rhetorical, just trying to get back to the topic of lying about age, not about acceptable desires or Nature vs Nuture debate)

I tend to hire mostly middle aged men in their 30s and 40s.  I really don't mind if an escort says he's 32 or 48, as long as he looks middle aged.  I also often hire senior citizens over age 50.   If I see a good looking 60 year old, I will hire him... Unless he tries to tell me he's in his 30s or 40s.

When I want a smooth young inexperienced thing, that boy better look 19 if he says he's 19.   The male body is still growing in his early 20s.  There's a noticeable physical difference between 22 vs 28, that I wouldn't notice between 42 vs 48.   I wouldn't hire a man who looks 25 in his pictures if I'm looking for 18-22.

Edited May 8 by Vegas_Millennial

[Archangel]

9 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

When I want a smooth young inexperienced thing, that boy better look 19 if he says he's 19.   The male body is still growing in his early 20s.  There's a noticeable physical difference between 22 vs 28, that I wouldn't notice between 42 vs 48.   I wouldn't hire a man who looks 25 in his pictures if I'm looking for 18-22.

I always wonder how stupid these guys think we are that we look at them in their 30s and they say their 22…Right… 🙄 And I’m Marco Polo. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

Another example: 

 

 

[Peter Eater]

29? At least be in the ballpark. https://rentmen.eu/Heyitsjulian

26? Closer to 46. https://rentmen.eu/fiercehungtop

 

[marylander1940]

On 3/24/2025 at 8:25 AM, Asterisk said:

I know age has been questioned repeatedly in this thread, but a RM member for nearly 8 years and uses "24" as an age?  He started at 16?!  Makes you doubtful, and then you find the RM pics uploaded in 2024 were posted to IG in 2021.

 

At least he does look 24 (to me)!

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[Luv2play]

CutlerXXX, the long time porno star with a huge dick, got a bad review today on RM when the client said he was 60, old and tired. In his ad, Cutler gives his age as that old standby for mature escorts, 39. 

Edited May 26 by Luv2play

[Spikeguy]

Looks like it was removed if RM refers to RentMen.  Can we use RMen and RMas to distinguish them?

[Luv2play]

6 hours ago, Spikeguy said:

Looks like it was removed if RM refers to RentMen.  Can we use RMen and RMas to distinguish them?

It’s still there on Rentmen.eu. Posted on May 24 in Chicago. The precise review wording is “He is 60, and tired, and trying to cheat a little.”

A rather cutting critique. I remember his ads over 20 years ago and he was no spring chicken then but not sure if 60 is accurate. I saw him in person about 18 years ago and he was shorter than I expected, about 5 8” or so. And the reference to cheating is obscure: was this a reference to age or the session itself. 
 

On RM you can always message the client to get more info. Whether they will reply is up to them. 

[Spikeguy]

Ah that one has a premium banner so maybe only paying users can read it.

[Luv2play]

50 minutes ago, Spikeguy said:

Ah that one has a premium banner so maybe only paying users can read it.

It pays to be a paying member and reading the comments. In this review the client gave CutlerXXX 4 stars despite the critical comments. In most cases a negative reviewer will only award 1 or 2 stars. Many positive reviews have only 4 stars. Altho 5 is the standard for a positive review. The 4 stars might have one caveat about the experience.

[marylander1940]

1 hour ago, bbc221 said:

why is catfishing deception so prevalent with service providers. if you are 5'7", why say you are 6' tall? if you are covered in tattoos, why edit them out in most pics, and then when asked if that is a tattoo, say i got them removed, when you actually altered your photos to mislead? it's so gross, and it feels entrapping to bring someone into your room after they made their way over to you and wasted their time under false pretenses to be held semi-hostage while your insecurities and lack of honesty are the biggest vibe regarldess of the service you will provide. people should own who they are if this is an industry about attraction as much as the activities in the encounter.

Not all publicity is always based on true facts but also in attracting customers. In most cases they can always walk away after seeing the real "product".

[+ Just Chuck]

I think it's okay to age shave to whatever age most people would guess you to be.  I looked older than a high school student when I was in high school. (So, I was always the guy with the fake ID who bought the beer for my buddies.). 

Then, in about my mid-twenties, something flipped and I looked younger than I really was for a few decades.  I remember, a time when I was about thirty years old, I grabbed dinner and beers with a group of college-aged friends.  I was 7-10 years older than any of them and I was the only one the waiter asked for an ID.

Around 55, my hair started graying and my face started to show more age and I look somewhat more my own real age.  

That time when I was thirty and looked under 21, I don't think I'd have been in-the-wrong if I had a hookup profile saying I was 22.

[marylander1940]

On 10/5/2025 at 5:44 PM, dutchal said:

There's an ad for him running in NYC:  https://rentmen.eu/RAFAELALENCAR

Ad says 38; IMDB says 47.

 

He looks great!

And his main assets 🍑 and 🍆 still work!

[Medin]

This guy's profile shows his age as 43 but he is actually 68.    He has great body for 68 but shaving off 25 years?! 

 https://rentmasseur.com/MuscDadMasseur

 

[maninsoma]

8 minutes ago, Medin said:

This guy's profile shows his age as 43 but he is actually 68.    He has great body for 68 but shaving off 25 years?! 

 https://rentmasseur.com/MuscDadMasseur

 

I haven't met the guy, but even the photos he uses reveal that he cannot possibly be 43.  He could probably claim 53 and not raise too much suspicion (again, just based on the photos), but there's no way that's the face of a 43-year-old.

[Wings246]

9 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

There's an ad for him running in NYC:  https://rentmen.eu/RAFAELALENCAR

Ad says 38; IMDB says 47.

If you visit his own website, which is embedded in his RM ad, he lists his birthday as 7/18/1978 (age = 47).  That's why I don't take RM profile descriptors too seriously.  

RAFAEL ALENCAR - ABOUT

WWW.RAFAELWORLD.COM

 

[BSR]

1 hour ago, Wings246 said:

If you visit his own website, which is embedded in his RM ad, he lists his birthday as 7/18/1978 (age = 47).  That's why I don't take RM profile descriptors too seriously.  

RAFAEL ALENCAR - ABOUT

WWW.RAFAELWORLD.COM

 

“embedded”?  Buried would be more apt.  The only link in his RM ad is to his X account.  In the header of his X account is a linktree link.  When you open the linktree, his personal website is at the bottom.  Only after all that can you find his date of birth.

So he lies on RentMen, the number one site where most clients are going to find him, but if you follow a bunch of links like a treasure hunt, you can find his real age.  I wouldn’t exactly call that forthcoming, and it’s certainly not honest.

Edited October 11 by BSR
Wording

[Wings246]

4 minutes ago, BSR said:

“embedded”?  Buried would be more apt.

It's not necessarily a direct hyperlink per se, but the URL is listed under the description section: "... Thousand of pictures at www.RafaelWorld.com..."  That's how I got to his bio page.

[marylander1940]

11 hours ago, BSR said:

“embedded”?  Buried would be more apt.  The only link in his RM ad is to his X account.  In the header of his X account is a linktree link.  When you open the linktree, his personal website is at the bottom.  Only after all that can you find his date of birth.

So he lies on RentMen, the number one site where most clients are going to find him, but if you follow a bunch of links like a treasure hunt, you can find his real age.  I wouldn’t exactly call that forthcoming, and it’s certainly not honest.

Considering how famous he is obviously many sites he can't control show his real age and possibly some personal information he wouldn't like to share.

On Grindr many folks also lie about size, height, etc. in order to attract potential hookups but at the end of the day is up folks look the way they do and Rafael looks great and is aging very gracefully!