Something a provider has done that made your experience extra nice?

[Jason Dutch]

Question for you guys — What is something a provider has done that made the experience stand out for you, perhaps above any others?  Or, what's something that a guy has done (or does) that enhances the appointment or the connection?

It can be small or large, a one-off or something consistent, just looking for insights and memories about ways an escort has made an otherwise good date into a great date...

I saw a similar thread on twitter mostly pitched towards straight hobbyists and there were some really sweet positive responses and great ideas posted in the replies. Thought I'd put it here and see what people said

 

[+ Charlie]

After a very enjoyable evening appointment at his apartment, Eric Ryan suggested that I come back the next morning for a relaxed breakfast. I couldn't do it, but I thought it was a very nice gesture that implied he would like me to be a friend and not just a client.

[dbar123]

My favorite thing is when the escort finishes by showering with you. 

[DWnyc]

Texting some info they would have had to look up as a follow up with no message implying they were seeking a rebooking … based on some conversation that took place, usually very vanilla … a local restaurant name, a hotel they liked when visiting somewhere you discussed, a brand of something talked about etc …  that’s when you know you’re dealing with a real human being at the other end of the “transaction” 

[big-n-tall]

In no particular order...

A provider cooking for me or offering to cook for me.

Sending me a sweet or thoughtful message especially after our time to together.

Just being sweet affectionate and playful before during and after the encounter.

Thanking me for helping them out... by just making out. One provider I helped move some furniture. He didn't live too far from me. After we dropped the last piece of furniture off, he thanked me and kissed me. Which lead to a heavy make out session. That was all. it was awesome.

A provider, whom I met last year, offered to do a 3-day threesome (with his boyfriend) for the rate he asks for a solo 3-day meet up. This is at no additional charge... 2 for the cost of one. He says because he likes and trusts me. I was flattered.

Edited August 7, 2023 by big-n-tall

[+ DrownedBoy]

It wasn't during the experience itself, but I once had a regular I texted between sessions. Mainly, I asked for, and he gave, advice on how to improve sessions, such as which type of lube to use, etc.

[KrisParr]

1) I mentioned one time the name of my favorite cologne - next time we got together, he was wearing the fragrance- he liked it a lot

2) Remembering a few tunes that I enjoy and they became part of the masseur’s playlist during my appointments 

3) Text reminders of upcoming appointments - just like the dentist, etc.

4) Home-made cookies “to go” afterwards

[+ Mrprofessional]

A warm washcloth brought in and strategically placed on me after our activities — before the shower — as we lie together for a minute. It’s sweet… and feels great. 

[Lazarus]

Not charged me. 

[jeezifonly]

• A warm towel wrapped around me the moment I finish showering.

• Genuinely laughing with me.

• Telling me I’m pretty. 🤭🤣

 

[ICTJOCK]

I have a client that doesn't take much initiative to eat the right way on a daily basis.   He's a regular and has been for a couple of years.   I have purchased small things to add to his diet and two or three times fixed a meal for him without any sort of request to do so.   He is always very grateful and compensates me for any expenditure plus a tip.   He never expects it,  however.

[Rod Hagen]

9 hours ago, jeezifonly said:

• A warm towel wrapped around me the moment I finish showering.

Or just frigging showering together in the first place.  It's so fun and sexy, never understood why it's such a no-Go for so many escorts.

[+ nycman]

Left.

grin

[+ sf westcoaster]

A thank you text saying how much. he enjoyed our time together and another time , when having dinner the escort paid the bill.

[+ Lucky]

That reminds me of an Asian escort I hired who gave me a great time and then took me out for an expensive dinner...the latter cost almost as much as the session.

[+ Charlie]

58 minutes ago, sf westcoaster said:

A thank you text saying how much. he enjoyed our time together and another time , when having dinner the escort paid the bill.

 

43 minutes ago, Lucky said:

That reminds me of an Asian escort I hired who gave me a great time and then took me out for an expensive dinner...the latter cost almost as much as the session.

That happened to me once with an escort in New York. He also gave me advice on a text I could use in a course I was planning to teach.

[+ Charlie]

One time I told Rex Brant that I was hiring him to celebrate my birthday. At the end of the appointment, he pulled out a bottle of wine he had bought me for a birthday present (it was a cheap Australian wine, but it was the thought that counted).

[jeezifonly]

5 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:

Or just frigging showering together in the first place.  It's so fun and sexy, never understood why it's such a no-Go for so many escorts.

Oh, we did a couple times, after, but he asked me to stay in the shower, while he ran to the dryer and back… a lovely spa-like touch. Always the warm towel for my solo pre-shower. And a warm washcloth for …spillage. I bet you are similarly prepared and inclined to extra service. 😘

[hairytxn]

Got soaked in a rainstorm and the provider ran my clothes in the dryer during our session.

[Jason Dutch]

Thanks guys for these awesome stories and memories! And good natured humor haha. Would love to hear more.

[SirBillybob]

A regular filed away a comment I made in passing that I liked to read books on shortlists in candidacy for various major annual fiction prizes. He researched and gifted me 5 such novels one Christmas, along with the receipt, in the event I had read any and wished to exchange. He outdid my own creativity in spite of my being obsessed with him at the time. 

Edited August 8, 2023 by SirBillybob

[dbar123]

I love it when you see an escort again and he remembers what was going on in your life from the last visit…and cares enough to follow up

[StefonNYC]

One time I was casually hanging out with a provider while he was preparing his new apartment, and we decided to go to Home Depot together. I drove and got a parking ticket because I didn't realize it was metered parking. He paid for the ticket. And that whole encounter was just us hanging out. No sex. 

[TorontoDrew]

It's the little things for me.  A thank you message and a response to my Rentmen review.  Good small talk and as another poster pointed out, remembering something personal you may have mentioned or following up on something you discussed the last time.

From the guys I see it helps escalate it from great sex to a great experience.

[FLJock]

On 8/7/2023 at 10:28 PM, Lazarus said:

Not charged me. 

I had that happen twice.  Went for a massage, where they listed as therapeutic, but chemistry was there and one thing let to another.  After a super hot session (they both) apologized and said that never happens with clients and didn't charge me.

On a separate occasion had a provider call me just before we had our first session and said he was at Starbucks and asked if I wanted a coffee.  Thought that was super nice and it made me look forward to meeting him even more.