What Makes you STOP Responding to Client's Messages?

[lonely_john]

Release your stress and frustration Providers!

[Guest]

I had a provider not reply to my messages at all on a initial first time query. Personally I think thats rude, the said provider last updated his profile a few weeks ago . Not sure if provider retired, but he could have said so. 

Edited September 15, 2021 by jetlow

[Storm4U]

If I get a bad vibe, or if they say something offensive or off-putting.

[BabyBoomer]

26 minutes ago, Storm4U said:

If I get a bad vibe, or if they say something offensive or off-putting.

👍

~Boomer~

[lonely_john]

On 9/15/2021 at 5:49 PM, Storm4U said:

If I get a bad vibe

Interesting. What constitutes a 'bad vibe' in your books @Storm4U? Same as other clients, I've also experienced times when a provider just went radio silent after my last text or comment. Of course I've never said anything offensive but my ignorance probably didn't let me see that I said something that could send some 'bad vibes'. This is also critical because sometimes there are gaps between what our older generation and the younger one considers appropriate to ask or tell. So ... What kinds of things we clients should be careful not to ask or tell providers in general?

Edited September 17, 2021 by lonely_john

[Kevin Slater]

If they end a sentence with a preposition. Instant block.

Kevin Slater

[+ purplekow]

16 minutes ago, Kevin Slater said:

If they end a sentence with a preposition. Instant block.

Kevin Slater

 As if I was going to.

[Shawn Monroe]

1 hour ago, Kevin Slater said:

If they end a sentence with a preposition. Instant block.

Kevin Slater

Hopefully one day you’ll come around.  

[Kevin Slater]

2 hours ago, purplekow said:

 As if I was going to.

 

2 hours ago, Shawn Monroe said:

Hopefully one day you’ll come around.  

Well done, both.

Kevin Slater

[+ Jamie21]

3 situations:

Bad spelling. ‘Your’ when they mean you’re, ‘of’ when they mean have…that sort of thing. If your going to do that you should of asked someone else. 

After the conversation transitions from discussion about the meeting to sexting …then I know 100% he’s a Timewaster.

If the opening message is a dick pic or one word such as “massage”, or “pic” or “fuck”. 
 

 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

12 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

If your going to do that you should of asked someone else. 

 

This hurts me to read!

[+ MysticMenace]

13 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

dick pic

maybe do the thumbs down emoji on him then block? lol.

[+ purplekow]

14 hours ago, Vegas_nw1982 said:

This hurts me to read!

Thinking that was sarcastic.  Though it may be very bad timing.  I choose to give him the benefit of the snark.  

[Guest]

When you hit me with the double question marks two minutes after sending a message. Byyyyyye

[lonely_john]

35 minutes ago, DanteV said:

When you hit me with the double question marks two minutes after sending a message. Byyyyyye

No patience for the impatient? 😁

[+ Jamie21]

11 hours ago, purplekow said:

Thinking that was sarcastic.  Though it may be very bad timing.  I choose to give him the benefit of the snark.  

I’m English, sarcasm is second nature. 

[Guest]

13 hours ago, lonely_john said:

No patience for the impatient? 😁

Heaps of patience. I will patiently wait for another client. 

[FrancisCA]

On 9/17/2021 at 6:38 AM, DanteV said:

When you hit me with the double question marks two minutes after sending a message. Byyyyyye

Omg saaaame. Like it doesnt make me look at my phone faster if im not attached to it

[lonely_john]

1 hour ago, Francis said:

Omg saaaame. Like it doesnt make me look at my phone faster if im not attached to it

I must now confess I've sent the "??" after a message has not been answered, but after 15 min 😓

[Luv2play]

On 9/19/2021 at 5:08 PM, lonely_john said:

I must now confess I've sent the "??" after a message has not been answered, but after 15 min 😓

Your bad. Or you're bad. Whichever way it is, 15 minutes is a short time lapse. Maybe he's in the bathroom.

[TallMuscl37]

On 9/15/2021 at 6:42 PM, Shawn Monroe said:

Hopefully one day you’ll come around.  

Reminds me of Toni Braxton at 2:10 😂 

🎶  You say right now that you're not what I'm looking for
And what you really need is time to grow
You're promising that one day you may come around
And I'm supposed to let that go 🎶 

 

 

Edited September 23, 2021 by Jarrod_Uncut

[TallMuscl37]

On 9/16/2021 at 12:13 AM, Jamie21 said:

3 situations:

Bad spelling. ‘Your’ when they mean you’re, ‘of’ when they mean have…that sort of thing. If your going to do that you should of asked someone else. 

After the conversation transitions from discussion about the meeting to sexting …then I know 100% he’s a Timewaster.

If the opening message is a dick pic or one word such as “massage”, or “pic” or “fuck”. 
 

 

That’s about as annoying when clients text me, hey Jerrod/Jerod! And I be like, my name is JARROD. I’m not changing my escort name any further, especially now that calling cards 🎴 have been distributed nationwide 😂. 
 

But I’ve also eased up and recognize many clients just aren’t the best at text spelling. Even grammar goes out the window. It’s almost a turn on how even the most affluent guys will get down to their most primal mating dialect, when reaching out for an encounter.

When it comes down to cold Turkey no responses, I try to give the benefit of doubt. Even seemingly stupid questions may just be someone new or inexperienced. But my usual cut off is, “do you party?” Or anything having to do with drug use or purchasing drugs for them. Which leads me to a new thread…

 

[GiovanniOrtiz]

I'm really new at this but i don't like it when they're too straightforward and almost brutish. 

 

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[+ Jamie21]

4 hours ago, GiovanniOrtiz said:

I'm really new at this but i don't like it when they're too straightforward and almost brutish. 

 

GiovanniOr - Male Escort - Norfolk, VA | Rent.Men

Yes agree. Like when they just say “fuck?” Or “full service “. Why can’t people express what they want in a proper sentence? I’m more inclined to reply to a properly framed question…..”fuck?” isn’t a question. 

[Guest]

Devils advocate here : How have you handled negative feedback after initial appointment ? And would that cause you to stop responding?