Being a hater at size queens

[Smurof]

As time goes on, if Chaturbate is a horribly misguided ego-destroying gage for seeing other cocks, more women then ever before the World over are deliberately breeding with hung guys by choice. Seeing a guy use #hung with a juicy looking thick seven incher, getting flooded with comments of "You're not that big, dude."

 

It goes without saying (so why waste time typing it, then?) that big-dicked dudes exude an impressive level of confidence in themselves that carries over to never being single, if that's their choice. When my female neighbor when I was in my twenties told me she dumped her most recent man because she couldn't handle how small his penis was. I asked her, and she said it couldn't have been longer than six inches, and that is way too unsatisfying for her. It made me angry hearing of how shallow that was, although I hid my emotions well.

 

On this very forum, countless men seek " a hose that will stretch me to the max". This bigger is better mentality is not just with muscle development, but now with cock size. These days, on Chaturbate, if you're Russian (or have a decent fake accent), uncut, 9 inches - page 1 with tips up the yin yang, not even needing to have a regular job. If you're Circumcised from anywhere-ville, slightly fat, 1 and a half inches - page 19, zero viewers. : (

[Monarchy79]

Unfortunately, it would be best to let this issue go, as this falls under the “life isn’t fair”, category..... and EVERYONE falls under the lower end of some spectrum at some point.

1.) There are guys that will have smaller penises

2.) There are woman that will have smaller breasts

3.) There are people that will be born with disabilities.

4.) There are guys that will be born short

5.) There are people that will be born into poverty

6.) There will be people born into a caste, ethnicity, or race, that will place them at a societal disadvantage.

 

This is life and everyone has been given their hand.

Play your hand to a the max, and don’t concern yourself about the “blessings”, of others, because you might not even know their disadvantages.

Edited April 10, 2021 by Monarchy79

[MscleLovr]

Wasn’t it always thus @Smurof ?

 

I was always told that what you do with it matters more than how big it is.

[jjkrkwood]

I have let go lamenting about my own cock size, because lets face it, I cant change its size. I am a 70 year old man, it aint gonna grow. but I know what I LIKE, and have always been a size queen from the time I came out back in my 20's. For me the visual of servicing the Big cock of a guy that enjoys it is fulfilling, to the point that i dont even need to cum myself to be sexually satisfied. Its all psychological for me, I just enjoy big cock more.

Even when viewing on Chaturbate, a gorgeous guy with a small cock doesnt get my attention the way a guy with a big cock does. I love the confidence, the arrogance and the power having a big cock gives these guys, and I enjoy the guys that know how to put on a show to their advantage. I aint mad at it. Its all about knowing your strengths and making them work for you. We live in a different world now, and if you can earn a good, sustainable living off your Big cock, GET IT, Boy !

[+ nycman]

One great thing about being a top.....

 

I don’t care if you’re hung like a horse....or hung like an ant.

 

It‘s all pink on the inside.

[Guest]

One great thing about being a top.....

And I enjoy sucking men off, so prefer a smaller cock myself. If you're a top, see if you can find a trans man who hasn't had bottom surgery. That's the best. I know, sometimes it seems as if all gay men are bottoms. Finding a gay trans man often seems like finding a needle in the haystack...

Edited April 11, 2021 by Unicorn

[Rudynate]

As time goes on, if Chaturbate is a horribly misguided ego-destroying gage for seeing other cocks, more women then ever before the World over are deliberately breeding with hung guys by choice. Seeing a guy use #hung with a juicy looking thick seven incher, getting flooded with comments of "You're not that big, dude."

 

It goes without saying (so why waste time typing it, then?) that big-dicked dudes exude an impressive level of confidence in themselves that carries over to never being single, if that's their choice. When my female neighbor when I was in my twenties told me she dumped her most recent man because she couldn't handle how small his penis was. I asked her, and she said it couldn't have been longer than six inches, and that is way too unsatisfying for her. It made me angry hearing of how shallow that was, although I hid my emotions well.

 

On this very forum, countless men seek " a hose that will stretch me to the max". This bigger is better mentality is not just with muscle development, but now with cock size. These days, on Chaturbate, if you're Russian (or have a decent fake accent), uncut, 9 inches - page 1 with tips up the yin yang, not even needing to have a regular job. If you're Circumcised from anywhere-ville, slightly fat, 1 and a half inches - page 19, zero viewers. : (

 

 

It is what it is. I'm not hung big, and of course, there are guys who will reject me as a sexual partner on that one criterion, but there are LOTS who won't. I focus on the LOTS who won't and am not bothered by guys who wouldn't be interested in me because of the size of my dick. Besides, I would be a hypocrite if I did because I happen to love big dicks. But I'm flexible, If a guy is built nice, I don't care how big his dick is.

[Jamie21]

I’m hung, I never realised it when I was younger and hadn’t had much experience because I compared myself with guys I saw in porn, and my cock seemed similar to theirs or even a bit bigger.

 

Then when I started to become more experienced with guys I realised my cock was much larger than most and that guys liked playing with it.

 

I think it’s true that guys (and females) do favour a big cock but it’s definitely important that the guy knows how to use it and isn’t arrogant with it. The biggest sexual organ is the brain and someone with a big cock but who is stupid or ignorant definitely won’t be a good sex partner.

 

Being hung has helped me in my porn work and as a sensual masseur. It’s definitely an attraction for my clients. But I realise you can’t just rely on being hung, you need to be good at sex too.

[Islesguy]

I couldn't care less what's downstairs in deciding whom I hire. I care about the head up top. To me, that's the sexiest organ. Well, the tongue also cause I love kissing. Thankfully, not one guy I hired has said one word about my tool. Either they don't care or they are so good at their job, I believe they don't care.

 

No escort I have hired has made me feel self-conscious about my body while I was with them. It's amazed me every time considering how self-conscious I am about everything. I'm very selective in whom I hire which is probably why I have only had one experience that was only so-so.

[+ Lucky]

I am so happy not to be a size queen. I have been with super big ones and very tiny ones and had fun every time. My own won't win any size contests, but it sure has been damn good to me. I can't remember one guy ever complaining about it. I sure don't.

[Walker1]

I really like giant monster cocks to play with and suck. But to take it up the behind-I don't prefer ones over 6 -7 inches and not too thick. Maybe I am not expert enough-but that is my sweet spot.

But to play and fondle and jerk off-love the big and thick ones.

[cmennow]

9+ inches for me makes me happy!

[Mjonis]

I use reddit and there's some nice r/cocks and r/cutcocks groups. LOTS of variations. Personally I'm not a size queen. I do NOT want a LONG cock in my ass (sorry but it hurts when something that large is going up that far). Nor do I care for the big "beer can" cocks (ouch). I like average cocks (I hate to say "smaller") but really 5-7" with a big mushroom head, and a nice upwards curve (or heck, even a downward curve). It rubs that prostate JUST right, IMO. And ironically, when bottoming, it's not the in all the way/out all the way that feels good, it's actually the first few inches in and out that really feel great (for me).

 

But everyone is different. I don't get not-turned-on by large cocks (knowing full well I could never throat or receive it all). Yes, some guys are incredibly hung.

 

Now, I might like stroking a big cock (both hands, hmmm).

[Jarrod_Uncut]

Unfortunately, it would be best to let this issue go, as this falls under the “life isn’t fair”, category..... and EVERYONE falls under the lower end of some spectrum at some point.

1.) There are guys that will have smaller penises

2.) There are woman that will have smaller breasts

3.) There are people that will be born with disabilities.

4.) There are guys that will be born short

5.) There are people that will be born into poverty

6.) There will be people born into a caste, ethnicity, or race, that will place them at a societal disadvantage.

 

This is life and everyone has been given their hand.

Play your hand to a the max, and don’t concern yourself about the “blessings”, of others, because you might not even know their disadvantages.

 

This I agree! I think “we” as gay men focus ??‍♂️ so much on dick sizes and materialistic attributes. That’s why I’ve had to cut out a lot of the superficially sexual guys out of my “zone” (and some have even passed on their own due to drugs/addictions used to take such large cocks). Bottoms can be part of the problem, and the solution. Not just those who are non-monster cock guys.

 

I think some guys out there, namely bottoms, make finding a big dick too much of a their daily focus. But someone can have a big dick, and actually be a big dick lol. Some even try to “makeup” for their shortcomings by seeking out bigger and tougher tops. My last “fuck buddy” tried to make it seem like I wasn’t aggressive enough, like they are in porn. I’m like dude, you’re like 5’9, 160 pounds and I’m 6’2, 205 pounds and my dick is twice the size of his. Any rougher, and he’d need an extra top to fill the new hole I just split him ? Plus, I’ve had the time or 2 where rough fucking has made my dick slip out of their ass. And that’s easily a recipe for a fractured penis. That’s why when bottoms start aggressively throwing their ass back...I tell them to STOP.

 

That said, I’ve been from time to time told I wasn’t too big down below. But in my case, I’ve realized that I’m a “grower” not a show-er and that also the camera tends to play tricks with my dick. Because my legs from my waist to my knees are something like 18-19 inches, me being a soft 3 or 4 inches can look disproportionately small from a distance. But when it’s like eight ? and in their face, I’ve not had much complaints lol.

 

That said, there’s things that have been clinically proven, that can help guys “grow” a bit. That includes slimming the midsection, exercising (increased flow), trimming pubes (not necessarily bare, but just some grooming versus a full on “bush”, and many porn stars are trimmed to give this effect also), and also taking natural herbs helps. Even having sex regularly, can make it bigger.

 

All assumes you want or need to be. If a guy is a “superficial” size queen, it doesn’t matter if you’re 9, 10 or 12 inches. His goal isn’t to find a big dick. His goal is to just find “many” big dicks. So yours won’t really matter after you fuck him ??‍♂️

[sincitymix]

I knew a guy that went kind of Bi'ish because he was 11" and really really really thick.. like cant touch your fingers together when you wrap your hand around it thick.

he said pretty much every girl wont even touch it.. cant get blow jobs, cant even get the tip in any orifices front and back.. got tired of handjobs.

 

He tried guys for awhile but said kind of same problems..

 

So i think some really hung guys can find it a curse

[MidAndy]

My 2 cents here. I have decent size, about 6 inches cock. It's think and straight. Several times on Grindr after seeing its pictures and being open about its size I was rejected for the reason not being big enough. With three guys that rejected me I hooked up later not showing dick dick (I probably lied about size, these details escaped my memory).

 

In all three cases guys complained that it is painful and they cannot take it any longer. So I had my revenge.

[Jarrod_Uncut]

I knew a guy that went kind of Bi'ish because he was 11" and really really really thick.. like cant touch your fingers together when you wrap your hand around it thick.

he said pretty much every girl wont even touch it.. cant get blow jobs, cant even get the tip in any orifices front and back.. got tired of handjobs.

 

He tried guys for awhile but said kind of same problems..

 

So i think some really hung guys can find it a curse

 

I’ll just say though, there’s a hallway for every oversized hot dog ? he just gotta keep hope alive. Maybe visit a bathhouse on a Saturday night, the parTy guys will definitely not have an issue ?

 

[Nvr2thick4me]

9+ inches for me makes me happy!

Ditto

[Ajac]

Not allowed to make flat chest jokes about a woman but small dick shaming is OK for some reason.

Although It is pretty funny when applied to a certain orange faced buffon. There was a very interesting documentary called Unhung hero where a guy is dumped by his fiancé for being too small and goes on a journey to find solutions.