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Here are some thoughts based on my rich history of hookups and various fwbs/fbs. Sometimes sex with Asian guys goes as usual. They usually bottom. I had several encounters with Asian guys that were somewhat odd. It sometimes starts in foreplay, and sometime it starts when I start fucking. The oddness is in a way they touch me. It's a combination of pinching, grabbing, and tweaking various parts of my body, including earlobes. While it was not a complete turn-off, it's not the experience I dream about every night. I had no so great experiences with non-Asian guys, but mainly due to a lack of interaction in foreplay. I did not mean to generalize these findings, so you interpret that as you wish.

It is hard to describe what I feel towards him. I am definitely grateful for all the videos he made. I feel sad that he became HIV positive and now has to live with it. You can see from his videos that he is a kind and cheerful guy.

I had a guy who actually liked when there is some shit on the condom and it smells - reminded his of his earlier sexual experiences and experiments in his teenage years when it was a normal outcome.

I wonder if any of the providers were ever paid in prop money, something they use in movies. As I understand the transaction is usually quick and has some awkwardness. Or it may be dark, or a bill on a top may be real but others are not. So my question is what you did (or would do) if you you were paid in prop money? Contact a client? What if they block you? Contact the police?

Gay sex can be messy because of lube and other substances. What's your solution to keep your bed in order - changing sheets after an encounter, use specialized water-resistant sheets, put a towel under "working parts", have sex in a standing position?

Anyone has recommendations for Fargo-Morehead area?

I hate to beat a dead horse. Communication?

I am very sorry this happened to you. Generally, behaving in unpredictable way is a good strategy to turn the situation around - screaming, pretending to pass out, opening a refrigerator and throwing things on the floor would disrupt his way of doing things - which I am sure were done before. However I completely understand if you just froze. There is also one pattern here. Messy apartments are more likely to indicate that your experience won't be the greatest.

A useful thought exercise for you. If you are a client and you want to hire, how would you interpret this message ($25 Payment due within 2 messages)? What does it tell you about the provider? Second thought exercise. Try to compare and contrast experienced/novice clients from the first exercise. Additionally, account for probability of being hired by these categories of clients. Finally, the third, most challenging. Estimate the impact of this strategy on your monthly earnings.

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Yes, it's a known phenomenon. And there is an interesting, new trend happening when guys make good chunks of money using onlyfans like Reno Gold. To me, it looks like this path protects them from early deaths. What do you guys think?

Pretty much every big school has tons of good-looking young men. I'd say some of them can be intellectually curious and it adds to their hotness scale.

My 2 cents here. I have decent size, about 6 inches cock. It's think and straight. Several times on Grindr after seeing its pictures and being open about its size I was rejected for the reason not being big enough. With three guys that rejected me I hooked up later not showing dick dick (I probably lied about size, these details escaped my memory). In all three cases guys complained that it is painful and they cannot take it any longer. So I had my revenge.

The guy looks gorgeous. I just cannot forget "rosebud" I saw in one of his videos. I wish I could have unseen it and move on to hiring.

Somewhat right. I guess I just want more for the extra and he is already doing everything I communicated.

So, I met a guy on Seeking Arrangement and he is becoming my regular. We normally meet for a fixed amount, have dinner, fun, and spend a night together. I am thinking to propose some alternative model where he gets rewarded for doing things I like without being prompted (like call me by my first name, cuddle after sex, wearing underwear I like, etc). I will add a certain amount for each checkpoint that he met. The reason I want to try this that is that he is super affordable with his base rate (he is very inexperienced) and I would to bring an element of fun/game into our interactions. Has anyone tried to have different compensation model for the guys you see based on their performance (I know some people tip escorts)? How did you communicate it to escorts?

They said they are not interested and expected something different. I asked how much they want and they never gave me an answer.

Need advice here. I try to video chat with guys before I meet them. At some point, we have a conversation about how much I am ready to pay if we meet them. I tried two scenarios. 1. Ask them how much they want. One said a grand per meeting on top of his travel. He lives in a different city and I would say he is average looking. I said that the most I can do is $200. He vanished. 2. When a guy asked how much I would pay, I gave them the number. In one case I offered 200, in another case, it was 100. I understand that this is on the lower end, but when there is nothing special (cute face or muscles or great personality and presence) I am not ready to pay more. What's the best way to handle this? Not bring money at all?

For those that use Instagram for hiring - can you share your strategies?

I have used a strategy suggested by someone previously - paying $50 just to meet for coffee and chat and just had my first meet. It was great! The guy was nice and pleasant, showed me a couple of good places to eat and I had overall a great time. Now we are moving towards more intimate things, like spending a night together. I have never spent a night with an escort before, but I want slow sensational encounter. Any tips from the pros how to make it happen in the best way?

Has anyone tried pad account there? Is it possible to download any videos with paid membership? https://recurbate.com

I started account on Seeking Arrangements. I had several chats with guys from there. One of the steps I do "behind the scenes" is finding their profiles on social media and any traces they left on internet. The purpose of this "stalking" is to confirm that I am talking to a real person, and not being catfished and see if they are not lying. And I noticed an interesting phenomenon. I am interested in guys 18-25 yo, who belong to generation that is more cognizant on what they put on social media. You know who is less cognizant? Their moms. For two guys I chatted on SA, there were only few clothed pics on their Facebook pages, but their moms had tons of pics of theirs sons (including shirtless, sport events, family gatherings). If only they knew.

You must have a rare gift of finding guys who are in that zone where they need a little support (financial or advice) and it gets them on a path where they can live a happy life.