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This is something I'd like to unlearn and unsee. I was considering hiring Hoss Kado (https://rent.men/HossKado) for a long time, but the rosebud in some oh his videos made so memorable impression on me so I decided to pass. I know I am irrational and illogical, but I can't help it.

Hey, Kevin. Great data analysis. Would you mind sharing (without revealing any identifiable data, of course) what kind of arrangements you have with your top clients? The reason I am asking is that I am looking for a somewhat ongoing arrangement with an escort, and curious to know how it works for others on the market. Thanks.

Some things you learn as a result of social interaction. Sometimes this knowledge is very useful. My example. A guy taught me a simple cocktail: whisky, cola, AND frozen cherries instead of ice cubes (it's very good). What have you learned from your encounters?

What brand for underwear?

If I were that guy I would leave you $20 bill on a dresser feeling bad that you have only $19.

And a professional escort can be outdone by a college kid who really likes to suck cock and really needs $20 this night.

I received as a gift nice 1000 thread count sheets and they do feel luxurious and more comfortable compared to the cheap ones I had before. What are other things that are significantly better at slightly higher price ranges? What else have I been missing? (Most interestingly, this trend does not apply to escorts)

I had the same story when a guy I used to hook up on a regular basis stole my well worn, almost falling apart flip flops. I am still uncertain why he did that. I tried to ask him but he denied that he took them. I think it is an instinctive, almost unconscious move. People get pretty excited when having sex, so that may be something he would not be able to explain why he did that and feel ashamed about.

Sometime guys you hire tell you what they need money for. Or ask for a specific amount to buy x. My best hiring experience was in 2008 when a guy I hooked up with before needed $15 to buy flowers for his mom for the Mother’s Day and let me have my way with him. Did you have guys tell you what they need money for besides “to pay bill”? Any memorable moments?

Hey guys, I was at Korean Sauna and Spa (https://jejusauna.com/) and it was a really great experience- I ordered full body wash/scrab with massage. It was truly amazing. Never felt so clean. anyone knows of Korean saunas in other cities?

https://rent.men/ThatsGossip Anyone tried this boy?

It looks like the guys who met Alam really like the experience. What specifically he did that made you love it so much? (Besides obvious)

I tried meeting guys who have profiles on SA after finding them on Grindr. Not sure if I met/chatted with enough guys, but here is an impression I formed. There are two ends of the spectrum. On one side, we have educated guys, driven, willing to work hard, articulate. These are guys I want to meet. Unfortunately, they don't usually want to see me. On the other side, we have junkies, flakes, guys who cannot hold a job for more than two weeks. Meeting them when happens is pretty problematic. And overall this is not the type of arrangement I want to step into. There are some in the middle that you can aim for. But not many.

The types of devices that apply vacuum would do the trick. Another way - working out and growing pecs would make skin thinner and increase sensitivity.

I find name calling like "bitch" or "slut" hot when it's used appropriately. Sometimes calling ass a pussy can be fun too. But "she" when referring to bottom is a turn off.

Anyone met? https://rentmen.eu/SERGEILEI

I would be precise and clarify your adjectives. If you have HIV and it's undetectable, it means that HIV is most likely untransmittable. This stupid statement and U=U movement does not mean what you will not get gonorrhea, chlamydia, or syphilis when you are in contact with with someone who is HIV-positive and undetectable. In fact, it is the opposite: https://academic.oup.com/cid/article/67/5/676/4917600

I see a lot of muscle guys advertising the abovementioned services online. Being from a different generation, I cannot see the economic feasibility of this type of activity. Can anyone share if they are a part of such arrangements and if you are how much you actually invest in it? I'd like to decouple this from muscle worship where you actually meet for something relatively asexual (well there is a spectrum). Much appreciated.

I have a question for you guys. Would if college president meets an 18 yo boy at MacDonald's for an encounter that can be sexual? Should he be removed then? Or not?

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Hey. I have a very specific request. I am looking for a muscle, smooth guy who would wear a bra and panties during the session. No makeup. Los Angeles. Bottom/sub is ideal. If you had experience with escorts who can accommodate this request, let me know. Any tips on how to discuss this would be appreciated. Thanks.

@Mocha. It's very very simple. There are hotter and younger escorts on the market. Clients contact you as a Plan B option when they try to book escorts that they want. If it works out with them, you are the one who is getting tossed. Also, another reason. That attitude that you display in your original post, may impact how you communicate with clients via texts. If a client senses it, they may chat with you for a while, but would not meet. The option with "pay to plan" may work with a couple of clients a year. If you are ok with this traffic, go for it.

Ok, I need advice. I met 19 yo guy thru seekingarrangements. We planned to discuss the details over coffee. So we chatted for about 10 min, and he spent the majority of the time texting with his friends. I ended up leaving and said that if he has time and wants to meet, let me know. I don't want to sound like an old fart and complain about *this generation*, but I would appreciate any advice on how to keep communication pleasant and productive.

I will be in San Diego in late August for work. It's also my birthday. I am looking to meet a local escort. Preference towards twinks/jocks, smooth, and more on a bottom side. Any recommendations are appreciated. Also, if you hired for birthdays, any ideas on how to make it special are welcome both from providers and clients.

Besides sitting down, drink, and talk what helps you for rapport building with a client or provider?