Sex at 50, how is or was your sex life at 50 y/o

[JamesMorris]

I feel I am slowing down with the intensity or getting I would say bored.

Hired many guys but lately I get aroused but not able to finish.

Kind of embarrassing but true

As always thanks for your input

[jjkrkwood]

 

[+ Lucky]

Possible answers:

I can't remember that far back!

About the same as it was at 49.

A hell of a lot better than it is now!

[+ sync]

Sadly, regrettably, tragically the aging human body not reacting/performing with the same proficiency that it did in its younger years is normal for most people.

[Guest]

I must confess, not quite as profuse as when I was in my 20s!

[+ Charlie]

Let's see: that was back before Internet ads, cell phones, gay websites, etc. According to my records, I hired ten times that year, but when I read the names now, the only ones that I can remember were a hot Israeli couple whom I hired twice, and a guy I hired accidentally because I had hired him a few years earlier but he had changed his name and address, so I didn't realize I was getting the same escort again (I hired only escorts who did in-calls). My elderly mother came to live with us that year, so I hired only on short visits to NYC, and mostly because it was possible rather than because I really cared about it. I was already rather bored with sex, but wanted to feel I was still in the game.

[cany10011]

I'm 52. BC (before covid), I hired 2-3 times a week. No problems with finishing off. Pretty fit, no conditions thankfully and looking forward to the pandemic ending so i can resume play and travel

[Merboy]

Well I've been watching The Golden Girls since I was a wee tot and I can tell you that if real life is like what's depicted on that show, then everyone over 50's getting plenty of sweet lovin!

[cany10011]

I feel I am slowing down with the intensity or getting I would say bored.

Hired many guys but lately I get aroused but not able to finish.

Kind of embarrassing but true

As always thanks for your input

 

 

Though I do agree to an extent about getting bored... sometimes during quarantine I have to watch videos now and i'm searching weird things like older younger or uncle son, or chubby guys... that really gets me off. In the past none of that would do it for me. My belami subscription is stagnant now... though in real life, those are the types i like to hire. So, yeah. I am getting bored to an extent. But IRL hiring, i do go for the nice and fit, good looking guys.

[Luv2play]

Fifty was a watershed year for me as I took an early retirement and suddenly was faced with an entirely new lifestyle with different opportunities which beckoned. One was spending the winter in Florida rather than cold wintery Canada. The other was indulging in more sex as I had more time.

 

After a few years,I decided I needed more structure in my life and strangely it involved among other things getting a dog again. My first dog had died shortly after my retirement. I also moved from Montreal a couple of years after getting the dog to a small town.

 

My sex life languished for a time as I pursued a number of new activities in the volunteer sector which I found very satisfying. Then I decided I needed to balance my life once again with adding escorts back into the routine agenda.

 

So, life is a journey and it takes many twists and turns, at least in my life. I always look forward to the next week, month and year and to what it may bring. I stay as healthy as possible so I can enjoy what I do, whatever and wherever.

[MscleLovr]

Interesting thread @JamesMorris. At 50, I was just out of a dull LTR of 15 years. I happened to be lean and fit, and financially well-established. Before I settled into a LTR, I’d been a serial monogamist.

 

So as a single man of 50, my sex life became turbo-charged. I explored the dating pool and as I travelled often, I hired several companions. As I like fit younger men, and discovered to my surprise that many like a fit older man, my sexual life became passionate and energetic.

 

As I look back at 50 now (and review the photos I took), I can say that for me it was a golden time.

[KrisParr]

So far, the 50s are the best. Enjoy the trip. Keeping fit physically and mentally are the keys. All the rest will fall into place.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Have you had bloodwork done to confirm your T-levels are right?

[+ nycman]

My sex life at 50 is better than it was at 30....and a million times better than it was at 20.

 

Once you’ve been to a thousand huge dinner parties and tried every dish at the buffet....you find a nice small perfect dinner at home is best.

[Guest]

“In my next life I want to live backwards. Start out dead and finish as an orgasm.” ~ Woody Allen

[+ harey]

I had similar issues a few years ago but felt much better after reducing stress, improving diet, and sleeping more. Maybe time for a check up? Take care.

[liubit]

My sex life in my 50s was simply GREAT. I was living in Prague...’nuff said.

Edited December 6, 2021 by liubit

[lonely_john]

I needed more structure in my life and strangely it involved among other things getting a dog again.

Could you please expand on this?

I've been thinking of getting a dog myself but I'm challenged with many doubts.

How does it change/structure your life?

What are the ups and downs?

[Kippy]

Getting a dog is one of best things I ever did. He orders the day, holds me accountable and forces me to play!

[+ WilliamM]

Getting a dog is one of best things I ever did. He orders the day, holds me accountable and forces me to play!

 

So does my beloved cat, Stella. Truly.

[Luv2play]

Could you please expand on this?

I've been thinking of getting a dog myself but I'm challenged with many doubts.

How does it change/structure your life?

What are the ups and downs?

I had had a dog the last 7 years I worked but my life already was structured by the demands of my career. Getting a new dog 8 years after I retired necessitated taking care of his requirements for exercise and more regularity to the routine of daily life.

 

I made it a practice, as I had with my earlier dog, of walking him in the morning, and then since I now had the time, again in the late afternoon. An evening walk also was fairly routine unless I was going out for the evening.

 

Dogs are not like having cats, which I have also had. They require attention every day and if you live alone you have to consider how they will fit into your routine. You may have to make adjustments to how you spend your days. I would never have a dog if it meant leaving him or her alone all day in the house or a backyard, isolated from people. They love to be around people.

[+ WilliamM]

My sex life was pretty good at 50 and after, not great but pretty good.

 

My great regret was not visiting Berlin until my late 50s. Even so, I hired men and one who looked like Boris Becker at a Berlin crowded gay bar.

 

Apologise for bragging a little

[lonely_john]

Responding to this thread:

I find my sex life right now in my 50s to be precarious because of this God-damned f*cking Wuhan virus.

But if I account for the last year before this pandemic started, I would say that it was not that bad at all.

Obviously, it pales against my drive and sexual industriousness from when I was in my 20s.

I think that being a bottom it's mostly my partner doing most of the job so that allows me to keep the joy despite my age.

[jjkrkwood]

[marylander1940]

Responding to this thread:

I find my sex life right now in my 50s to be precarious because of this God-damned f*cking Wuhan virus.

But if I account for the last year before this pandemic started, I would say that it was not that bad at all.

Obviously, it pales against my drive and sexual industriousness from when I was in my 20s.

I think that being a bottom it's mostly my partner doing most of the job so that allows me to keep the joy despite my age.

 

You're not alone but we're talking about 1 year of our lives, hopefully we'll be vaccinated by summer or 2022.

 

Compared to what other generations have suffered 15 months of social distancing in the era of internet, zoom, Netflix, delivery, etc. is not bad at all.

 

yes, tops do most of the job!