italianboyph

I think you should be upfront with what you like and don't like. Some clients like a natural smelling man scent, some like natural smell showered, and some want to be completely showered and deo. As far as hair same thing just let them know what you like, as a hairy guy myself those things have been said to me.

35 minutes ago, CuriousByNature said:

100% agree. I feel for both brothers and hope both are doing well.  

I'm doing well, thank you. 😃😃 None of this has anything to do with me, so I avoid it. Not to mention that this was couple MONTHS ago, and whatever happened should be stay there.  

I've had clients go to the wrong place countless times even with giving  directions and exact address. Also sometimes the gps can be a real bitch and just completely mess up.

I love tattoos. I love them on me and I love them on other men as well, it's just hot.  I think with tattoos, it's all about placement and where you put each one on your body. All my tattoos I have "14 and counting" all mean something to me whether theres a deep meaning or just for fun. I've always gotten compliments on being a hairy guy with tattoos. 

On 7/31/2023 at 2:16 PM, ericwinters said:

Clean cut guy working the hell out of leather pants... preppy leather guy. Is that even a thing?  😁🙄

You can have a preppy guy who may wear leather gear,  but I think once you take preppy clothes off and switch to leather they look isn't preppy.I wear leather all the time and leather can transform someone for sure.

On 7/31/2023 at 2:20 PM, arnemgreeves said:

A few spring to mind. 

I arranged with a person to meet at a stated time, and at their usual address. When I got there, I texted them to say I was in the vicinity, and they said they were "overbooked" and "a lot of people come in". OK, so there wasn't a text exchange where I didn't state the exact time to meet? go f yourself. Why even respond if you didn't want to meet?

I saw an escort who after payment, proceeded to preach to me about some spiritual nonsense. look, I paid you to fuck not get converted. leave me be and fuck off, and don't assume I'm that easily led. 

 

 

People like that know exactly what they're doing especially since you already gave a time for the booking. 

8 hours ago, Just966 said:

Yes I agree and just for the record after checking your profile love that sexy furry body of yours and great smile😊

Well thank you so much 🥰🥰

26 minutes ago, mike carey said:

I'm sorry this has happened to you. You're upfront and a great guy. My ass, your dick works for me.

Thank you.  Unfortunately it happens  

You want someone who's actually into leather? Or just clean cut guy wearing leather type pants?

I'd never screw someone over like that, especially since clients do it often to me. I've gone to homes and they don't answer the phone,  sat in hotels lobbies and was giving wrong room numbers with no answer, not paid several times. I think if and this goes for both providers and clients, if you're not serious and looking to screw people over then you shouldn't bother.

I participate as much as I can

On 7/26/2023 at 12:04 AM, Trick said:

@Furry_wolf, what can you say about this?

@italianboyph, know anything about this?

Listen 

I do not know this man, nor do I have to the time or energy to brought into some childish drama that I have nothing to do with. The guy calling him "mentally unstable", the name calling, because of a bad interaction doesn't seem to be helping the situation anymore either. 

On 7/17/2023 at 1:38 PM, Archangel said:

I almost exclusively schedule multiple-day BFEs. Given my work, it requires me to take time off and requires planning. I prefer scheduling several months out with guys. Sometimes this means I have to fly guys in because local guys aren’t interested in scheduling.

How many do multiple-day BFEs?

How many schedule months ahead?

Providers: what do you see as both the upside and downside to such an approach, for you and for us scheduling types? 

I always prefer planning and scheduling in advance     

A lot of the things you're taking about should always be discussed with the person you're looking to hire. As far as Prep, again that's another thing you should always ask even though a good  percentage of gay men are on Prep. Remember to always protect yourself, I'm on Prep and would encourage everyone to look into it. If it's not for you then that's okay as well. 

2 minutes ago, José Soplanucas said:

I did not men to report them. If you report them, nothing may happen and only the admins would learn about your report. 

IMO, you should share who they are publicly. 

Oh you ment on the forum?

57 minutes ago, José Soplanucas said:

You should share who they are publicly. Not to get them banned, I am against banning forum members, but for all of us to know who are the POS among us. 

And if they continue harassing you, just block them.

Oh I've reported them same goes for the ones who don't pay after the session and say they'll run to the atm.

10 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

That is so messed up. Every client has different tastes. A single provider can’t be everything to everyone, so it makes no sense to change oneself to fit one client preference for one session. Those types are real jerks.

I get these types of harassing messages too. The latest one (today) told me I shouldn’t be doing this in my 30s and that I must have been bad at my other career because only “desperate” people are in this line of work. He proceeded to insult me in other ways and put me down while simultaneously trying to convince me to service his needs. So. Gross. I had to block him.

The other day, a client said in person as we were wrapping up a session, “no offense, but you’re a regular looking guy….”, and proceeded with some stories about other providers he considered a lot more attractive who were lousy hires. I know I am not the most attractive provider on RentMen, no delusions about that, but trying to be the most “beautiful” is not my schtick anyhow. I think he meant it as a compliment because he was saying he would rather be with someone like me because of how I am as a person. Just a really weird thing to say in so many paraphrased words, “I find you less attractive and I think you’re less in demand, but I like you better anyway.”

I say be yourself, groom yourself according to your own brand, style, and look and how you want to be seen. Embrace your body as it is. Work out and control diet if you want to present a certain look. Or don’t if you don’t want to. The right people will book you for simply being you. Those tend to be the best clients.

Crazy part about the one dude who kept contacting me is that he also kept calling my phone at random times even at 4am. He didn't realize that RM tells us who clicks your phone number. 

10 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

That is so messed up. Every client has different tastes. A single provider can’t be everything to everyone, so it makes no sense to change oneself to fit one client preference for one session. Those types are real jerks.

I get these types of harassing messages too. The latest one (today) told me I shouldn’t be doing this in my 30s and that I must have been bad at my other career because only “desperate” people are in this line of work. He proceeded to insult me in other ways and put me down while simultaneously trying to convince me to service his needs. So. Gross. I had to block him.

The other day, a client said in person as we were wrapping up a session, “no offense, but you’re a regular looking guy….”, and proceeded with some stories about other providers he considered a lot more attractive who were lousy hires. I know I am not the most attractive provider on RentMen, no delusions about that, but trying to be the most “beautiful” is not my schtick anyhow. I think he meant it as a compliment because he was saying he would rather be with someone like me because of how I am as a person. Just a really weird thing to say in so many paraphrased words, “I find you less attractive and I think you’re less in demand, but I like you better anyway.”

I say be yourself, groom yourself according to your own brand, style, and look and how you want to be seen. Embrace your body as it is. Work out and control diet if you want to present a certain look. Or don’t if you don’t want to. The right people will book you for simply being you. Those tend to be the best clients.

People are nasty and project all their insecurities behind a faceless profile all the time. It's funny cause if im not the dudes type, yet he went out of his way to contact me to let me know. I don't care either way. 

7 hours ago, Archangel said:

Positively or negatively. Just curious. 

Both. I've had random guys who are "clients" not of mine, but on the site. They've messaged me to call me fat, shave my body hair/facial hair. Told me to do all these things and I would probably get hired more. One guy even harassed me over and over to tell me I'd experience real man sex if a shaved my beard. Nasty af

5 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

You are a very hot bear. I love your porno movies specially when you are with a twink or a jock to show contrast! 

I don't do porn. But thank you lol

Just be upfront and open with what you're looking for and make sure you tell the provider everything. It's also okay to be nervous at first, as a lot of clients have been in your same shoes. 🥰

On 6/20/2023 at 10:49 PM, Archangel said:

Many. 

Well that's their loss. Trust me I've had my fair shares of comment about being beefy and hairy, even from randoms on RM

On 6/10/2023 at 5:28 PM, Whatsupandstuff said:

Hi guys. are there any escorts who prefer bigger bearish men? would love to hear from providers 

Who doesn't love a bear? 🐻🐻😘😘

This has happen to me a couple times and I've reported their profiles, some people just like the games

I think it would just depend on what you're looking for and the initial interaction with the provider. Start with an hour and then go from there if you're enjoying yourself. I've had clients book an hour and then ask to extend to 2 hours.