Jamie21

Too much hassle to prep every time! I don’t bother doing it with regular clients who I know are bottom. Plus the majority of my clients are bottom because I’m hung and that attracts the bottoms😂. So I basically assume they’re not interested in my hole unless they say or imply otherwise when booking.

Yes, although clients who definitely want me to cum usually ask for that when booking, so I know and can make sure it happens for them. I avoid booking more than 3 a day so if they all want me to cum then it’s possible but tbh mostly I try to avoid it. Once the client has shot his load he’s not much interested in me doing so!!!

Yay!! That’s my site 🙂

Are you saying I’m old??? …..you’re correct, although I call it ‘experienced’ and my clients call it ‘daddy’ 😂😂😂

Risky, but if you definitely want to know you’ll find out this way. Be prepared to be disappointed though! It’s not binary between ‘he’s a great actor and is doing it for the money’ or ‘he really is into me and will give it all up and come and marry me’. Anyone decent at this work will be able to make their clients feel fabulous / desired / sexy / attractive etc for the duration of their session. I can find that in anyone (ok, almost anyone 😬…I can recall one or two who got through the screening…). I’m not ‘acting’, I’m not doing it only for the money although that is a factor. If one did it only for the money one would very quickly burn out in the work. But I’m also not thinking ‘I want to marry him and run off into the sunset’ even if there’s strong chemistry, the sex is amazing and we get on. It’s just that one is able to compartmentalise it and treat it as a job. That’s quite difficult to understand if you haven’t done the job, but nevertheless important to understand if you become infatuated with a provider. I’d say best to not put him on the spot. If he has decided he wants to start a relationship then he will tell you. That way you’ll definitely know it’s real. Effectively he’s resigning from his job if he does that.

Provider (of sexual services). The words in brackets are implied. I think the obfuscation is clearly because of the legal position of sexual services in the US. Here in the UK it’s legal to provide sexual services, and of course it’s a much less puritanical society. The phrase most commonly used here, and which I use to describe myself is ‘sex worker’.

I’ve had exactly the same thing happen to me. I try to be a professional in this industry (it’s not easy). I keep my commitments, am always in a fit state to see clients (never drink, never do drugs), I provide more than I advertise (always aim to exceed expectations). I never ask clients for pictures or discriminate on their looks or age or anything. If I’m unwell I’ll cancel and offer the client an alternative. I had a client tell me I was cancelling because they weren’t fit enough when the reason was I was unwell. He simply didn’t believe me. I couldn’t even challenge him on it because he blocked me as soon as he’d sent me his ‘poor me it always happens to me…you guys are all the same’ message. If that’s his view of things then everything that happens to him will be seen through that lens. It simply reinforces his mistaken world view. I think these guys have personal issues to overcome before they’re ready to come for a massage. It’s a problem avoided for me. I’m glad he revealed what he’s like. You did the right thing. You can’t please everyone. Consider it a bullet dodged. Work with people who aren’t full of self pity.

I think straight men are more scared / censorious of same sex activity than straight women are. Women seem much more open minded to same sex activity whether that’s guy on guy or girl on girl. I’ve done live sex shows (me and another guy fucking) and most of the audience was women, of all sexualities. They loved watching two guys go at it. The ‘straight’ men in the audience were more anxious about it (probably because they were turned on but didn’t want to acknowledge that because that might make them gay 😂). The women just enjoyed it.

Might be. Red flags tend to come in groups: incredible pics, low rates, requests for deposit, request for extra money for an Uber etc. Do an image search on his pics… he could be ‘borrowing’ them. That’ll reassure you that they’re probably genuinely him. Then beware of other red flags cropping up once he’s drawn you in.

I tell clients that they’re welcome to touch me as much or as little as they like. Some like to touch, some prefer to just receive touch, it doesn’t matter to me. The most difficult clients are those who are grabby and have no sense of how to touch. Fortunately they are very rare. I think most clients like to feel my cock brush against them during the massage. I do let it land in their hands as I stand at the side lol. I saw a client a couple of days ago who wanted to wank me off and shoot on his chest as I kneeled astride him on the table. It’s the visuals that he liked. Some clients like to test out my hole too although it can be difficult if I’ve not been expecting them to be interested in that. If I know beforehand they’re likely to go there I’ll prep and lube it up.

I’ve been working as a masseur for 7 years. Best job I ever did.

I did an 8 hands one time. It was hardly a massage. It was more like an orgy. I wouldn’t call it a massage.

I give them regularly. I only give them with other providers who I know because a lot rests on the skill of the providers. Here’s some tips if you’re thinking of a 4 hands: It’s not like a 2 hands but with 4 hands. It’s a less relaxing style of massage. More is going on so the client will probably find it difficult to fully relax like they would in a 2 hands. Often, 60 minutes is enough because 4 hands progresses fairly quickly. The 2 masseurs need to be similar in style and philosophy. It will feel strange if one masseur is mostly firm and the other uses lighter touch. If you want the masseurs to interact with each other as well as you then ask them beforehand. Make sure they’re comfortable working with each other.

I love it!!! Sit on my face. 🤪

@mike careyhas sensible advice. The red flags (well covered elsewhere on here) are what you should look out for when hiring; the location is very much secondary, if it matters at all.

Here is your answer. 100%.

If I have clients who are worried about this I suggest they book a 2 hour session and we start with a ‘happy beginning’. I suck them off or something in the first 15 minutes then they can relax into enjoying the massage and I’ll build the sensual aspects again so he can have a happy ending too. It’s a good way to enable the client to completely relax for the massage.

When I first read that I thought ‘ well of course..that’s the whole idea’ and then I realised you meant the ride to the venue.

It’s like wearing loose fit jeans rather than skinny jeans. Yes they fill the inside with hormones that make you want to buy them dinner, new clothes and undertake DIY tasks. Best to stick to using the ass.

Fortunately not. Also her husband’s cock was in my mouth for part of the time so I couldn’t speak.

Let me peer review your study @Lucky. I’m bi and hung so I feel qualified to add an opinion. I was fucking a clients pussy recently (while her husband watched - which isn’t relevant to the study but I thought I’d add it for context) and I began thinking mid fuck that indeed her pussy was a lot looser than the tight holes of guys I’d fucked recently. It was more reminiscent of the kind of hole on a sub bottom who’s taken a few large cocks already. At the time I was thinking ‘this isn’t going to get me off’ which was fine because she didn’t want me to shoot inside. Afterwards I reflected that whilst some holes are too tight and some too loose there’s a ‘Goldilocks’ zone where the hole is just right.

Around £150 for an hour sensual massage is about par for London. I suspect the £90 rate was for therapeutic massage with no HE? You should expect to pay at least £120 for an hour sensual massage in London. Anything less and it’s likely he’s not any good; no table, uses baby oil, rub and tug technique. That kind of thing.

It’s where you go out but he takes ages to get ready, he disagrees with you on the type of restaurant, flirts with the waiter, spends a lot of time on his phone, doesn’t notice that you’re wearing a new top (or comment on it) and then gets drunk at the club, sucks off one of your friends in the toilets and then disappears for 3 hours with one of the go go dancers. Later that evening at home in bed he tries to fuck you but falls asleep part way through. Next morning he denies everything and kisses you so tenderly you end up having sex on the kitchen table. Oh wait no….you mean you’re hiring a bf experience? That can mean anything you like (the above if it’s your thing) or something like that except a little more attentive and giving. I did one recently for a client where they wanted to meet for drinks in the bar of their hotel, we flirt, kiss etc then go to their room, bath together with more drinks (I had the tap end) then a massage and play on the bed. It could also involve going out to a club or restaurant, basically you decide what you’d like. He will plan it and deliver.

I can’t comment on the rate because I work in a different market. I’d recommend avoiding trying to negotiate the rate. I don’t like clients trying to negotiate me down tbh. As for filming I’m ok with clients asking to film a small part of their session but I’m not ok to film the whole session because it’s too much of a distraction. You could ask him and see. It wouldn’t offend.

Good luck. Experienced guys will guide you.