Jamie21

Go ahead with it and tell him your preparation hasn’t been fully successful. Most guys won’t mind and will have all sorts of other things you can do together that are fun if you really don’t feel comfortable to bottom. Decent providers will understand and may be ok to proceed with caution so that you can bottom anyway. Or at least you could ask him to go in and stay in until he (or you) finishes. That’s usually ok. I find it’s more difficult to keep changing positions and stop and start when the issues with mess can be a problem. If you stay in to the end it’s fine. I’ve seen clients who tell me they might not be ready and I say to them ‘I’m ok to try if you want to’. Let’s be clear; anyone who’s experienced at gay sex will have come across accidents sometimes. It’s an occupational hazard. I just clean up and carry on usually if he wants to, otherwise we do other stuff. No big deal. No one should make you feel bad if you’re not totally clean.

I had a client keep me in a separate room (in a two bedroom apartment in the hotel) on a vacation trip one time! It was fine, he’d visit my room when he wanted to play. He said he slept better alone and he snored so he didn’t want to keep me awake unless it was for fun. Very considerate.

I agree. I’m talking about the guys who object to rates without trying the service.

Reading this thread makes me wonder what is the expectation of some guys 🙄. Escorts can charge whatever they like. Whatever they feel they’re worth. Everyone has their own rate they will require to do the job and I have no problem with them doing that. No one is being forced to pay it. I say to those who don’t like the rates: ‘don’t shop there then, he’s clearly out of your price range’. You’ll find guys at your price point and you can see what they’re like. If a guy wants to charge $500 or more that’s entirely his call. He will probably have set it to manage the amount of business he wants to do. Entirely up to him. Of course you can have an opinion about what you’re prepared to pay but don’t complain about the quality of services you get at that price. Alternatively if you think you can do a better job at the rate you’re prepared to pay go ahead and set yourself up. Then you might be able to comment with some justification.

What’s 2026 like @mike carey? Shall we join you?

Yep, the ! is a clue

I was being light hearted with the ‘I couldn’t get hard for all of them’ comment.

It’s normal. It doesn’t just happen to you @JB_Studio38. If all my enquiries came off I’d be richer too. <50% of my enquiries result in a booking, usually because the client just goes quiet (I never chase them, if they really want to book they will do so, I’m not interested in indifferent clients), or the timing doesn’t work or I’m too expensive or in the wrong place, or they just get scared of booking. Plus there’s timewasters who are only interested in the chat. It’s all just part of the industry, and my modus operandi caters for all of that. And to keep it on theme, if they all booked I wouldn’t be able to get hard for all of them anyway!

Try RentMen. Ask for what you want, don’t be coy. Usually you pay afterwards. The duration depends on your budget, but beware, if you book 3 or 4 hours and for some reason you find you don’t find him compatible after half an hour and want to curtail it he will expect full payment. Best to book someone for an hour, see what he’s like and then book a longer session next time. It’s highly likely that you’re going to have some trial and error with this. There’s no such thing as a ‘sure thing’. Don’t go into it with that expectation.

I agree that natural light looks great but you need to be careful of the light changing if you’re filming for any decent length of time. The sun might be providing great light through windows at the start but it can get cloudy or the light changing can make the edit difficult. I always make sure if using natural light that it won’t change during the shoot. It’s simpler to use lighting and adjust the tone with a colour light.

Merry Christmas to all. I was a naughty boy this year and Santa is delivering me what naughty boys get…so that plan worked out well.

It’s a lot of work!! My films are edited by a professional editor who uses Adobe PremierePro for editing. The best camera for filming is a i phone tbh, especially the latest ones. Most of the guys I collab with use i phones. I also use a go pro for getting unusual angles. You’ll need tripods, lights (ring light) and plenty of memory storage to keep all the content.

My preference is weekday mornings. But I’m available most times if someone can give decent notice. I’ll rarely accept bookings for ‘now or the next couple of hours’ because it’s just not practical for me. Nor will I take last minute late night bookings, those guys tend to be bad clients.

21 at heart @PhileasFogg…

If they’re paying they can call me whatever they like. Lots of young guys like to hire older experienced guys who know what they’re doing. I work that market: ‘Let daddy massage you boy’. 🤪

Subscribe to his sites then 🙂! I know Nick, he’s a great guy. When he visits London he borrows my massage table for his films. I filmed a nice 4 hands with him which you can see on my OF and JFF -link in my bio😉 (and it’s on Nick’s one too!).

I think people do, because whilst there’s lower risk of catching HIV from oral sex than anal sex the risk isn’t zero, so if you want reassurance then it makes sense to be on prep if you’re having sex with different partners where you don’t know their HIV status. If I were you I’d ask questions at the sexual health clinic. They’ll advise you on the risks and choices.

The fact that many providers are on prep shouldn’t be a consideration for you. They’re on prep to protect themselves. Also, even if they say they’re on prep you shouldn’t necessarily believe them. If you want to reduce risk to yourself you should go on prep and use a condom. Get yourself tested regularly, take doxy prep too. Research these things or ask at your sexual health clinic. Professional providers have a strong interest in keeping themselves free of any infections. I get regularly tested, I’m on prep, I have vaccinations against things like hepatitis etc. I ask questions at my sexual health clinic (which is fantastic by the way). I’d say that having sex with a provider is less risky than a casual partner who probably doesn’t get regular tests or take much interest in his sexual health until something goes wrong. You should be sensible, understand the risks, take precautions but above all go for it and enjoy yourself. Overly focusing on risks prevents you from discovering so many opportunities.

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I send nude pics if a client asks. There’s lots of nudes on my website too. But I don’t include my face. If this guy is selling a sexual service (which a sensual massage is because often the masseur is naked and will allow touch) then I think he ought to provide pictures of himself naked. They don’t need to show him hard or include his face, just a nice naked picture because effectively his body is part of the service with a sensual massage. His reticence may be due to him being new, or perhaps because he’s aware there’s a lot of ‘picture collectors’ who have no intention of booking. They waste your time by asking for ever more explicit pictures.

Don’t mention this in the ‘law enforcement’ thread!!! 😱

Tell me you’re from England without telling me you’re from England: Starting a sentence with ‘mind you…’ 😂. That’s so English. My dear old thing you are quite correct, it’s perfectly legal to sell or buy sex here, within certain parameters - for example it’s not legal to do so from the street or in a brothel but then neither of those are my cup of tea…I prefer to work independently in a more salubrious environment for discerning gentlemen of good character.

The endless debate about rates 🙄. “I won’t pay more than x”….”he’s asking too much” etc. If a guy wants to work at a rate of $500 per hour that’s entirely his prerogative. You don’t have to pay it, no one is forcing you. Just move on to someone who’s charging what you’re prepared to pay. His price is his estimation of his worth, not yours.

I guess the provider could have got himself delivered by Amazon.

He should have told you it would be a requirement. But the reason he’s doing it is because it means you’re not a time waster. I’ve done out calls where the client is all keen and seems legitimate but when you arrive he goes silent and you don’t have the correct address (or it’s incomplete). You’re left with no booking, you’ve travelled and wasted your time. Now I’m much more careful with out calls. I never bother with the Uber request (because I prefer to be in charge of the travel) but I will ask for a deposit if he seems flaky and I’ll use google maps to research the location (and do other checks). I’ll include the cost of travel in my overall rate. Clients don’t like surprise extra charges, and I agree with them. It’s unprofessional to throw in extra charges late in the day.