Rudynate

There are holy days that are feast days and holy days that are fast days. 

There are holy days that are feast days and holy days that are fast days. 

I have noticed that you can be disappointed when you hire for sensual or erotic, I always hire for therapeutic, which often morphs into sensual or erotic.  If it doesn't it's OK because therapeutic is what I hired for, after all.

He's a charming guy and provides a great experience.   I last saw him about 4 years ago, maybe a year before the pandemic. The age-shaving is problematic, yes, but my attitude. when I first saw him was "Ok, I'm not stupid, he's been the same age for at least a decade."   What I was expecting was a guy in his late 40s to mid-50's and that is exactly what I got - very handsome, smart, engaging and great in the sack.  

Is it that difficult?   If you cover what, when, where and who in your first communication, you have pretty much established that you aren't a timewaster. 

Is it that difficult?   If you cover what, when, where and who in your first communication, you have pretty much established that you aren't a timewaster. 

Of course it is   - it's an important historical work.  I was at Randy Shilts's memorial at Glide Memorial Church in San Francisco.  A bunch of hateful Christians flew in from Kansas to try to disrupt things and the SFPD surrounded them with a blockade so that they couldn't interfere. 

I just finished Quantum Supremacy, by Michio Kaku.  Great introduction to quantum computing for a general readership.  Techies would find it pretty lightweight.

I didn't think mean drill sergeants even existed anymore.  When I was in the Army (in the 70s), I was surprised at how "not mean" our drill sergeant and the cadre sergeants were.  I admired them actually - they were all really snappy black men who had all done at least one tour in Viet Nam.

Why would any one think of doing that?   Boundaries, Boundaries.  Even if it's somebody I know very well, we don't talk about each other's money.  Truthfully, I'm not even that curious about how much any of my friends make.   Why would it be any different with a provider?  Are those boundaries somehow suspended in the case of a  provider.  Moneywise, the only thing I need to know from him is how much he's going to cost me.

Is it that difficult?   If you cover what, when, where and who in your first communication, you have pretty much established that you aren't a timewaster. 

You do you, as they say.   You might find, as you age, that you will need to find a new version of you to do. 

I'm not into the taste that much- the charge for me is swallowing a load of a sexy guy's sperm.  

I'm not into the taste that much- the charge for me is swallowing a load of a sexy guy's sperm.  

I'm not into the taste that much- the charge for me is swallowing a load of a sexy guy's sperm.  

You do you, as they say.   You might find, as you age, that you will need to find a new version of you to do. 

Buffets are a waste for me - I don't have much desire to overeat.  One time, I was doing a contest prep and went out to eat with family.  I ordered salmon and asked for the sauce on the side.  They brought the meal and the salmon had sauce on it.  I asked to have them redo it as I had asked for it.  When theyt brought it the second time, everything was split up into little side dishes - way beyond what I had asked for - I thought they went way above and beyond, and I let them know how much I appreciated it. 

We haven't had a Christmas tree for years.  This year we got a small tabletop tree at Whole Foods for a party for our niece's little daughter - not quit 2 yo.  I fixed piles of tea sandwiches = and there were 8 of us there.  It was really a lot of fun. The little girl's mom miscalculated on the girl's party dress - It was a red thing that looked positively whorish. - The photos are funny -a pretty little blonde girl in A BRIGHT RED  party dress.

I feel like it was a bad move on his part. I understand that some men want to capitalize their opportunities, but it would have been a good idea for him to let you know that in advance as you obviously know what his RM profile is.

I like kinky sex, but BDSM generallly isn't my thing.  I do have a sub FB though who likes to serve me and be pushed around, and I really like it.  Subs talk about going into sub space, but I think there is a dom space too.   As soon as I walk through the door at his place, I acquire an attitude of complete entitlement, and it feels real, not play acting.   He only sits in my presence if I give him permission to, brings me an endless stream of nice little snacks and treats and stands and watches while I eat them, he likes to get flogged, endlessly fucked, be adressed as "boy," etc.  We've been doing it for years.  He says that that's the way I actually am and that I'm comfortable being the man I actually am when I'm around him. 

I would have cancelled.   Even though on short notice, even though he may not have believed you, it would have eliminated any risk to him that he would catch whatever you had.  

I would have cancelled.   Even though on short notice, even though he may not have believed you, it would have eliminated any risk to him that he would catch whatever you had.  

Right-and those of us who’ve been through a few off those cycles know that the city will always come back.  The San Francisco Center is going to be a challenge-the owner walked away from a $750 million mortgage a few months ago.  The city is trying to figure out a way to repurpose the property

Why would any one think of doing that?   Boundaries, Boundaries.  Even if it's somebody I know very well, we don't talk about each other's money.  Truthfully, I'm not even that curious about how much any of my friends make.   Why would it be any different with a provider?  Are those boundaries somehow suspended in the case of a  provider.  Moneywise, the only thing I need to know from him is how much he's going to cost me.

One likes to think so.