Mind control

[Kurtkri]

I have a somewhat exotic fantasy  I love to be controlled both physically and mentally. Infact the mental control element excites me even more than physical BDSM part. Like a man asking me to iron his shirt and yelling at me if it’s not done properly  Or making me watch what he wants on TV  These are stupid simple ones but you get the idea.. 

 

Is there an escort who does this well?

[+ Pensant]

There’s nothing odd about that. While I don’t have any recommendations, I’m sure you’ll find a few guys more than willing.

[ICTJOCK]

I had talked about a client in my thread on "sub service"   who enjoys using a "spiral"  with some of those he is involved.    I've never seen a spiral,  but has certainly discussed it with me.   I'm interested in having a recurring client,   it doesn't bother me that he's a DOM and I'm simply in a role,  but I won't be coaxed into being a Sub for him  beyond escort work.

[56harrisond]

2 hours ago, Kurtkri said:

I love to be controlled both physically and mentally. Like a man asking me to iron his shirt and yelling at me if it’s not done properly

The real BFE

[Guest]

2 hours ago, Kurtkri said:

I have a somewhat exotic fantasy  I love to be controlled both physically and mentally. Infact the mental control element excites me even more than physical BDSM part. Like a man asking me to iron his shirt and yelling at me if it’s not done properly  Or making me watch what he wants on TV  These are stupid simple ones but you get the idea.. 

 

Is there an escort who does this well?

There's absolutely NOTHING silly or "stupid" about what turns you on.... I entered the biz via a website that SPECIALIZED in exactly what you are into.... muscleworship.com was first and foremost about the MUSCLE, about verbal domination and mind control and less to do with my dick. I have seen LOADS of people over the years who love exactly what you're speaking of... heavy hitters who want to relinquish all power for an hour or two.. ( I get it and totally understand  ) a paradigm shift of sorts. I won't go into the details about what exactly would take place but it's not what most would expect from said individuals. It can be A LOT fun getting into character and also rewarding in more ways than one... to see someone enjoying and taking their pleasure(s) seriously.

Don't ever feel silly, again, loads and loads of people love what you're into and you're absolutely not alone 😉

[Kurtkri]

Thank you @Vin_Marco for validating my feellings. Seems like I should definitely come see you

[Guest]

Just now, Kurtkri said:

Thank you @Vin_Marco for validating my feellings. Seems like I should definitely come see you

You are quite welcome. If you ever find yourself in Southern California, don't hesitate to reach out to me. I'm in Los Angeles, Palm Springs and San Diego all the time, I just don't advertise those visits. 🫂 💪🏽

[Jamie21]

9 hours ago, Kurtkri said:

I have a somewhat exotic fantasy  I love to be controlled both physically and mentally. Infact the mental control element excites me even more than physical BDSM part. Like a man asking me to iron his shirt and yelling at me if it’s not done properly  Or making me watch what he wants on TV  These are stupid simple ones but you get the idea.. 

 

Is there an escort who does this well?

When you see a good sex worker they are always controlling you mentally. Despite what some guys say about the size of their cock the brain is the biggest sex organ. The more you understand what’s going on in a client’s mind the better your service.

Your requirements are similar to anyone else’s requirements, they just differ in context, and you are being more explicit about articulating them. 

Now, get back to the ironing. I want creases down the sleeve of my shirt. I’ll tell you when I’m satisfied with it…
 

[SirBillybob]

5 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

When you see a good sex worker they are always controlling you mentally…. Now, get back to the ironing. I want creases down the sleeve of my shirt. I’ll tell you when I’m satisfied with it…
 

Oops, gonna have to wash it again.

[soloyo215]

That's actually quite common in the hetero BDSM world. That's a bulk of what many dominatrices do. I know of men who pay the dominatrix to be bossed around while he cleans her apartment, with both mental and physical punishment along the entire event.

I'm sure there's the all-men equivalent to that. I think there might be service providers willing to accommodate, the discussion should be about how far they can go with it. I mean, you don't want them to expect you to build a septic tank for them, I imagine.

[Guest]

23 minutes ago, soloyo215 said:

That's actually quite common in the hetero BDSM world. That's a bulk of what many dominatrices do. I know of men who pay the dominatrix to be bossed around while he cleans her apartment, with both mental and physical punishment along the entire event.

I'm sure there's the all-men equivalent to that. I think there might be service providers willing to accommodate, the discussion should be about how far they can go with it. I mean, you don't want them to expect you to build a septic tank for them, I imagine.

Add using someone as a foot rest, applying a dog collar, ignoring someone, having your socks ironed... the list is long and extensive. Who's to say what's weird as long as it's between consenting adults and nobody is being physically harmed.... people like what they like and the fact that there's a wide variety of likes and turn on's, makes it all the better.

*That's what a good provider does, allows people to live out their fantasies without judgment. 

🙂

Edited September 23, 2023 by Vin_Marco

[Rudynate]

1 hour ago, soloyo215 said:

That's actually quite common in the hetero BDSM world. That's a bulk of what many dominatrices do. I know of men who pay the dominatrix to be bossed around while he cleans her apartment, with both mental and physical punishment along the entire event.

I'm sure there's the all-men equivalent to that. I think there might be service providers willing to accommodate, the discussion should be about how far they can go with it. I mean, you don't want them to expect you to build a septic tank for them, I imagine.

I like kinky sex, but BDSM generallly isn't my thing.  I do have a sub FB though who likes to serve me and be pushed around, and I really like it.  Subs talk about going into sub space, but I think there is a dom space too.   As soon as I walk through the door at his place, I acquire an attitude of complete entitlement, and it feels real, not play acting.   He only sits in my presence if I give him permission to, brings me an endless stream of nice little snacks and treats and stands and watches while I eat them, he likes to get flogged, endlessly fucked, be adressed as "boy," etc.  We've been doing it for years.  He says that that's the way I actually am and that I'm comfortable being the man I actually am when I'm around him. 

Edited September 23, 2023 by Rudynate
correction

[+ nycman]

14 minutes ago, Rudynate said:

He says that that's the way I actually am and that I'm comfortable being the man I actually am when I'm around him.

And in reality, you’re just there for the snacks.

You sick twisted fuck!

grin

[Simon Suraci]

Once in a while I have clients requesting dom/sub play with many of the elements discussed above, or similar ones. Most of those types want to get into sub space. I get into a dom space for them.

It’s normal. Consenting adults enjoying what they love is a beautiful thing. If I can make part of my living from fulfilling a role for someone, all the better!

[Bokomaru]

True story

I was in the early stages of dating a sub guy and as we lay in bed he mentioned that he got in trouble for being late to work that morning. “It’s your fault, I didn’t want to leave you this morning,” he said.  I asked if his clothes were prepared for tomorrow morning. He said no. So I made him drag his ass out of bed and iron his clothes for the morning. 
 

He was rock hard the entire time. Ah, young love….
 

We’re still together. I haven’t done my own laundry once in the last two decades.