BenjaminNicholas

On 4/7/2024 at 3:21 PM, Ali Gator said:

I think he's adorable. If he was a 'provider' he'd be making a lot of money from eldergays - they would love to spend an hour with him, getting a massage and more. He could make some serious money. 

You don't make serous money working an hour at a time. 

He's too immature to attract the big fish.

You don't take the bartender to the table. You fuck him at the bar and find suitable company for the dinner crowd. 

3 minutes ago, TonyDown said:

Is the ice bath recommended?

Seems like maybe not a good idea for a lot of people.

Cold therapy is very beneficial.

Google it.  The research is there.

2 minutes ago, foxy said:

Yes. 

Wow.  That must have cost Here Lies Love a small fortune to have to put everything back to the way it was.

Sad it didn't run longer.

12 minutes ago, Monarchy79 said:

You need to write a book. 

I was approached years ago by a small, but well-known publishing house in NYC.  I was asked to write a sample chapter for them to look at.

They didn't like how I blurred the more juicy details.  They clearly wanted a tell-all (or something like one).

I said I'd be more interested in writing it as fiction.  Alluding to, but not directly pointing things out.

I tried to frame it as good for them to avoid lawsuits.  They didn't budge.

That was the end of me ever wanting to write a book.

Is The Broadway fully back to a traditional proscenium stage?

He doesn't have nearly enough engagement to warrant affording that unit.  Even with roomies.

Someone is likely having mommy & daddy as guarantors.  

I wouldn't consider renting a small apartment as 'living the dream,' but perhaps I'm old and have seen too much to know better.

I've never been stiffed on my rate for time, but was once taken for a rather large hotel bill.

Client was a solid guy for 15+ years.  He was visiting NYC.  Suite at the Carlyle.  His card was giving him issues, so I graciously put down a cc and he agreed to make sure I was paid back.  I didn't think there'd be an issue.

There was an issue.  A $24k issue.

Moral of story:  Don't confuse being gracious and being stupid. 

I ended up getting my money back. 

From what I was told, he eventually ended up dead, pulling this same bullshit on people who weren't so understanding of his con.

44 minutes ago, Rod Hagen said:

AND now, I predict that since this thread has gotten out of the hands of the clients, the powers that be will soon call it OFF topic (ostensibly because of the word "escort" in a MASSAGE thread) and lock it down.

I'm here for this brand of low-key shade and blatant truth.

Don't forget about the incredible Christmas party that RM throws for their premium members.

There is no average in this industry...  There never has been.  It's the nature of a fringe business.

The limited amount of escorts who post here aren't nearly enough to make for a proper average.

Email who you fancy.  The escort will tell you what his weekend rate is.  You can confirm or deny it.

You can ask, but don't be shocked if the experience is affected.

It's why I never continue a conversation when someone begins negotiation.  I thank them and move forward.

If you get your price, that's great, but it always going to be the elephant in the room with any escort with decent business sense.

Y'all shit on Queens, but it's like you've never visited Forest Hills.

The Gardens are beautiful, safe, walkable and with massive, well-appointed homes.  

I won't say I love all of Queens, but the places I tend to tread, I truly enjoy.

2 hours ago, Ali Gator said:

What's keeping me away is the price of hotels and tickets to the show - everything is still out of whack. 

That's not going to change anytime soon.  There's no longer a shoulder/off-season in NYC.

Broadway ticket prices aren't going down either.  TDF, TKTS, digital lotteries, etc, are all the way to go for discounts.

8 hours ago, DWnyc said:

Well the best providers will go to considerable lengths to ensure the client had the experience he craves … 

On 3/30/2024 at 7:41 PM, Charlie said:

Wow! I guess the days when I could get an in-call at a call-boy agency in Manhattan for $60 are gone for good.

When you look outside your window, do you still see Al Jolson dancing the charleston atop a flagpole?

This reminds me of the difference between kinky and perverted

Kinky is using a feather.

Perverted is using the whole chicken.

13 hours ago, Ali Gator said:

I can't believe guys are investing nearly $11K for this. Is it an 'ego' thing, or is for performance ? 

It's not for performance.

Cocks injected with filler are soft around the edges and never get fully hard because of it.  It's basically just for looks.

As for putting tox anywhere near your dick, that's so far from off-label usage, I'd be wary.

I'll say this, I can usually fuck for awhile if a bottom is up for it.

If the guy has mad hole skills, that's been known to throw that stamina out the window for me.

I'm not embarrassed when it happens.  I'm usually in awe.  

Besides, the bottom gets what he wants anyway.  Never met a bottom who's unhappy with a load in him.

1 minute ago, marylander1940 said:

I couldn't agree with you more, but this thread is directed at whether one day Alexa, Zuckerberg and others, will turn against us. 

Employees of the NSA occasionally check the messages of their dates. The technology to harm exists already, the question is when will someone use it against us because of the hobby that brought us together here!

The one thing I'll say (and then leave it to wild speculation) is that for those of us who have been around or close to intelligence agency employees, this board is not their target market.  This clientele is not their target.

I'd never say 'don't worry at all' and be sloppy, but that's more for those here who have a lot to lose with a family, a wife or conservative career.  Being brought up on charges of human trafficking is highly, highly unlikely at this level.

Sure, it's possible.  But then so is winning Powerball.

On 3/31/2024 at 10:26 AM, KeepItReal said:

A for effort in slinging sarcasm. F for failure to show empathy to other sex workers. 

Just one question professor...  Is this class grading on an average?

23 hours ago, augustus said:

So said R Kelly for years.

You're equating apples to tangelos.

Likely truth:  99.9% of posters here aren't important enough to have to worry.  I don't say that to be mean, but just a statement of fact.

They never want chicken little.  They want Mother Hen so they can make a statement and take the gigantic pat on the back.

On 3/31/2024 at 9:56 AM, KensingtonHomo said:

My comment wasn't directed at anyone who would hire a straight guy. I was speaking about myself. 

Also, as we live in a hetero-patriarchal society, does that desire for straight men equal a "kink," or is it internalized homophobia?  That's nothing against any individual guy who hires straight guys or desires straight guys. It's a commentary on societal dynamics. 

Gotcha.

You also raise an interesting question/conversation with a dynamic enough answer that might be different for each responder.

For some, this.  For others, that.  

2 hours ago, KeepItReal said:

When I see articles like this, it makes me wonder...

https://arstechnica.com/science/2024/03/super-gonorrhea-rate-quickly-triples-in-china-now-40x-higher-than-us/

I recommend never having sex again.

Find a comfortable plastic bubble and settle in.

2 minutes ago, mike carey said:

Gosh, someone needs to tell our resident doomsayers!

It's funny how negative people get when they get old.

1 minute ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I don't want to be "dominated" by a straight guy, or pay to blow him. Honestly, he should pay me. I'm very good at it. 

Sure, but you also understand that not everyone shares the same kinks.

You do you, sure, but also let others do themselves without judgement...  Especially on a board like this one.