sam.fitzpatrick

Without you there, how will I know it is time to have breakfast?

Without you there, how will I know it is time to have breakfast?

It saddens me to post this, but because of a "family obligation"I will not be able to attend the 2024 Gathering. Later today or tomorrow I will be cancelling my reservation at INNdulge.

Just one year ago today, my dear friend and travel companion, Epigonos, left us on his 82nd birthday.  He was gruff and garrulous with strong opinions, always vocal about where he stood on an issue, but the sweetest man, in disguise.  He was generous, kind and sentimental, always protective of those he loved.
Was it just a year ago?
 
I miss him.

Always welcoming in the trips to Palm Springs.  Not always welcoming to ideas not consistent with his own which led to some interesting and well considered debates.  I recall at one of the pool parties he was in a debate with another guest, he was sitting on a couch next to an escort who he would either stop to enjoy orally when his opposing viewpoint guest was speaking or manually massaging the escort's member to emphasize his own point.  It seems to me the two things he enjoyed the most were a good debate and good sex, but I know he many other passions such as cooking and traveling and history and....well the list goes on.  I know he was a great friend to Oliver and to many others.  

I've been told by RentMasseur that they track to see if you clicked on the phone number to initiate a phone call as a criteria to submit a review.
There are valid reasons for providers to ask you not to contact them through the site.  One might be so that all communication with clients is in one place (text messages on phone) so that they can make sure they have the right information for each appointment, especially for those that advertise on multiple sites. 

I'd wonder if I would be able to still be awake when she finally decides to take the stage?

While I've frequently hosted in my home, I've only hosted five or six first-time providers.  I think it is no different than hosting someone in my hotel room when traveling and follow the same security standards as I would then.  Always use the peep hole or side window to make sure they match a photo before opening the door, make sure they are alone, and don't have valuables sitting out where they can be seen.  In addition, I don't drink any alcohol with this new person to help me remain alert to the situation.  
As to other things, I make sure my place is tidy, including the front porch.  (Since I go through the garage 99% of the time for my personal use, I've had guests arrive to find cobwebs across the front door, and they were not Halloween decorations.)   I also assume that he will want to use the bathroom before we meet to quickly freshen up.  Also I don't know that it is needed, but I always assume that the escort may want a shower afterwards and have fresh towels in the bathroom for him.  I also have bottled water on hand to offer after the session.
 

I host first-time playdates in my home all the time without issue. 

When I am home, I may wake and get right out of bed or I may stay in bed listening to the local sports radio station while checking social media and reviewing prior nightmare sports scores.  In either case, once my feet hit the floor:
1 - piss, brush teeth, mouthwash, blow nose, and Qtip clean ears
2 - open dining room blinds as signal to neighbors that I am still alive
3 - take daily multi-vitamin and Truvada with a full 8 ounces of water   
And there any semblance of routine ends. 

When I am home, I may wake and get right out of bed or I may stay in bed listening to the local sports radio station while checking social media and reviewing prior nightmare sports scores.  In either case, once my feet hit the floor:
1 - piss, brush teeth, mouthwash, blow nose, and Qtip clean ears
2 - open dining room blinds as signal to neighbors that I am still alive
3 - take daily multi-vitamin and Truvada with a full 8 ounces of water   
And there any semblance of routine ends. 

Now even just seeing the notification "Vin_Marco has commented on Men’s Legs" makes me hard.
I feel like one of Pavlov’s dogs.
grin

While I've frequently hosted in my home, I've only hosted five or six first-time providers.  I think it is no different than hosting someone in my hotel room when traveling and follow the same security standards as I would then.  Always use the peep hole or side window to make sure they match a photo before opening the door, make sure they are alone, and don't have valuables sitting out where they can be seen.  In addition, I don't drink any alcohol with this new person to help me remain alert to the situation.  
As to other things, I make sure my place is tidy, including the front porch.  (Since I go through the garage 99% of the time for my personal use, I've had guests arrive to find cobwebs across the front door, and they were not Halloween decorations.)   I also assume that he will want to use the bathroom before we meet to quickly freshen up.  Also I don't know that it is needed, but I always assume that the escort may want a shower afterwards and have fresh towels in the bathroom for him.  I also have bottled water on hand to offer after the session.
 

Yeah, it’s why I avoid 3-somes in my real life as well as my hiring life. 
I’m ALWAYS more attracted to one more than the other (even when they’re both smoking hot). I end up getting into my own head about forcing myself to pay attention to the "less attractive" one. It feels awkward and strained. It tends to be even worse if they’re a couple and haven’t already worked through all of the inevitable issues that arise from such a situation. 
Remember, you’re doing this to have fun. If it isn’t fun, you’re doing something wrong.

When they originally opened, Matt had intended to be able to do full nudity; however, he could not get a license approved for that and alcohol service.  

I just subscribed two or three days ago for a new membership and it charged me $9.95. 🤔

I realized I never reported back on this...
My parents tried Hello Fresh for a couple of weeks but discontinued it because it involved too much time and energy preparing the meals. They liked that they didn't have to go grocery shopping, and they liked the novelty of the dishes and thought it was fun, but said it was still a lot of work to prepare the meals. Mom can't stand for long periods so it was difficult for her.
I took a couple of kits myself to try it out, and yes it's a fair amount of work to put the meals together. However it was interesting, some of the preparation was more involved than my usual day-to-day cooking, so I felt like I was learning something. It could be good for someone who wants to hone their cooking skills a bit.
So with Hello Fresh out of the picture, I turned to craigslist and found a chef to come and prepare meals a couple of times a week. It took a couple of tries. The first chef was a real primadonna and ended up quitting when we asked him to reduce the sodium content. But he referred us to someone else, and he's been great. His cooking is not fancy but really good, and he makes enough so there are leftovers for a couple more days. Plus he is sexy AF, and super charming. They're very happy with the arrangement. And if M&D are happy, I'm happy!

While I've frequently hosted in my home, I've only hosted five or six first-time providers.  I think it is no different than hosting someone in my hotel room when traveling and follow the same security standards as I would then.  Always use the peep hole or side window to make sure they match a photo before opening the door, make sure they are alone, and don't have valuables sitting out where they can be seen.  In addition, I don't drink any alcohol with this new person to help me remain alert to the situation.  
As to other things, I make sure my place is tidy, including the front porch.  (Since I go through the garage 99% of the time for my personal use, I've had guests arrive to find cobwebs across the front door, and they were not Halloween decorations.)   I also assume that he will want to use the bathroom before we meet to quickly freshen up.  Also I don't know that it is needed, but I always assume that the escort may want a shower afterwards and have fresh towels in the bathroom for him.  I also have bottled water on hand to offer after the session.
 

The weekend is picked by Oliver, who has hosted this event for many years. If you would like to host an event on a different weekend I suggest you arrange it and put the time and money into it that Oliver does. Oliver has invited us and you have a simple choice to make, accept or decline the invitation.

I've found that since retiring, this is a more frequent occurrence, usually once or twice a week.  I suspect that since I'm not thinking about work in my sleep, my thoughts can move to more enjoyable places.

I've found that since retiring, this is a more frequent occurrence, usually once or twice a week.  I suspect that since I'm not thinking about work in my sleep, my thoughts can move to more enjoyable places.

I can envision PK leading a discussion on this topic as we lounge  around the pool at INNdulge next April

I've found that since retiring, this is a more frequent occurrence, usually once or twice a week.  I suspect that since I'm not thinking about work in my sleep, my thoughts can move to more enjoyable places.

I've found that since retiring, this is a more frequent occurrence, usually once or twice a week.  I suspect that since I'm not thinking about work in my sleep, my thoughts can move to more enjoyable places.

I've found that since retiring, this is a more frequent occurrence, usually once or twice a week.  I suspect that since I'm not thinking about work in my sleep, my thoughts can move to more enjoyable places.