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I took the plunge - don't recommend.   Looks like his photos.  Nice demeanor, body, and thick🍆.  Staying at a midtown hotel visiting from Miami.   Not the best english, but totally able to have a conversation.  Bed massage.  While he definitely had some good technique from the limited time we had - his phone kept going off (which he had on the bed with him), after 20 minutes time to turn over and then upsell.   He had quoted me $200 but not a time length - which is my bad for not confirming, but I had assumed for an hour.  

Just because someone eats ass, doesn’t guarantee that they’re going to eat EVERY ass. 
More than likely, this practice is done on a “case-by-case” basis. 
 
 

I know that this is a thread about providers who rim, but I just want to memorialize a friend/client of mine who passed away last summer.  I have a rim chair and one of our favorite things was for me to sit in it, him underneath.  I'd have my coffee, and we could stay like that for nearly an hour.  My butt would be so sore from sitting and so happy from liking.  His neck would NOT be sore because we knew JUST the right pillow to put under his head.  HAPPY DAYS!

I think for most it’s a “we’ll see…” and committing to it ahead without personal chemistry established is rare. 
It carries the higher risk for the bearer of the tongue. 

It carries the higher demand of hygiene and honesty about health for the bearer of the hole. 
In porn, def a climax trigger.
In person I love it both ways. By nature and function, I’m bottom, but when I get into eating it, I get hard enough to fuck it, and/or come while feasting. 
I never present myself without being super clean and smooth. It’s fairly pale, and even after 40yrs of recreational use, my hole looks younger than my ass🤣
We’ll see.

It's the only blessing of the US not being on the metric system - these scammers have no idea what they are doing when they put stats into fake profiles. The other day I was hit on by someone alleged to be 6'5", 135 lbs, with a 42-inch waist. Hot! 

Forget being so fucking dumb to realize that he's using pics of a famous pornstar. but just the weight/ height ratio alone

I've been texting with him.  He wants $250 for a massage only.   Fairly steep for someone without a lot of reviews.   

Thank you for bringing up Dean Hammer.  My ex-partner was part of his original study back in the early 90's because he had a gay brother.  I was asked to be part of the study because I too have an older gay brother but they had enough participants by the time I tried to sign up.  We are both middle children. In the case of my ex, he was the youngest of four brothers and his gay brother was the eldest so they were the opposite.  In regards to the potential maternal connection, my mom had three gay brothers so who knows, maybe there is something to that.   At this point, nobody knows the reason but the topic comes up on this forum every few months with the usual characters insisting they "chose" their sexual orientation vs. "choosing" their actions/reaction to it.  
Can someone also explain the so-called "gay lifestyle" to me?  I'm gay, my brother is gay..we both came out when we were in diapers.  Never had any issues with sexual orientation or identity.  Many or most of my friends and plenty of my family are gay.   None of us (as far as we know) live a "gay lifestyle" and not really sure what that means.  Does that mean we are in a gay relationship?  If yes, then I guess we all live a gay lifestyle.  Does that mean we use the word queer, watch Bravo, are only interested in going to the gym, walk around with our shirts off 90% of the time and call each other "Bitch"?  I've known thousands of gay men during my life but I've never met anyone into that stuff.   Every time I hear that term "gay lifestyle" I cringe-always wondering exactly what is meant by that.  

Of course you should provide your own condom if you're intending on topping. It is imperative to find out if whoever you would like to see is okay with you wearing protection. I see more and more providers putting "no condoms" or "bareback only" right in their ads, so don't even bother with them, as it's been spelled out. 
It's a rarity of rarities, but there are still men out there (maybe as few as two, I'm familiar with each of them) who REQUIRE a condom for an encounter. I have mad respect for them, as they each are incredibly handsome, girth-y, muscular, cut gentlemen. Both have been around for years, so business isn't suffering.

My body can only handle so much. So sore sometimes after an overnight. It takes me a day to recover…. and to do laundry, 

Man, I'd be like a kid in the candy store if I could do 3x a week! 😀

I'm at 2-3 times a month now.  I keep telling myself I need to cut back, but I now have 3 go to guys in Philly and it's kind of addicting.
Guess I just have to work more to support it.  I'm in my mid fifties, who knows how long I have to enjoy this type of fun before father time catches me!

No. I am not.
I simply coax them into wearing a jockstrap,  I make them think I have an underwear fetish, not a revulsion to uncut dick.

We all have an origin story.
Which is why it's ridiculous to attempt to apply YOUR standards of what's "normal" sexually to another person with a different origin story. Sexuality is a private matter with lots of subconscious drivers. 
For whatever reasons I generally favor men with dark hair and brown eyes. So Latino men often catch my attention...but I usually pass knowing what I'm going to have to deal with down under. (Unless they're SO sub that i wont be expected to reciprocate). So I sympathize with the OP who started this thread.  There are some places in Latin America where hospitals will recommend circumcision for baby boys. So it's not an impossible find.
In a pinch, I  just ask an uncut bottom to wear a jockstrap so I don't have to look at it. 🙈

Well….. sharing that you grew  up in an all white American small city, and your mind saying “yuck”, to things that weren’t the “standard”, based on your environment, this speaks volumes to your pathology, how you think, and the comments you make in these forums. 
 

I’m skeptical on the explanation often given “I rarely check RM messages” - why wouldn’t you check the source of the enquiry in the first place - how many other sources of business does the average provider have?

thanks for the info!!

How is that "mean" ?🤔

he sent me a face pics by message.  feel free to show your face here to if you like? 
 
Why be so mean?

This is very unusual in Michigan and especially in Royal Oak which has a large gay community.   This hotel is used by a lot of escorts so I'm sure the cops were already aware of what often goes on there.  Sounds to me like this was a hire gone bad and the cops were called.  

Yes, is a blue city in a purple state.
This issue occasionally comes up. Last time it was about guys hiring young women at a highway motel through a shady website. What can possibly go wrong? 
I know of at least 3 escorts who got arrested in Las Vegas for prostitution. I don't know of any other place where someone was arrested.
@José Soplanucas (under his old name) tried to warn us about Honolulu but I can't find the thread. Unfortunately, he didn't provide any kind of details. 
hookups (free sex)  involve no legal problems but when dealing with strangers we always take risks. 
 

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RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com Since I'm always asking for folks to share experiences, I thought I should share one of my own.   Today I had a session with RedCMT while he was visiting my city.   I texted him mid-morning and asked if he had any open appointments.  He replied back quickly that he could do a lunchtime session if I was able to make that work.   We agreed on a time and a rate ($200) and I met him at his hotel at the appointed time.   He was very pleasant, talkative in the right way and welcoming.   He had his table with him and he proceeded to give me a fantastic massage.  Soon I was relaxed and the tension from my body was gone and I was in his capable hands.   

Thank you for bringing up Dean Hammer.  My ex-partner was part of his original study back in the early 90's because he had a gay brother.  I was asked to be part of the study because I too have an older gay brother but they had enough participants by the time I tried to sign up.  We are both middle children. In the case of my ex, he was the youngest of four brothers and his gay brother was the eldest so they were the opposite.  In regards to the potential maternal connection, my mom had three gay brothers so who knows, maybe there is something to that.   At this point, nobody knows the reason but the topic comes up on this forum every few months with the usual characters insisting they "chose" their sexual orientation vs. "choosing" their actions/reaction to it.  
Can someone also explain the so-called "gay lifestyle" to me?  I'm gay, my brother is gay..we both came out when we were in diapers.  Never had any issues with sexual orientation or identity.  Many or most of my friends and plenty of my family are gay.   None of us (as far as we know) live a "gay lifestyle" and not really sure what that means.  Does that mean we are in a gay relationship?  If yes, then I guess we all live a gay lifestyle.  Does that mean we use the word queer, watch Bravo, are only interested in going to the gym, walk around with our shirts off 90% of the time and call each other "Bitch"?  I've known thousands of gay men during my life but I've never met anyone into that stuff.   Every time I hear that term "gay lifestyle" I cringe-always wondering exactly what is meant by that.  

Rarely do I tip unless the service is above and beyond. If they charge $200 and expect to receive $250 ($200 + $50 tip) then they should just charge $250. They control their own prices. 

I'm about 35lbs overweight.  I was so nervous when I made my first hire because he was hot as can be, then you have me.  It was never an issue with him and he always provides a fantastic time to this day.
I now have 3 regulars and dabble on occasion and have always been shown a good time.
Show up clean, be nice and treat your provider with respect.  I live by these rules and I don't even feel uncomfortable any more undressing in the light! 😀
I NEVER have a less than great time!