Los Angeles providers that cater to overweight clients

[Starlight77]

Any recommendations for Los Angeles providers that do not care (or at least pretend not to care) about a client's weight?   I chatted with two L.A. escorts the past couple of days and volunteered I was 60-70lbs overweight and despite lengthy chats with both before the confession...they both stopped responding to me.     So I figured I would just ask here.  🤷‍♂️ 

All I care that he's into passionate kissing/BFE.   Other details of wants and needs I can talk about with the provider but kissing is a must.    I do not care about race, age, height.   I'm like them all.    

Thanks.   

[Thelatin]

It can’t be that unusual to be overweight?  Do providers ask you in advance?

[jmichaeliii]

I'm about 35lbs overweight.  I was so nervous when I made my first hire because he was hot as can be, then you have me.  It was never an issue with him and he always provides a fantastic time to this day.

I now have 3 regulars and dabble on occasion and have always been shown a good time.

Show up clean, be nice and treat your provider with respect.  I live by these rules and I don't even feel uncomfortable any more undressing in the light! 😀

I NEVER have a less than great time!

 

[marylander1940]

14 hours ago, Starlight77 said:

Any recommendations for Los Angeles providers that do not care (or at least pretend not to care) about a client's weight?   I chatted with two L.A. escorts the past couple of days and volunteered I was 60-70lbs overweight and despite lengthy chats with both before the confession...they both stopped responding to me.     So I figured I would just ask here.  🤷‍♂️ 

All I care that he's into passionate kissing/BFE.   Other details of wants and needs I can talk about with the provider but kissing is a must.    I do not care about race, age, height.   I'm like them all.    

Thanks.   

Most escorts know they'll see overweight or obese clients. 

I'm glad you actually told them upfront, it possibly saved you from a bad experience. 

9 hours ago, Thelatin said:

It can’t be that unusual to be overweight?  Do providers ask you in advance?

Especially here in the USA but it's always appropriate to tell in advance especially if the client wants to travel, not all massage tables/beds are design to stand a determined amount of weight on top. 

Edited April 29 by marylander1940

[ShortCutie7]

Yeah, I saw the title of this thread and thought “wouldn’t like 80% of clients likely be overweight?  Why would it be an issue?”

That said, I am very short (which can be a turnoff for many) and always make it very clear in advance to hookups so they’re not surprised if it’s an issue.

[Starlight77]

52 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

Most escorts know they'll see overweight or obese clients. 

I'm glad you actually told them upfront, it possibly saved you from a bad experience. 

Which is why I was asking for specific referrals.   I’m developing a complex.   

[big-n-tall]

Are you looking for a top bottom or versatile guy?

For future reference, always look for someone who lists "bear" in their into's (if you haven't already), besides, as someone mentioned providers who directly state they are ok with all types.

Next if you expand beyond LA into West Hollywood in your search, you could increase your chances finding someone compatible.

As for suggestions, the only ones in LA/West Hollywood I have seen (who seem fine with bigger people)...

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[acks0104]

20 hours ago, Starlight77 said:

Any recommendations for Los Angeles providers that do not care (or at least pretend not to care) about a client's weight?   I chatted with two L.A. escorts the past couple of days and volunteered I was 60-70lbs overweight and despite lengthy chats with both before the confession...they both stopped responding to me.     So I figured I would just ask here.  🤷‍♂️ 

All I care that he's into passionate kissing/BFE.   Other details of wants and needs I can talk about with the provider but kissing is a must.    I do not care about race, age, height.   I'm like them all.    

Thanks.   

Do you have a preference for type? You say you don't care as long as they do kissing/BFE but honestly as a bigger guy myself, I've NEVER had issues with any of the escorts I've hired. I understand the insecurity because sometimes I feel that way as well, but really the majority of escorts out there don't discriminate as long as you're decent to them personality-wise. If you have a specific type we can help you narrow things down.

[JamesB]

On 4/29/2024 at 7:54 AM, Starlight77 said:

Any recommendations for Los Angeles providers that do not care (or at least pretend not to care) about a client's weight?   I chatted with two L.A. escorts the past couple of days and volunteered I was 60-70lbs overweight and despite lengthy chats with both before the confession...they both stopped responding to me.     So I figured I would just ask here.  🤷‍♂️ 

All I care that he's into passionate kissing/BFE.   Other details of wants and needs I can talk about with the provider but kissing is a must.    I do not care about race, age, height.   I'm like them all.    

Thanks.   

Being ghosted by a provider due to your weight is actually a blessing in disguise. They're saving you time, money, and potentially a negative experience. While I don't have weight concerns myself, I always disclose my age in the first contact. This habit developed after a peculiar experience a few years ago, which surprisingly turned out to be great in the end. But that's a story for another time. If you're mindful about your weight, it's wise to disclose your height/weight upfront. Most providers will appreciate the heads-up and respond positively, while those who don't, it's a clear indicator that they might not be the right fit, saving you valuable time.

[+ Coolwave35]

Brogan linked above is amazing. 

[MikeBiDude]

For the majority percentage of my hiring years, I was obese, 300+ pounds. I’ve been height/weight proportionate since 2009.

Almost *never* did I have a problem with a provider either escort or masseur turn me down. Yes, I was always upfront with my weight, but again can’t remember being turned down too often. I’m a big believer in my self-confidence and easygoing manner making providers comfortable with me.

There was one masseur who clearly wasn’t comfortable with overweight guys. He felt his table wouldn’t hold me up, other excuses, etc. I tried a couple times and was turned down. Fast forward 90 days or so…he reached out to me and said let’s try. I don’t know if his rent was due or whatever….but we met, had a great sensual/erotic massage…and continued to see each other for two years 🤣

It’s best to just be upfront with providers, as mentioned elsewhere if they turn you down you’ve probably just dodged a bullet anyway. Don’t be ashamed…we are all works in progress.