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The listing does say he’s based in Colorado, but oddly he told me he is based in Chicago. I saw him as well. The communication was very difficult. The before and after of the massage was off-putting, although the massage was decent. The build up to the HE was nice, but then it was definitely a “let’s get this over with”. While I know it’s mostly/partially fake for every masseur, he didn’t even try to pretend he was happy to have me there.
Would I repeat? Possibly but it helps that the stokes pre-HE are just what I like.
Here’s an example of the communication: after literally almost 24 of setting a time, he finally gets back to me with his hotel. I get it…he didn’t know for sure, but he gave me the address with no room number. I texted five minutes before appt asking him how he’d like me to get to his room. He says, “you can easily get to the 2nd flow using the stairs”. I texted asking back, “but I don’t know the room number”…mind you, it was 5 minutes before our appointment. 2 minutes after our appt was to begin he finally texts back and says he wasn’t ready to start early. I would’ve felt more welcome if he had just originally said, “I’ll text the room once it is time”. Since he wasn’t responding, I considered leaving because I believe in listening to red flags. What it the worst thing in the world? No. Did it make me feel like a valued customer? Not at all.

Bump.
$200 with no full nudity is a no-go for me.

I didn’t realize how important kissing was for me until I was with a provider who was exceptional at it. We had a 2 hr session, and probably kissed for more than half that time. It made the experience one of the best I’ve had with a provider.

Kissing just seems so natural when making love. I view providers as a partner, not a piece of meat to get my rocks off on!

I find it difficult not to kiss. When one really gets into things and the client is passionate and responsive I just find it natural to kiss. Some clients will turn their head away indicating they don’t want to kiss but most just accept it willingly. It is of course extremely intimate, which is why there’s some who draw the line at kissing. 

Kissing is essential. It’s the only way to get off. I think it’s the best way to get those carnal desires out .
 
 
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Just like @Braziliancutee, if there is no kissing, I simply don’t get hard. Passionate, wet, wild kissing is essential for me, so I always ask: a non-kisser is definitely a no-hire. 
You are my kind of guy, cutie. 

I love kissing but often disappointed how some guys kiss.  
 

I love to kiss and always ask a provider if they are cool with passionate making out. A provider I hired once, who had kissing listed even on his page, said in person when I wanted to kiss that he doesn't kiss. Also a provider once didn't have kissing listed but I reached out to ask anyway and they said they would. They actually were great at it too and I'm so glad I asked. So I make it a habit to verify and hopefully get some first hand knowledge from guys on here about a provider and their kissing skills and willingness.
Another quick & easy tip is to reach out to a provider who posts right in their ad they love to kiss. I don't think I have ever been burned when they state right in their ad that they are into it.

The OP asked providers if they have experienced clients posting bad reviews because things didn’t go their way. I’ve never had that happen, not knowingly anyway. I guess there could be unflattering reviews or comments out there about me (if anyone finds any please tell me!). Tbh I don’t care. Clients can post whatever they like. You can’t please everyone and those posting vituperative comments will be seen for what they are by most sensible people, and will only influence those clients who I’d prefer didn’t come to me anyway - that’s a positive outcome! 
By the way, the OP mentions the comments were slanderous. Not so. Slander is spoken not written. If it’s written as a record then the term is libellous (if it’s not true of course). If you say PNP in your adverts / profile then it’s more likely that the dissatisfied client’s comments are true than if your advertising says ‘no drugs’.
Personally I have never used drugs because I prefer to be present during sex but I’ve no problem with others using them. They just need to be prepared to be criticised for it. Just like I’m fine to be criticised for doing sex work. People with narrow or closed minds will always do that. Their problem not mine. 
 

Very wise Bozo. You’re nobody’s clown!

Well, that's certainly an "oops"!

Bozo has never met Jacob.  and as @Pd1_jap stated it is difficult to discern what is true these days. Without any other facts it really is a "he said/he said" situation. And both the member who wrote the positive review and the member who wrote the negative review have only a handful of posts between them. 
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/161383-411-on-jacob_session-new-orleans/#comment-2474650
However, in general, when trying to deny that you are a drug user, it is not helpful to your case to write in your RM Bio that you are "Into PNP". That's not a good look:

from AI:
PnP stands for "Party and Play," a term primarily used within gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men (GBMSM) communities to describe the deliberate combination of recreational drug use with sexual activity. Also known as chemsex, it involves high-risk behaviors and specific substances, often leading to significant mental and physical health risks. 
BTC
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So I’ve fallen for the okie doke many times now so don’t feel bad or think you’re stupid cause it happens to the best of us from time to time just don’t make a habit out of it and consider it a contribution to your karma. I always figure that they must be in a pretty fucked up place to go through all that to get a couple dollars so they probably need it more than I do and that’s a blessing.
I recently violated my own policy of not making deposits and not only did he play me, he kept trying to get me to send more! I was deeply disappointed but I knew better from the start. Take it as a class and learn the lesson. No money in advance unless you already know them and trust them to come through.

I know I've been extremely stupid, but I'd still like some feedback.
So I approached someone on grindr; they asked if I was gen. I said yes. We negotiated a price of $300.
He came over, asked for the money before we began -- I gave it. He kept saying he was nervous. Then he claimed to be 17, and was this ok with me? He said his father was outside in a car. This is a state where 17 is underage for sex. He sort of suggested that he might be ok doing something if I was ok with it, but he wouldn't even sit down, because he was so "nervous."
I asked for the money back -- even offered him $100 for his trouble. He said no, and that we were free to call the police, that he had all the texts to show I was trying to pay for sex. I'm not sure he would have followed up on it. He seemed like this little hispanic kid who might have more to lose from the police than me. But I didn't want to chance it. I let him walk away with all the money.
Incredible.
 
(Edit: btw I had met another guy on grindr and the transaction worked out just fine)

I saw two clients today. First client wanted me to cum, fairly early into the massage, so I did. Then he wanted me to cum again later on. He hadn’t cum yet and he struggles to get hard …I’ve seen him a few times, it’s always same….he gets semi hard, overthinks, and then goes soft. I faked the second cum; not sure if he noticed but if he did, he didn’t let on. In the end I did manage to get him to cum, once I’d managed to stop him thinking about getting hard and cuming. With guys like him he really should just slow down and let me massage him and build slowly but they can’t do that because they are never in the moment. I knew it would be a challenging session and so it was. He’s a nice well meaning guy so the only challenge is trying to slow him down. 
The second client was an hour later, a new client who had told me he’s seen my films. That sets a level of expectation that means it will almost certainly be quite interactive (for example he’d told me he was vers, neg and on prep lol). I knew he’d probably want me to cum. The massage panned out exactly how I’d expected, including me cuming. Client came twice. 
Don’t take this as a complaint. I know that offering sensual or erotic massage, and having porn videos out there will inevitably result in clients having expectations. It’s understandable, but I do think that it’s very difficult to always live up to those expectations. Frankly if the client doesn’t want me to cum then that’s ideal for me, even if that’s the only client of the day. 
 

 
 
 

For me there’s no delineation between ‘massage time’ and ‘play time’. The massage is play and play is massage: they ebb and flow between each other during the session. That’s a proper sensual massage.
No body part is off limits unless my client has specified it as so. That means nipples are touched, so are the ears, the fingers, toes, that part of your hand where your palm becomes your wrist…the back of your knee…your forehead. Basically every part gets included because I need to know what works and what doesn’t. Everyone is different. 
Regarding the stomach, it’s definitely a part that can feel great if done properly. I work Clockwise around the abdomen (never anticlockwise), and apply firm pressure, rhythmically with the breathing, at each quarter of the hour on a clock face. Spa masseurs wouldn’t do that. 
 

hes actually not new to LA but agree best massage of my MF life! if your in LA time with this dude is an absolute must!

I got a fantastic massage from TrevorTemp this evening.  I don't usually write about masseurs because they're all sort of average and don't warrant the effort.  Trevor is legitimately a certified massage technician and it shows.  His skill and technique is something you'd only find in a luxury spa.  He's based out of LA and just started offering massages so he doesn't have any review history.

If you're going to be in the LA area, I recommend looking him up and messaging him.  Let him know what type of massage you're looking for and he can let you know if that's something he has the skill at providing.
If you're looking for a handsome asian guy to massage you on the West Coast I still think Karl Kang in SF is the top provider but Trevor actually provides a better professional level massage experience.

Trevor didn't ask me to write this, I just think when we get masseurs with this level of skill and kindness we should call it out to the community.
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I remember when you almost always got two quotes, one for safe and one for bareback.  I think that has changed with prep since most guys seem ok with it know. I always ask to make sure like someone else said just make sure there are no surprises. 

Funny enough — I had a provider tell me BB usually comes at a higher rate.
His reasoning was just “better experience,” but it also felt like something he could leverage to charge more.
I remember laughing and going,
“okay… but you’re enjoying it more too, right?”
Because it never really feels like a one-sided upgrade.

Given his inability to perform when with a man and that most of his sex scenes on X are with women, it sounds to me like this provider is heterosexual. 🤷🏻‍♂️

I think the $600/hr would have been my first red flag!  Also, sorry to hear that the rest of the experience wasn't more productive.  

The current pricepoints, along with the escalating tattooing and piercings craze, have greatly diminished my appitite for hiring.

As prices have increased, so have my standards of what I’m willing to accept.
When guys want $400/hr they better be perfect and EXACTLY what I want. That rarely happens.  Ive found less expensive outlets to satisfy my urges