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They're all on the black market now.  Remember when banning alcohol stopped people from drinking in the 1920s? lol

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On 10/18/2023 at 1:38 PM, BuffaloKyle said:

A lot of places stopped taking cash though after the pandemic. The sporting arenas by me are now cashless payments only & our county fair was cashless.

I have a semi off-topic story here but it is hilarious. I think it was Dodger Stadium that did this right away but didn't completely think it through. 

No more ordering at lines at stands. You order your beer and food on your phone, it gives you a QR code, you walk up and show it, and they give you your food and beer. But they weren't scanning the QR codes just looking at them and asking you what you had. You said "two beers, two hot dogs, and popcorn" and they would give it to you and you walk away. 

Inning #3, repeat with same QR code for 2x more beers. Inning #4, repeat. You were just showing the same QR code from the first order but asking for whatever you wanted and they handed it over. You get the idea. 

Someone in the back office after like 2 or 3 games was like WOOOAHHHHHH. The inventory of hot dogs and beers was -100,000 but they only sold 1,000 of each. LOL. 

Lesson: People will find a way to get something for free. every. single. time. 

Okay, maybe it is on-topic after all. 

I met with Dino and traveled with him. He is one of the best highly recommended, but not sure he’s seeing anybody new. 

You look amazing man. well done. I think my favorite part about you is being an active participant on these forums. It makes you (and the few others who do the same) stand out from everybody else. If I ever happen to notice we are in the same city, I’d love to hire you just for dinner and talking. So cool. 

1 hour ago, DWnyc said:

@Jarrod_Uncut I think you will find this hobby is the freest market you will ever experience and my guess is you will face similar if not greater frustration in a perceived mismatch on earnings and your value elsewhere.

Remember, the market measures supply and demand, but not your self worth. Don’t confuse the two - no one should on their earnings. The market can, however, reward innovation, being proactive and responsive to market intel, and having the self awareness to leverage what one is working with. That all starts with you - no one here has the ability to fix the market either for or against you. 

You want a job? For real. lol

Well said. The escort market is arguably one of the most free markets in the world.  No rules. No restrictions. No licenses. No anything.

One human selling their body and their time another human for a price.

You legit can't get more basic than that. 

No need for human comments with you have ChatGPT with has the knowledge of billions and can rewrite anything. lol 

I spoke with him recently in the past few days. He's fine and working his regular job a lot and taking care of his family. He hopes to maybe get down to New York before the end of the year but hasn't decided on returning to escorting. It's not a "no" and his profile is parked on Rent Men for future use. He doesn't read these messages (at least I don't believe; I asked in the past) but he knows how ya'll feel. 

And I quote: "I thrive in connection"

Grammarly.com.  Use the free version. Make sure everything you write over a paragraph is through through there and scores a 97-98% or higher. Problem solved. It'll fix all the single or double space after sentences thing too. 

The main thing to keep in mind is the definition of 'friend' -- why do you keep friends in real-life? 

Because there is a mutual exchange of value. I enjoy my friends for their personalities, their knowledge, their desire to do the same things I like, their backgrounds and their experiences.  In turn, my friends value me for the same. We pay our friends with our time and our companionship, except there isn't actual money being exchanged. Well, in some cases -- okay, hold that thought. 

You can develop a friendship with any human if the conditions are right. Could that be with an escort? Absolutely. Do you become friends with the people you work with? It's not common. I argue escorting is like that. You keep your work and your personal lives separate and maybe, if the conditions are just right, you develop an actual friendship and you just happen to meet at work.  You can also meet your future spouse at work.

You might even meet your future spouse in the course of hiring escorts. I know of someone who did. 👀

Just, ahhh, don't expect it. 

I wrote the post above, but I find there is a 35-45 sweet spot here.  

By 35, you have run through most scenarios in life and been able to work through anything that comes your way.  Experience does count for sure. People are also more comfortable in their own skin at these ages vs. younger. There are exceptions of course, but this is the general rule. 

We could switch the question around and ask "When is peak life?" -- the age at which your wisdom and ability to execute -- and your health -- all come together in that "can do anything" attitude with the smarts, resources, and drive to prove it. Ya know? 

Is that 40-50?

Let's back into this from each end, yea. It's definitely not a guy in their 60's, 70's, or 80's.... and not in their 20's.  So we have 30s, 40s, and 50s left on the table.  

Who's next? 😁

Generally, this is because you're accessing from something other than a residential internet service provider. If you use a VPN to access, many sites "risk score" the IP address of the VPN you're using and can think it is abuse/hacking/whatever and prompt those challenges. If you're using a VPN, try connecting to another server from your VPN provider.  This is the likely cause. It's because of all the "crap" traffic on the internet these days. 

It may also not be the site itself. @RadioRob could be (actually, he should be!) using a proxy like CloudFlare to manage traffic and they will sometimes throw a prompt as well based on certain flags from some traffic. I make my people use CloudFlare for all our companies and sites on the internet. It's all in the name of protecting the site and trying to figure out who is legit and who is hacking you.  

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On 8/23/2023 at 2:57 AM, big-n-tall said:

Doxy pep is antibiotics taken regularly that can prevent or greatly reduce the takers risk of gonorrhea, syphilis and/or chlamydia

Yep. It's part of an overall health program many use for their immune systems. I always took Vitamin D daily and didn't get COVID-19 for three years while everyone around me, including dozens of people I had sex with and made out with, got it multiple times. It's a shield custom tuned to your own unique biochemistry to protect you from the things you are at risk for... everyone is different. 

When the escort starts making you things like a framed photo of you two, or sends you flowers with his name at work, wants to come over and watch TV on the couch on a random night, or buys you airplane tickets to Colombia to meet his family on vacation.... that's how you know. 

Everything else is for the money.  

For me it's reviews. They have to have 4.8 or higher and 10+ reviews. That tells me everything. We like to say that it doesn't matter but it's proven across every industry (Yelp, Amazon, Uber) that they DO count and they DO matter. 

I work in financial technology and crimes.  There are "elder abuse" and "elder scam" policies that the government has. US Treasury. FinCEN. IRS. DHS. FBI. etc.

They are the ones who get to define what is "elderly" 

... at the moment, that is 65 and older. It may change, but that's the reality. 

6 hours ago, shadowcatzxxx said:

Reposting this after deleting it from the thread above, because I foolishly included a detail that could cause problems for this one-in -a-million man.

The motto of my wedding is "Vivir en el Momento!" (Live in the moment!) 

Just keep doing that. Our time on this rock is finite. Use your money to bring you joy -- sexually and emotionally. Then leave it to whomever is deserving, even if that is an escort. Always be genuine and respectful in everything you do and you will live out your remaining years with incredible sex and friends and comfort. 

You're lucky.  

Are you single? 

I ask because this is a job for some, but you can also make it into whatever you want it to be. There is a possibility even to find the love of your life. But I digress. lol

My advice would be not entirely to dismiss any possibilities. You're going to meet all kinds of people -- old, young, fat, thin, married, single, straight, gay, etc. Treat others with respect and be open with communication. Tell them what you want and what you need. Be upfront and straightforward. Approach each person as if they were the only client in the world. Make them feel like they are the center of your universe for the time you are with them. Be fully present in all situations and have a Plan B or an "exit" at all times. 

Sit down and paper out why you want to do this. What do you have to offer that others don't? Are you working towards a goal? Do you have debt to pay down or do you just want some extra cash? Are you going to do this in your home city or travel? What hours? How will you manage this with your professional life? Social media? Facebook profile? Instagram? Twitter? 

What happens if you're recognized? Who knows you? 

These are all the questions you should be asking yourself and you'll need answers to everything -- or at least answers you're comfortable with. 

This industry is absolutely amazing. Leveraged the right way, it is a win-win for both the client and the escort. It can be better than therapy, but more brutal than a root canal. High highs. Low lows. 

Ground yourself first and figure out what you want out of this. Maybe write back a bunch and we can be here to help guide you.  

Disclaimer: I'm a client. My partner is an escort. We met on Rent.men. We're getting married. Another guy, one of my closest friends, is an escort who helped me change my life. So I have an infinite amount of wisdom and experience here from all sides. 

Good luck!

I just found this thread on here. Wow! 

I am 45 years old and have been to 56 countries. The plan is to visit all 193 U.N. member nations before I check out.

Man oh man do I have stories. But first, need to read through all 13 pages of this thread. lol 

On 2/2/2023 at 9:45 AM, m4same said:

 Sometimes things just happen when the chemistry and energy are right. mood strike.

That's why I love these forums and this is so true. That's amazing. 

I had originally created the @Statham anonymous account to unlink the topic here from my posting history. But seeing as I fucked that up accessing Companyofmen from my phone that had a stored login for this account, that went tits up. So here we are. 

We have a date in 2024. He just took me home to Cartagena, Colombia to meet his family two weeks ago, which was a lot with my new conversational only Spanish. I'll be fluent in a few months, no sweat. You can read "Our Story" here along with "Moments" for a ton of pictures here:

www.vivirenelmomento.com  (Live In The Moment)

As part of the "Our Story" we mentioned meeting through a common friend on Instagram. That is only half the story, we aren't ready to share the entire thing just yet. Truth is the 'common friend' was an escort here in Boston that I met with a bunch of times who is his ex-boyfriend of four years. They were broken up but I did follow him on Instagram and I did see a picture of him at dinner here in Boston, and I did text the escort friend who posted it and asked who he was. Jose (my other half) came over that night and never left. lol. 

I'm also not worried about giving that site out here and disclosing the location/date. Given what I do in the real world for work, I have security on lock for the events of that day. Nobody is getting near the wedding. 😎

He still does escorting on the side. It's amazing extra money and he also has a full time job.  He uses it mostly to send money back to his family in Cartagena for random things like a new refrigerator which they recently needed.  I don't mind it, in fact he's really good. Also many clients hire for non-sexual reasons like companionship, dinner, movies, talk, whatever. Not having to do it full time because he has other work, he can afford to be selective with the clients and "jobs" he takes -- e.g., not doing anything he truly doesn't want or isn't of interest.  That will probably change when we have kids in a year or two but it works for now. 

He is 9 months older than me. He's 46 and I am 45, although it doesn't look that way. We fight over who's the actual daddy in the relationship. He thinks he is because he's older. I know I am able because of the gray hair. 

I've also worked through all the questions on the site. Many parts of the story can be read on the wedding site above. I've figured out the answers to all my questions with his help. It works. 

I think that the internet in general has made everything direct-to-consumer in the past decade. This applies to everything from products to services to escorts.

Additionally, middlemen/brokers/agents are on their way out. Stocks, automobile, insurance.

Trust me the next ones to fall are real estate. Who needs to pay a real estate "agent" a $60,000 commission to conduct a viewing (I will walk through myself, thanks), look at neighborhood comps (Um, Zillow!), and lie about the true offer amounts just in order to stretch their commissions (happens way more often than you think). I mean, did you ever see PROOF when you bought your house of the other offers? Nope. Didn't think so.  Then they what, schedule a home inspection (there's apps for that), and um, help shuffling papers around at closing? Okay, I can hire a TaskRabbit person on that app for $15/hour for 20 hours who has real estate experience.  All for the low low price of 6% of the purchase price.  Half the time they cause more problems than they solve with failing on important tasks, not being available when you need an appointment, or having other obligations/listings.

When houses doubled in prices in a few short years, did the effort and quality of their work double too?  When house prices went up 10x over the past two decades, did their workload go up 10x or did the internet and access to information at fingertips actually remove the legwork in neighborhoods and reduce the effort of their jobs? We all know the answers to these questions. 

They'll all be out of jobs in less than ten years. Good riddance. 

One escort I was with advertised PNP on his profile even though he is clean and sober and never uses drugs or alcohol. 

Another put "NO PNP" specifically in their profile, although secretly they did it (GHB) during sessions if asked.

The obvious question was why?  Right?

Both said that many clients that are brand new to hiring and people uncomfortable with their sexuality reach for all kinds of substances to feel more comfortable in their own skin. Newly out people who haven't admitted they are gay. People with tons of family and work pressure just to check out and forget. The list is endless. 

PNP and "high" has a very different definition to each person. Is someone with a Ketamine nasal spray prescription "high"?  Does anyone want someone to show up drunk, which is sold legally almost everywhere (with few exceptions) across the planet?  Cannabis use?  I think we can all agree on Crystal Meth (T) and Heroin, right? But even a small amount of coke or microdosing GHB?  You couldn't even tell if you tried or gave a blood test. 

The escort's personal business decision was to allow it, but also decline at the meeting time if the person was obviously impaired in a dangerous situation -- or something that risks their own personal safety or health.  Otherwise, it is a business decision to advertise (and not partake) and they both said it actually can net more good clients. 

Takeaway:  As a client, I now disregard both the NO PNP and the PNP text/tags. Ask clarifying questions, state what you want to do, what you expect, and guarantee your condition. Show up present in that moment and make the escort feel comfortable. Like you should do with anyone you meet in life for any reason.