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Oh wow, I didn't read the whole thread. Glad you found a few others. Like any business or interaction, sometimes it just isn't the right fit and that's okay. Glad you didn't let that first experience turn you off from trying again because as you have found out, they're out there.  For me, I had to go through three guys at first before I found that "magic" connection and that changed my world. Years later, I still hire him and engage and we talk about the dumbest stuff (like the Orville episode with Topa, because he's even a bigger Star Trek geek than me).  lol. 

On 12/25/2023 at 11:49 PM, badger said:

Thanks for all the links, I appreciate it! It's funny, I've got lots of experience meeting strangers for hookups and am generally super comfortable, know what to do, etc, but this is a new experience and suddenly I feel like I don't know what to do lol

Think of him as a long lost friend you haven't seen in forever. Ask him about himself a little too -- he is a person with his own struggles, and issues, and family, and work. I find if you take a small interest in knowing them as a person, that puts them at ease because you see them as human.  Of course, they won't share details and everything, but just asking is what counts. 

HAVE FUN!

On 5/3/2024 at 2:58 AM, mike carey said:

I can't speak to RentMasseur reviews, but on RentMen many providers don't reply to reviews so in general I wouldn't make too much if there isn't one. Even in cases where most have a reply I wouldn't be too concerned if mine didn't. Obviously if they have heaps of reviews and yours alone didn't get a reply it would give pause for thought.

My #1 provider who I rave about everywhere has 120+ 5.0 reviews and he literally writes a personal reply to each one talking about what he loved about the reviewer.  He is the only one I have ever seen do that and part of why he is so good.  Also, he doesn't have "people" doing it for him like others have managing their online presence, so it's definitely him writing each one. 

7 hours ago, nopelo said:

Truly appreciate your input!

Yours too, I am going to send you a private message so we can carry this conversation on without interrupting the thread.  

3 minutes ago, Snbrd said:

Sorry to hear of DavidsToo experience. I had only positive experiences. Hosting was challenge, I wish he did incalls.

Has he permanently relocated to New York? He's been out of Boston for some time.

 

 

No. Here's just in NYC for a short while (one or two months) and is going back to Boston for a bit, but not sure where after.  Just text him and ask, he always replies fairly quick. 

Some of us have a lot to lose but we also have our own risk/reward tolerances and vet the escort as much as they're vetting us as clients. 

I had one bad experience where an escort I hired to my house for the first time saw my full name on a credit card laying on my table in the hallway. He found me on LinkedIn and started a small extortion scheme because I own a couple companies and he was able to find me in the news, etc.  Upon researching him more on here, I wasn't the first person he tried that with apparently. It was easily nipped in the bud by "my people" (LOL) but it could have gotten out of hand. I'm much more apprehensive these days based on that experience. 

I always look for reviews.  If you have over a dozen good reviews, that is typically a solid way to vet people. Yes, some reviews can be fake or whatever, but the entire rating (Uber, Amazon, etc.) thing really works. That's why it has proliferated into almost every aspect of our lives. So honestly, if you have 50+ 4.9 reviews, you're fucking awesome.  I even know one escort who has 120+ reviews and every single one is 5.0.  Maintaining a 5.0 is extremely hard as you can't please everyone, but there are a handful out there who manage to do just that.  Those are the experts at their craft and worth every single dollar. 

On 4/29/2024 at 4:01 AM, nopelo said:

Oh ok, I thought it was the other way around - impossible to avoid them, lol. 

 

Thanks for the info. I was able to get on the internet a few different ways there but know the drill for sure. I'm fluent in Spanish so that's not a problem. My trips to Cuba have been for adventure, history, culture, etc. I never really tied in sex at all, I suppose I just did a mental block on it. Next time I am there, I am going to remember your post. Just copied and pasted it in my notes app for future reference. 

It's an incredible country if you dig in and get around. I could talk about Cuba for days with people who have been like yourself.  I've been to almost every place on earth (and will do all 193 UN nations before I die) and Cuba ranks up there near #1 for my most favorite of anywhere in the world. So close, so awesome. 

Thanks again. 

Maiconmax -- he is from Boston but is spending a month in NYC.  Great guy, nice hard top, really attractive, passionate, etc.  Check him out. 

On 4/22/2024 at 1:00 PM, nopelo said:

Hello, new to this exciting forum. Please let me know if my netiquette seems off. ; ) 

I'm also new to the rent boy scene, and I travel a lot. So my question is: Where do you think I will find the best selection of monster cock tops at a reasonable price? I also want to avoid hassles (who doesn't?). 

I have only tried RdJ so far, mostly the saunas. I was very impressed by price, convenience and quality, will not hesitate to go back or try another city in Brazil. 

I have been to Cuba and know that generally speaking prices are cheap and guys can be really hung. But never tried any of the rent boys, only for free. 

I know a number of African countries, but again, never tried rent boys, only guys for free. Most guys in Africa will expect something, though, like 10 usd for their taxi ride back or being taken out for dinner (or both). 

My preference is any type of masculine guy who is exceptionally hung, except classic Caucasian. Black, Arab, Latin, Eastern European would be great, and even better if there's a variety of all that. I get on well with straight guys, as long as they kiss and enjoy fucking me. I also prefer sex without condoms. 

I'm thinking that a Latin American country,  or African/ Middle Eastern, or Eastern European might be my next destination. Or just Spain/Portugal. 

Please advice me, and sorry for writing this long entry. Thanks in advance! 

Quick question -- I am an American who has been to Cuba four times (which is really rare). Where are you finding the escorts there?  There's no internet or sites, so word of mouth or do they advertise somewhere, or how are you doing this?  I'm so curious. 

Let me know if you need help getting in touch with him -- I have his contact info and can push that along. You seem genuine. 

He lives on the South Shore (in Weymouth) and will travel all around. He's currently in NYC but should be back soon.  Reach out to him and ask. 

Whatever you do, deal lord just don't do it through text. This is something that will naturally come up during in-person conversations if you get to know him more/better. 

Alright, I am going to go against my general rule and reply: 

I've hired him fairly recently. My advice would be to find someone else. He is hot, yes. Great body, handsome face, all of the above. 

But he's not a great escort. He's only concerned about himself and what he wants. He just doesn't give off the "comfortable" vibe and not for nothing, I can get comfortable with almost anyone in the world.  

Pass and move on.... 

Trevor. 😈

You can search for him on here. He's not active at the moment on RM, but is his personality and his all around genuine and good character is even better than that body. 

Just be honest. Tell them exactly why you aren't able in that moment: "Thanks for the shout. I had an awesome time with you but money on my side is a little tight and I just can't this time around. But please let me know when you're back." 

That should work and any escort who is worth it will respond positively. 

On 2/13/2024 at 12:41 AM, BenjaminNicholas said:

Question:  For $1k, would you also expect 'The News' to be there as well?

I told him I just wanted to hire him for a dinner when I was in his neck of the woods at some point and I remain serious. The reason he is worth the $1k is that we all "know" him from his posts and Twitter. There is insight into his personality and way of thinking and approach to life. 

Personally, I don't have the need to pay for a sexual experience at the moment. I am fulfilled in my life and all my needs are already met in that regard. So the question is, why then, right? Given that, $1k/hr in the "real world" for a "consultant" is absolutely a fair rate on a variety of topics. I know what we would talk about -- and I am 100% confident the conversation would drift into areas or things that I never expected. Hence the worth. He's doing something right.  

His profile has not been active in Boston in the past years. I lived there my whole life and never saw his profile and know almost all the Boston escorts at least by profiles. His profile, from 2015, was somewhere else and just recently switched to Boston but RM doesn't show location history. Take that for what it's worth. 

In another life, I wish I were able to hire Jon Vincent. His voice.... I jacked off to all his porn when I was younger and coming out. He died though -- drugs. Sad. 

+1 on all of the above. He's awesome and hot and comfortable and just generally a great guy. 

22 hours ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

YOU GUYS ARE GETTING TROLLED, AGAIN

 

I don't usually care about getting trolled in these cases. The poster may be fucking with us but the question and concerns are legit. If anything, there are dozens of lurkers on here who read this post and are in the exact same situation and the advice we all have posted help someone else. That's why I love these forums. 

Your post is awesome. Authentic and open and really well done. You came to the right place. 

What city are you in or near if you don't mind me asking? I know a lot of escorts and have a few names that could really really give you an amazing experience but hard to narrow down location wise.  The most important thing is to tell any potential escort that's what youre looking for. In fact, approach them, be respectful, don't waste their time, but ask nicely if they wouldn't mind reading this post and give them a link to it. 

Any escort worth their shit, if you approach them the right way, will spend two minutes to read this post and tell you they can help or pass. It's you being genuine and saying what you want or need -- and that's the entire point of escorts. It's a business and they can help. 

Good luck. Post back (or DM me) with your city, please. 

There isn't a single escort on Rent Men who lists their actual age. Even the truthful ones move the number a year or two to protect their real identity in case someone gets all crazy or to get in that lower bracket search. One of the best escorts I know lists 39 when he is a tad over 40 just for that reason. I suspect he is about 24-25 but puts 19 to get in search results for people who put 20 as the highest age cutoff. 

Da faq is he using the Trump Hotel spa or services? Eh, probably really profitable. All those closeted republicans. 🙄

My mother made a Thanksgiving ham from Honey Baked Ham company. But she also did a turkey. We had both for two decades. So now, my family does both.  Lots of leftover meat for sandwiches and lunches/dinners for up to a week. Win win.  I couldn't imagine just doing the ham without turkey though. Had anyone sat your sister down and laid out the concerns in the context of finding someone else to host.... or else? Maybe she needs straight talk on this one. 

My ex was a cop and a "protector" -- he always slept on the side of the bed closest to the door wherever we were and he wanted it that way. No complaints from me.